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 Attitudes...................710
other people, but more so in one's inner attitudes, feelings, and reactions. Those who will not make 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
person. Now perhaps you can change these emotional attitudes. Of course you cannot make yourselves desire not 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
set in motion by your past actions or attitudes. Your difficulties will substantially diminish when you know 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
you know all your emotions, shortcomings, and wrong attitudes, you will be able to connect all outer 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
weaknesses but also your ignorance and all the attitudes by which you consciously or unconsciously break divine 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
temporary reality you have created by your previous attitudes. If you do just this for some time 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND
who are very similar to yourselves in their attitudes. They may be deceased people who mean well 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
is inevitably called forth by your own inner attitudes. If you meditate about this, about yourself, your 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
times a person is unaware of certain faults, attitudes, opinions, emotional reactions. People carry many of these 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
surroundings and certain happenings in their lives. These attitudes may or may not have had their justification 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
in you of the various feelings, desires, and attitudes. Then you will be able, with the help 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
does not alter its shape according to people's attitudes. In other words, you see this room the 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
world is the outpicturing of the spirit's ideas, attitudes, thoughts, and mentality. There, everything is the result 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
your world because your thoughts, opinions, feelings, and attitudes create the world around you. I might say 18 FREE WILL
development. When you keep in mind that your attitudes, your thoughts, your feelings, your opinions, and your 20 GOD: THE CREATION
all beings, spirit or human -- that your attitudes, your opinions, your feelings, and your thoughts create 21 THE FALL
Fall created new worlds according to their changing attitudes, dark worlds often referred to as Hell. The 21 THE FALL
dark worlds often referred to as Hell. The attitudes of disharmony and hatred created such forms. There 21 THE FALL
set in, but it was revived again as attitudes changed. The latter could only occur as an 21 THE FALL
there were still too many unpurified currents and attitudes in the soul, too many evil desires and 22 SALVATION
are nothing else but the expression of their attitudes, their mentality, their longing, their goals, their feelings 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
is what the motive is, how the spiritual attitudes of everyone involved look to us. Also, you 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
are always inspired according to your aims and attitudes. In the highest spheres the spirits plan with 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
their thoughts, and with their general and particular attitudes. You tend to forget, my friends, that the 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
you have known some of his opinions, his attitudes, that may indicate his spiritual foundation. That will 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
what you cannot change, namely the actions and attitudes of other people and circumstances outside your control 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
rationalizing it away by thinking of the wrong attitudes of others. Instead, ask yourself, What do I 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
the self, of learning humility, and other positive attitudes. Then the obstacles will cease to be obstacles 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
against him. What counts is a person's inner attitudes, feelings, reactions, motives, and sense of responsibility. QUESTION 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
unless they are supported by the right spiritual attitudes. The cure has to start from within by 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
In my previous lectures I have mentioned several attitudes in the human soul which are what you 31 SHAME
as contagious, my friends, as emotions, thoughts, and attitudes, conscious or unconscious. This, too, is a universal 32 DECISION-MAKING
do, but always and solely your own wrong attitudes and inner fights against conditions you cannot change 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
your thoughts, your feelings, your reactions and your attitudes create definite forms that are as substantial and 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
the next life--subject to change according to the attitudes and activities of the being since the plan 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
help you change your inner and often unconscious attitudes rooted in pride, self-will, fear, and error. They 36 PRAYER
that they are accepting life's lessons. Actually negative attitudes are just another way of kicking and struggling 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY
small measure. You recognize some of your wrong attitudes, and you wish to change them with all 38 IMAGES
or to sudden, unexpected experiences. These impressions or attitudes usually take the form of conclusions in the 38 IMAGES
thought out; rather they are emotional reactions, general attitudes toward life. They are not completely devoid of 38 IMAGES
As the years go by, these conclusions and attitudes sink more and more into the unconscious. From 38 IMAGES
a number of divine forces. Thoughts, feelings, and attitudes that are unconnected with an image flow harmoniously 38 IMAGES
include your inability to overcome certain faults and attitudes; your lack of control over certain patterns in 38 IMAGES
a day, an hour exist independently of personal attitudes. The same applies to distance. You also have 39 IMAGE-FINDING
hurts, conflicts, and problems. Regard your wrong inner attitudes as ignorance and error. Actually, that is what 39 IMAGE-FINDING
your motive that counts in all desires and attitudes. Selfishness always depends on the how. To determine 39 IMAGE-FINDING
understand how your hitherto unconscious desires, trends, and attitudes have governed your life. But now that so 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
you said, but how do you justify these attitudes on the part of people who are supposed 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
reaction toward authority remains childish because unconscious compulsive attitudes prevail, then this milestone remains to be reached 47 THE WALL WITHIN
from its mildest form of personal and private attitudes, spanning the whole scale, up to overt social 47 THE WALL WITHIN
other words, if you are driven into certain attitudes by your unrecognized fears, the effect will be 47 THE WALL WITHIN
the same act, have the same motives and attitudes, but recognize your own inner tendencies and currents 47 THE WALL WITHIN
of course, opposed to their acts and wrong attitudes. He could even laugh with them, and also 47 THE WALL WITHIN
slowly begins to take out certain trends and attitudes from behind the wall and transpose them into 47 THE WALL WITHIN
a result of your feelings, your thoughts, emotions, attitudes. It is the sum total of your conscious 47 THE WALL WITHIN
is built up by the person's deeds, thoughts, attitudes and feelings. It does not change quickly, because 47 THE WALL WITHIN
the wrong conclusions that are connected with such attitudes. The important thing is then to think these 47 THE WALL WITHIN
a role in the human psyche. Therefore general attitudes need to be investigated. An attitude to a 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
to acceptance? ANSWER: Each of these basic religious attitudes has a healthy form, which become distorted when 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
and wrong forms of both these basic religious attitudes. The wrong kind of positive thinking is self-willed 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
attitude. So underneath both the positive and negative attitudes something else may be hidden. The important point 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
child you were justified in having certain feelings, attitudes, needs and incapacities which are now obsolete. You 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
In this body are all your emotions, impressions, attitudes and trends, in other words, your true, inner 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
rigid and devoid of aliveness. Different activities and attitudes apply to different phases of one's development. Once 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
This image is basic and determines all other attitudes, images and patterns throughout your life. You should 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
is a direct or indirect result of your attitudes, deeds, thoughts and emotions. As far as the 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
your life force consists of all actions, thoughts, attitudes and emotions that deviate from divine truth, that 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
exists in the mature soul. But wherever unconscious attitudes and currents are distorted, healthy self-love will be 53 SELF-LOVE
of not being accepted and loved. All these attitudes cause self- contempt and feelings of inferiority. You 53 SELF-LOVE
that your wrong thinking, your wrong trends and attitudes, your twisted emotions that have brought you nothing 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
life and seeking the remedy for past erroneous attitudes and concepts is an utterly constructive and strengthening 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
to say to yourself, Yes, these motives or attitudes are wrong, in further honesty you will know 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
to see that there are wrong motives and attitudes in you, but also the additional honesty of 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
so you sabotage it by all these negative attitudes. If you truly wanted a happy outcome, you 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
the Catholic Church, for instance, confused the two attitudes? ANSWER: Very often, indeed. QUESTION: In other words 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
You all know, my friends, that thoughts, feelings, attitudes and convictions create forms -- forms that are 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
world of the spirit. If you harbor truthful attitudes, opinions, convictions and emotions, these forms will exist 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
limited to the length of time that these attitudes in the personality prevail. The stronger these convictions 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
the personality prevail. The stronger these convictions and attitudes, thoughts, and emotions are, the greater is their 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
exist. They are the product of your inner attitudes and convictions, thoughts and emotions. Many of these 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
to grope your way. The more unconscious such attitudes, convictions, and erroneous conclusions are, the more powerful 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
such a happening and your own actions and attitudes. You are so successful in covering up these 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
up all unfavorable incidents with your own wrong attitudes, no matter how wrong the other people may 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
such a wonderful way that all your wrong attitudes will come to the fore, more strongly at 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
misdeeds of others will affect your own wrong attitudes and inner errors. You cannot be affected by 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
the connection between your inner wrong currents and attitudes and the outer unwelcome occurrence, you will come 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
errors, many wrong conclusions, many faults and faulty attitudes. But you will encounter them without a trace 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
at times not even really faults, but mere attitudes, such as a certain shame, a kind of 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
sufficient to see the connection between your erroneous attitudes and outer happenings that heretofore seemed arbitrary. Once 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
heal your soul of all unhealthy and erroneous attitudes and reactions. It is important for your happiness 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
the same with the inner and outer actions, attitudes, and reactions of the human being. By considering 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
discriminate, judge, and choose your own actions and attitudes. You will then be able to re-form your 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
you. Once you find your emotions, reactions, and attitudes that correspond to this misconception, you can reconsider 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
meant in the Scriptures, because the basic spiritual attitudes and laws are completely lacking in what is 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
mechanism of the soul, with all its currents, attitudes and trends, there is no one separate thing 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
are bound gradually to change these elements and attitudes, slowly but surely. You will realize that you 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
yourselves, proving again how contrary your unconscious concepts, attitudes, and ideas may be to your conscious ones 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
their lot is like no one else's. Both attitudes deviate from the truth. In both cases the 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
kinds fall short as parents, and their wrong attitudes, absorbed by the child, will cause hurt and 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
the tool with which to correct the wrong attitudes which create both the inner and the outer 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
in this world than emotions, thoughts, reactions, and attitudes. You can observe that in your everyday life 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
the understanding of your unconscious problems, concepts, and attitudes. Self- knowledge and self-acceptance are the prerequisites. Everything 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
for crass acts. In all your desires and attitudes it is the motive that counts. It always 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
the sphere that is the outpicturing of those attitudes and trends. And therefore the other spheres are 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
will eventually affect your life, your endeavors, your attitudes. But often it is helpful and more effective 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
not getting it. I have often mentioned certain attitudes, which also apply here. So far, you may 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
far, you may not have understood that these attitudes are the result of the forcing current. One 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
real feelings. This also happens with the three attitudes described before. You never allow your feelings to 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
time ago, I mentioned the contagiousness of inner attitudes and reactions. All this is an explanation of 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of this evasion, you create conflicts and wrong attitudes which result in bringing more misery than you 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
movement of your feet symbolizes major changes, decisions, attitudes. All life is differentiated between these two kinds 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
you now know, there are two predominant inner attitudes, currents or forces in the human being. On 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and learn to understand your inner reactions and attitudes, you no longer need to think in terms 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
will shed the pretense of positive and negative attitudes, trends, desires and motivations. Instead you will assume 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
desires and motivations. Instead you will assume genuine attitudes, desires and motivations. These words will make sense 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
produces impatience. It causes you to assume artificial attitudes and emotions. Since neither this desirable world, nor 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
find that if we do shed some negative attitudes, it is so gradual that, even after three 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
bargaining and the interplay of submissive and domineering attitudes. Either attitude can be dominant in one partner 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
as theory but as fact, how reactions or attitudes of your own were responsible for such occurrences 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
face to face in your innermost, hidden conflicts, attitudes, and beliefs, and comprehend the real meaning of 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
well as the results of your past wrong attitudes -- in a spirit of relaxed passivity, while 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
time, if a person heals unhealthy aspects and attitudes of the personality, that person not only becomes 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
manifest the flight from death in their innermost attitudes. It is not what one professes and thinks 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
general. This is sometimes lived out in external attitudes, but most often it is an inner quality 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
through wrong values, wrong systems, wrong education, wrong attitudes. With that recognition the weight will be shifted 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
use for the solution of life's problems. The attitudes of submissiveness, aggressiveness, and withdrawal are the distortions 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
is not easy to detect them since these attitudes are deeply ingrained and seem to have become 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS

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