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understood this has made the first step toward attaining true, genuine love, and thus also toward lifting 4 WORLD WEARINESS
human soul -- is a major obstacle to attaining real love; and fear can be present only 4 WORLD WEARINESS
for the attainment of a higher consciousness. The attaining of a higher state of consciousness is the 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
to overcome certain faults, and find help in attaining purification. If that knowledge from without is not 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
from the state of detachment so necessary for attaining spiritual and emotional maturity. The other flows freely 18 FREE WILL
strong desire current that they become ruthless in attaining their goal at the expense of others. Again 32 DECISION-MAKING
are: This implies having no illusions about yourself; attaining a healthy attitude toward your shortcomings, and learning 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
of pure love, they are also incapable of attaining ideal marriage. Eros seems in many ways similar 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
realized, neither is the second one, that of attaining perfection in order to obtain the first desire 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
yet know that no one is capable of attaining such perfection. It thinks itself unique in having 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
hearts, that in leaving the old world and attaining the new you have to leave something precious 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
But a leader who sets the example of attaining his goal on the path of development while 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
In this case, people are convinced of never attaining happiness, and this seems to be such a 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
many who desire it are terrified of not attaining it. Therefore they rush right into the negation 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
thought, was your protection and your means of attaining what you desperately wanted -- life, happiness, security 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
that reaches the heavens. It cannot be done. Attaining development and growth requires much less pretentious and 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
one reason or another, you were prevented from attaining it. On the other hand, if you actually 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
so different than before when you thought that attaining the goal would make all the difference in 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
inner conflicts arise from the infant's struggle between attaining pleasure and avoiding pain. The infant's fusing of 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
be so. Such knowingness can come only through attaining it for yourself, from yourself, through yourself, and 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
or not you believe in the possibility of attaining the goal. If not, why do you doubt 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
are an obstruction rather than a help toward attaining what is beneficial. This is what I explained 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
problem, or a link in the chain toward attaining any of these results, the finding and dissolving 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
and lacks awareness, the self-willed, wrong way of attaining selfhood is chosen, instead of true independence. Concomitantly 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
a state beyond your physical life, not in attaining something through arduous means. It lies solely in 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
and powers you have at your disposal for attaining a full, rich life. The imbalance this failure 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL
because you fear the bad and fear not attaining the good. Anything you intensely avoid you must 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
everything that life could ever be. It means attaining one's full selfhood as it is meant to 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE
The meaning of all life is concerned with attaining the state in which the organic process of 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER
inner burden of being puzzled and hopeless about attaining what you deeply yearn for will dissolve. This 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
that the more frustrated you feel for not attaining what you so ardently desire, the greater your 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
life-annihilating. Worrying and anxiety also prevent you from attaining joyousness, peace, and freedom -- the cosmic reality 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
language. Then I shall explain the prerequisites for attaining this cosmic feeling, the four keys which make 200 THE COSMIC FEELING
it is sought as a cheap way of attaining a semblance of universal bliss, which the heart 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
two sides leads to such false ways of attaining the now point. The fall from the bliss 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
the life task is not necessarily contingent on attaining a high state of development. It is quite 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK
of desire contains faith in the possibility of attaining a better state, courage, patience and commitment. Here 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
will create a relaxed inner climate so that attaining the result will not be a question of 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM
you wish to pay in the hope of attaining self-love through others, or placating a benign authority 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
-- whatever it is, it prevents you from attaining the new freedom and joy, the new fulfillment 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE
prevents you from fulfilling all your needs and attaining true expansion. It also makes closeness and intimacy 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
your thirst for being open with others, for attaining intimacy? This longing can never be fulfilled, no 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
attempt to be a little more specific about attaining the new consciousness in which creation is no 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE
yet be capable of taking direct steps toward attaining these states. But the knowledge of their reality 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS
 
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it would be meaningless to strive for the attainment of a higher consciousness. The attaining of a 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
is an instrument of great importance for the attainment of the highest spiritual levels. Do not minimize 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
to others who are still battling for the attainment of this divine grace -- complete faith. Each 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
self; the rechanneling of wrong currents, and the attainment of love, brotherhood, humility, and the union and 36 PRAYER
marriage, the love between two people makes the attainment of union easier than in other relationships such 62 MAN AND WOMAN
it source in God. In this regard, the attainment of self-mastery...there is a confusion here, I 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
given moment, and why. Moreover, why does the attainment seem so important? Consider whether it is really 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
to see how you prohibit or sabotage the attainment of the very thing you desire so much 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
call their goal union, but unification -- the attainment of which is a step closer to union 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
a domineering aggressive, forbidding attitude. This makes the attainment of love impossible. The venture does not seem 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
If you pursue a goal, believing that its attainment will solve your problems, in a sense it 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you will see how your defense-mechanism prohibits the attainment of your deepest goals and desires. You will 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
you fear its absence, nothing will block its attainment. And this is an enormous difference. As long 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
strive for, either because their very striving makes attainment impossible, or, even when they succeed, their inner 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
It is possible right here, right now. Its attainment does not depend on some complicated feat or 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
Each battle indicates another milestone that makes the attainment of the real state of life more secure 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
is, I must attain a new state. Such attainment would be impossible if it did not already 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
blind, and consequently inappropriate overactivity. This obstructs the attainment of pleasure to a considerable degree. Fear of 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
and your escapes. Truly look at yourself. The attainment of pleasure and the state of being in 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
of life. There are some steps in the attainment of this state. The first step on this 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
 
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to describe in theoretical terms, but one who attains a deep understanding will have no difficulty seeing 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
you to a state where the higher self attains these initially childish wishes on a different level 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
can be overcome only when the total personality attains harmony with the energy streamings of cosmic origin 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
 
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cheap if a mere list of faults and attempts to overcome them were all that comprised it 38 IMAGES
on you, and that you have made some attempts in the right direction. It is sufficient to 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
a woman strives for the same end and attempts to achieve it to some degree inwardly. In 62 MAN AND WOMAN
out of this conflict by blind and unconscious attempts to make two mutually exclusive forces serve the 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to what measures you have resorted in your attempts to deal with the need. I have discussed 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
unity of the Christian churches. There have been attempts made by the Pope and his ecumenical call 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
hope of becoming united. In spite of these attempts, the battle still rages between fundamentalism and liberalism 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
as long as it has existed. Unfortunately, these attempts were unsatisfactory and were bound to fail, just 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
were bound to fail, just as your unconscious attempts to solve psychological problems by shortcuts and evasions 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
are two major ways in which the unconscious attempts to cope with death. Both are based on 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
You are torn between two unsatisfactory and damaging attempts to negate death. These artificial, forceful, and cramped 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
to negate death. These artificial, forceful, and cramped attempts bring you so much nearer to what you 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
unconsciously, to find out, you sabotage all your attempts to get to the cause. What is done 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
a sign that the person has made wrong attempts to solve his or her life. When the 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
or her life. When the effects of these attempts and distorted attitudes are sufficiently analyzed, it will 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
the idealized self-image we have discussed are unconscious attempts to cope with life. Because they are erroneous 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
too are trying to serve both needs with attempts that do not even work for one basic 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
as you try to gratify them. Therefore your attempts produce experiences that starve these needs even more 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
are often confused about this. The human struggle attempts to overcome the obstructions that come from unawareness 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
a modified form. You may even have made attempts to compromise between the old and the new 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
what happens in the individual soul. When man attempts to change superficially, he swings from one extreme 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
present society and civilization derive from these first attempts of primitive man to find a mode of 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
end, disappointing. It cannot be otherwise if one attempts to solve a problem by false means. Nevertheless 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
concepts. But concepts, even if they result from attempts of one individual to pass on a true 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
of my friends have made their first struggling attempts on this path to comprehend the principle or 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
reality of the immediate now and therefore new attempts have to be made to get back to 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
and spiritual science have not merged sufficiently. Vague attempts have been made by psychology to grasp this 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
to camouflage this simple process, my friends. Make attempts to find the two factors I have discussed 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
separate, foreign consciousness dwelling within. In the first attempts to bring hitherto unconscious destructive material to the 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
pain of isolation will always push people into attempts to escape from it. When such attempts look 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
into attempts to escape from it. When such attempts look like succeeding, the fear of closeness induces 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
thrown into disorder. Overexertion of the will and attempts to direct it to areas which cannot be 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
of life hinders and confuses you. If one attempts to solve such a problem in an attitude 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT
who work with this -- are they really attempts in that direction? ANSWER: Yes, they are. These 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
you renewed insight and strength, so that your attempts to find yourself -- who you are, where 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
in life. Honesty must prevail to stop one's attempts to cheat life, no matter how subtly. All 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER
the condition is inevitable. Even purely chemical medication attempts to artificially loosen up the cramp and reestablish 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
most difficult barrier to overcome. Once the first attempts are made and the initial inertia overcome, it 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
dependency, your hope, and the more frantic your attempts to please the other who is supposed to 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
less you fulfill your need precisely because your attempts are unrealistic. Consciously you know none of this 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
is all going, my friends. Part of your attempts must therefore go in the direction of bringing 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION
up a familiar one. Crisis in any form attempts to break down old structures based on false 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS
these apparently opposite truths only by your honest attempts to make your own destructiveness conscious without justifying 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED
against people who make you sad. Your mind attempts to justify why you should not have to 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
and its laws and will make easier your attempts to put meditation into practice. Meditation is conscious 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
intellectual, will be very helpful for your further attempts at meditation. Creative meditation thus consists of the 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
daydreaming, fantasizing, illusory hope. All of these are attempts to whisk away hopelessness, which, in turn, exists 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
bear itself. In all these false and dangerous attempts, the entity always seeks to avoid effort, pain 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
and paralyzed feelings, all of which psychotherapy also attempts to do and even posits as its ultimate 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
still not been fulfilled, in spite of ardent attempts on your part, investigate how tight this current 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
the more recent lectures I described how creation attempts to fill the void. Every human being helps 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
on the other person's freedom, or at least attempts to do so. The free, loving attitude characteristic 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
the future, displacement, projection, and denial -- are attempts to get away from the now point, in 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
happens through an often laborious groping search, through attempts of the mind to expand its own narrow 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK
being in their outer consciousness. The personality then attempts to squelch this voice, to escape from it 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK
individual. The new cosmic force has made many attempts to come through, but its meaning is poorly 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
Whenever her sexuality manifested in spite of all attempts to deny it, she experienced it with guilt 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
distinct difference between using this model and forceful attempts to be what you have not yet organically 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
difficult to truly distinguish between actual prying and attempts to violate your privacy, and someone's genuine concern 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
your mind will be stilled. The struggle that attempts to find a way out of the pain 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE

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