| Proofs......................10 | |
| the people who want proof -- then the proofs coming from God's enlisted spirits are incomparably more | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| to remain in a state of truth, the proofs that you had desired will come to you | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| a hundred times. But the purpose of such proofs will not be to make you see reality | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| you and to overcome your doubts; rather, the proofs will be more wonderful than you ever dreamed | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| path to God. When you do not need proofs anymore, you will receive them abundantly. These incidents | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| is! And this is one of the many proofs. But people will reach eventually -- and it | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of strength available that is necessary for striking proofs, but who can give you different benefits of | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| open and without prejudice. No matter what startling proofs may occur here or there, someone who does | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| feeling a specific pain; you know by many proofs that this pain must be in you, but | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| faith, you can never doubt this reality. The proofs and the experiences are too real; they tie | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| Propels.....................3 | |
| let me enjoy the all-black. This inner process propels the entire chain reaction into renewed momentum. Because | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| even more. They cannot even understand what power propels them to hold on, almost deliberately, to what | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| and strength. It is an active force that propels itself outward. On the universal level it is | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| Proper......................232 | |
| work of self-healing, one incorporates oneself into one's proper place, and is led into harmony with the | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| you put your intellectual powers: according to their proper function and nature, as wisdom and lawfulness require | 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES |
| can one fulfill one's task to develop one's proper masculinity or femininity when the split we have | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| can help you and guide you on the proper path. There are cases when people think they | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| tends, unfortunately, to generalize everything, instead of making proper distinctions. The contact with God's spirit world is | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| the honesty can be overcome first by the proper meditation about self-honesty, then by asking yourself why | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| Even those already in the process of their proper inner development find themselves occasionally, though less often | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| misunderstood and wrongly applied. To build clean and proper thoughts according to divine law is, of course | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| positive thinking, right as it is in the proper way, you may partly fall into danger by | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| therefore the person is at war within. The proper act becomes an act of necessity, of compulsion | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| will-directing part of the self is on the proper road. What then remains to be accomplished is | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| can, among other things, guide you to the proper human help which you also need in order | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| will you be open and receptive to the proper nourishment with which you can grow spiritually every | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| mentioned. Certainly, people who do not receive the proper spiritual nourishment may still intend to follow the | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| preserved, so to speak, and will have its proper effect at the proper time. So nothing of | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| and will have its proper effect at the proper time. So nothing of that sort is ever | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| accomplished more easily if you would use the proper power in the proper way. You can want | 18 FREE WILL |
| you would use the proper power in the proper way. You can want and will both out | 18 FREE WILL |
| God and His great Plan of Salvation. The proper growth of your community is of imperative importance | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| works both ways. The first step in the proper order is to establish what the issues are | 21 THE FALL |
| you clearly understand this, you can make the proper decision. You will gain clear understanding if you | 21 THE FALL |
| can be quite sure you are on the proper path. But because the temptation is always so | 21 THE FALL |
| and help with the right timing and the proper and necessary guidance and see to it that | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| dangerous. But if it is undertaken in the proper attitude, then the spirit world of God will | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| influences. The choice has to come freely by proper and independent discrimination. As I said, there are | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| able to proceed step by step in the proper direction of inner self-development, of making hidden emotions | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is often timing that is so important: the proper distribution, for instance, of the active and passive | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| from this very imperfection in you. Learn the proper attitude with which to meet your lower self | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| self-recognition and self-understanding, however. This is fundamental. The proper spirit of accepting the lower self with the | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| should help you reach this end. Therefore, the proper attitude for you to take, if you happen | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| capable, with a little willpower and determination and proper organization of your everyday life, to spend an | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| do not evaluate these doubts as to their proper merit. Instead you have them because you are | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| spiritual quest, and wonder how to find the proper person to work with, I advise you to | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| is a training in itself. To have the proper thoughts at the proper time is really nothing | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| itself. To have the proper thoughts at the proper time is really nothing else but a habit | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| to your mood so easily. Ask God for proper understanding and light in this moment. Perhaps you | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| ego can be neutralized. After a while, with proper self-development, objectivity and impartial judgement are attained. If | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| guidance He gives you provided you choose the proper attitude, is nothing. That realization will come to | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| fault. And this will then give you the proper meditation how to handle the fault. And so | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| if you would choose to look in the proper direction. You are simply unaware of it because | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| growth will be brought into awareness at the proper time and in the proper manner. The borderline | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| awareness at the proper time and in the proper manner. The borderline between these three divisions -- | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| redirect your life and put it into the proper channel, so that you can grow in harmony | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| you should. But this love will have its proper value; it will not be your sole anchor | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| what you know in your intellect. So the proper attitude would be to accept what you cannot | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| much more strength left for the good and proper desires where an active force is badly needed | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| then and only then will you have the proper sense of proportion in comparing yourself to others | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| it will be easy to direct them into proper channels. When you are capable of really and | 31 SHAME |
| The subject discussed in this lecture, concerning the proper decisions, will shed a light on this too | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| be done. Then, when this is conscious, the proper procedure would be to say to yourself, But | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| has an effect on others. What should our proper attitude be in a case like this toward | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| you. Those, however, who are ready for the proper kind of self-occupation, should of course also think | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| not. Only when you accept yourself in the proper way will you be able to accept others | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| produces a lack of harmony, which must influence proper judgment. Only when the character becomes more harmonized | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| and this of course takes considerable time. The proper choice of parents, nationality, religion into which to | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| needs for growth. Fewer, indeed, will present the proper environment for a spirit who has more to | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| the fullness of life, which alone is the proper basis for finding the Lord. Looking upon humanity | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| have many good reasons to wish for the proper organization of such a service. We spirits of | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| fulfillment like the person who has learned what proper prayer is and practices it. I will now | 36 PRAYER |
| are always temptations. You have to find a proper balance. By routine I mean that you go | 36 PRAYER |
| have made the first step toward your own proper purification; the wrong thoughts and feelings that you | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| you further guidance and lead you to the proper person with whom you can cooperate in your | 38 IMAGES |
| All of you, without exception, know what the proper action is, and most of the time you | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| time you try your best to perform only proper actions. But none of you are as yet | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| over it. And then you will have the proper attitude toward pain. Only by accepting pain -- | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| not shirking its hardships, then you have the proper and healthy attitude that must be pleasing to | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| a sickly way. There is a right and proper kind of self-love. Cowardice is nothing but self-pampering | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| peace until starting to work toward achieving a proper balance. In the third category is the will-type | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| channel, at least in some respects, while the proper functioning is insufficient and does not apply to | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| this harmony to some extent at least, the proper balance between reason, emotion, and will has to | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| of all this will help you build the proper concept in yourself -- and this will enable | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| the malady is first to prepare for the proper reception of the life force. The first step | 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE |
| you that which knows how to keep the proper balance. Your true self is neither as good | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| a person is so concerned to have the proper attitude to guard against failure or disappointment, it | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| out of wrong motives, you will think the proper change is to do the wrong thing out | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| It is most important to understand that the proper formation of an intellectual concept should never be | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| The resisting emotions do not care whether the proper concept is obvious or not. In either case | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| to be earned in order to formulate the proper concept, even in your intellect, to begin with | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| being childish and unreasonable. As far as the proper concept of God is concerned, this is certainly | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| subject of justified and unjustified guilt-feelings and the proper attitude toward shortcomings. If your faults depress you | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| and thereby inflict harm on your soul. The proper and constructive attitude toward your own shortcomings is | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| independent. In order to help you find the proper concept of God, I will try to speak | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| but each of you has to find the proper balance in yourselves by realizing toward which one | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| find the truth that will then govern your proper outer conduct. If you are honest with yourself | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| currents of distorted self- love. First find the proper concept and see how it works when twisted | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| remedy. For the lack of self-respect -- the proper kind of self-love -- you try to substitute | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| Find rather where you lack self-love in the proper way and it will automatically reduce your distorted | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| in love with it, so to speak. The proper kind of self-love is the natural attribute of | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| of your personality. Not loving yourself prohibits your proper functioning. It prohibits your capacity to love and | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| distorted self-love. People often agonize about making the proper decision when they have to consider their own | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| to the inability to make decisions. Lack of proper self-love on the one hand and an overgrown | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| in each case. If you pay yourself the proper respect, you will cease to demand an extra | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| ability to recognize such hidden reactions in the proper spirit, will contribute to your mental, emotional, and | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| succeeds at all -- and to give it proper direction by recognizing its deeper meaning. It is | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| are interdependent. If there is deviation from the proper working of one principle, the other two will | 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES |
| can be your medicine if you have the proper attitude toward life and want self-responsibility. Otherwise, hardship | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| in yourself. I repeat, if you have the proper attitude, the more disadvantageous the recognition, the more | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| less or more in order to get the proper supply of oxygen into your lungs? No. You | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| and unrealizable concept of happiness and build the proper, mature, realistic, and realizable concept. This will be | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| to be true. All you need is the proper interpretation of your reactions and feelings in certain | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| will not help you either. But with the proper method, and most of all, with your will | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| them without a trace of guilt. With the proper attitude, you accept your inadequacies and face up | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| only be done by hard work in the proper direction and by your utter resolve to find | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| to bring them out into the light. The proper attitude would be when the low tide comes | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of this unhappy pattern will cease and the proper proportion will prevail in judging other people, principles | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| symbol. It is only a question of the proper balance and distribution. I might add here that | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| your judgment and common sense to find the proper balance between work, spiritual unfoldment, rest and pleasure | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| discuss willpower. One often hears that with the proper application of willpower practically anything can be achieved | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| you examine your feelings and reactions in the proper light. Each one of you has surely experienced | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| you be in a position to make the proper choices and so receive the proof that your | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| answers. In that case, questioning yourself in the proper way will bring you closer to the inner | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| certain and truly independent. That is the only proper approach to all the help that is being | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you genuinely trust others, you will have the proper discrimination and judgment and will attract a good | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| to the surface and view them in the proper light, just as you have learned to do | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| Both have many subdivisions and many layers. By proper observation and concentration, you will gradually learn to | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| will experience as being true, if you learn proper self-observation. Foreground, that is, voluntary thought, is always | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| love and the immature, over-demonstrative variety offered instead. Proper guidance and security are the parents' responsibility and | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| words will enable them to proceed in the proper direction. For others who are not yet that | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| aim in this work is to achieve a proper balance. In many instances a person is more | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| which exist in addition to the conscious and proper outer ones. If you learn to be utterly | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| on the real meaning of life. With the proper outlook, you are bound to approach and finally | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| advance planning for the next incarnation. Only when proper self- evaluation is still lacking do the higher | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| connection. The work itself guides you in the proper direction, as my friends have often noticed. When | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| incidents which could truly become an experience by proper assimilation, you are bound to exert a similar | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| underlying incorrect attitude. This, and this alone, is proper assimilation of life and its experiences. You often | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to build it up. With such honest self-appraisal, proper decisions must finally result, and lead to ability | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| participation. But when the work proceeds in the proper direction, then the resisting part sends out danger | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| better people get along with each other through proper cooperation and communication, the better will the community's | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| altogether different from the distorted one. Thus a proper inner balance will begin to take place. You | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| destructive emotions will not only appear at the proper time and in the proper place, but you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| appear at the proper time and in the proper place, but you will be able to handle | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| and to many of you. For, with the proper development and work, the nucleus of the inner | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| in awareness. With awareness, you can reach a proper combination of activity and passivity, action and inaction | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| fear and anxiety are gone. In making a proper and mature choice you can distinguish between that | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| but repressed forces can be brought into their proper channels so that they can work constructively for | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| from seeing your possibilities and potentials in making proper choices. All this comes about because your entire | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| himself and become a martyr. There exists a proper and healthy aggressiveness and assertiveness. When aggressiveness is | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| be fearful, even if your actions are entirely proper and conform to the commandments. The final authority | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| this wrong? Second: is it possible that with proper guidance this marriage could turn out well? Is | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| work together, however, you have learned that the proper growing process is to admit to yourself that | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| the slightest difference. I am pointing to the proper combination of wanting and willing, while letting free | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| inwardly to just the right degree, to the proper balance. Needless to say, this cannot be learned | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| can be destructive when not used for their proper purpose, as is the general way in your | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| glimpse and sense of it that facilitates the proper attitude toward one-self. This genuine God-experience is being | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| many of one's friends suffer, what is the proper attitude? ANSWER: I will be glad to give | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| truthful with yourself and admit that your very proper and correct behavior is often not dictated by | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| kind of meditation and thought process, and the proper observation of your reaction whenever you come close | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| Therefore, one has to proceed with caution, use proper timing in approaching this deepest cause of human | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| a result of broader knowledge used without the proper understanding. The links between new knowledge in certain | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| and productive. Whenever energy is used in its proper channel, it replenishes itself automatically. But when it | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| Always use your new understanding in conjunction with proper meditation. These lectures can be regarded as meditations | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| the faulty perception, how it continues to impede proper interpretation and assimilation of new experiences. You will | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| assimilate it, to sort out error from truth, proper perception from misinterpretation. How can you perceive that | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| This may prepare the way and create the proper climate. It goes without saying that what is | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| It implies lack of consciousness, for in consciousness, proper understanding could be applied, so that the movement | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| It is often quite impossible to establish the proper climate in which to function erotically, because complete | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| phase must be reexperienced and seen in its proper light, my friends. Many of you are approaching | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| the child leaves infancy behind and enters childhood proper, it has to learn consideration of others and | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| as an adolescent. In adolescence you could, with proper guidance and education, begin to channel your forces | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| other sex and fear of not fulfilling one's proper role as a man or a woman. Such | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| blurs one's memory of past victory; of the proper procedure of prayer, meditation, and daily review; of | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| finding the answer to the barrier. Pose the proper questions, realizing that you must not shy away | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| with the life force. It indicates humility and proper self-evaluation. It means that you can stop struggling | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| given up so that the person can assume proper self-government. It is the same way with God's | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| point: the mending of split concepts through the proper soul movements. This, in turn, enables you to | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| the real self. This organically results in the proper balance between self-and other-centeredness. Others deserve the same | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| you have reached the fine point of a proper balance of control, and gain forever greater powers | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| I am speaking of inner soul movements. In proper balance there is calmness; without strain, you let | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| it is important to understand and express the proper balance between the self and the universal powers | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| versus the other. In order to comprehend the proper balance, it is necessary to understand the function | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| concepts compares to planting the seeds. Cultivating the proper attitude and patiently waiting until the seed has | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| wants a certain plant, he must sow the proper seed, but it is not up to him | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| supposed to do the work for you. The proper balance is perfect activity in a relaxed, unstrained | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| soil depends on you. This goes with a proper sense of limitation of your functions and powers | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| as it is meant to be used, with proper recognition of the creation which constantly takes place | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| gather inner forces and direct them into the proper channels. Your intent must be clearly formulated to | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| mind and your innermost self is finding the proper rhythm and balance between impressing and expressing, finding | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| when you use the ego faculties in their proper way, even getting out of the way and | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| of yourself by using your ego in the proper way. Bring your personal problems, my friends. We | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| and when to use outer will in the proper way -- is no longer a problem. Nor | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| same process of conceiving, formulating and activating the proper thoughts and will, of calling forth the inner | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| human being needs and wants love. When a proper balance of control exists in this respect, you | 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL |
| you feel it, you have to seek the proper way in your momentary phase of the pathwork | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| to do, say, or undertake at precisely the proper moment. Nothing stands in the way. Things fall | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| but not difficult either, if approached with the proper attitude. Once you are aware of your specific | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| existence. Once you learn to search in the proper direction, you will find what you seek. I | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| of the mind, so as to set the proper direction. Your mind can nurture brooding thoughts which | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| testing of a relaxed discipline, alternating with a proper letting go. Neither attitude can ever be harmful | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| rage is admitted and fully experienced under the proper circumstances in a way that is not destructive | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| not fulfilled and it is not given the proper sustenance, so the human soul becomes thwarted when | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| vanish as you express your negativity under the proper circumstances, and as this fear vanishes, the new | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| and is in fact a hindrance to the proper conceiving of life's potentials. You need to have | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| natural action comes in its own time. The proper interaction of tension and relaxation is the pulsation | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| with life and with yourself arises from the proper relationship between the active and passive principles. When | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| Each step involves both movements or attitudes. Their proper interaction is the creative power that brings something | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| as it manifests, so that you establish the proper relationship of tension and relaxation in your approach | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| good again in themselves after having lost their proper course. This is, once again, a demonstration of | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| of these opposites is a harmonious balance of proper self-responsibility and a freedom from assuming the burdens | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| of universal law and creation. What determines the proper function of the life force in the human | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| functioning of the energy centers -- and therefore proper assimilation of the life force? It depends entirely | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| sacrifice give way, fullness of experience arises. The proper functioning of the life centers is impossible when | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| effective. To make this fight productive, to create proper self-acceptance that does not deteriorate into self-indulgence, you | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| awareness of these destructive aspects and of the proper method to handle them. Whenever you are in | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| to their lack of luck in meeting the proper partner with whom they could realize these fantasies | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| conscious of them, if you understand them in proper proportion to the reality of the vaster scheme | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| itself automatically as a result of awareness and proper perception. But if the self is too vain | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| be lost in them, and therefore cannot attain proper self-identification. Although your desire to hide the destructive | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| patterns to a new goal. To whatever degree proper self-identification has not taken place, and you find | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you can then apply to your life. The proper direction is twofold. First you need a commitment | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| mind may be active enough to formulate the proper concepts, they may imprint strongly, but inwardly nothing | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| whatever else you are concerned with. Visualization follows proper conceiving. Conceiving means considering the desired state or | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| meditation for fulfillment will immediately bring about the proper concept, with impressing and being impressed, visualizing and | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| unfulfillment with a mate, or lack of the proper mate? Ask yourself: what is your intentionality in | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| of the most important attitudes to acquire for proper self-respect and self-acceptance is the ability to admit | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| but can let go and give in. The proper balance will come from your core in specific | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| Every particle in it is always in its proper place. Infinitesimal little cogs and wheels mesh, interact | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| the desired state is essential for imprinting the proper concept on your mind. This map, or blueprint | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| little by little can a person build the proper concepts so as to be able to recognize | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| journeying from one incarnation to the next. The proper exemplary figures set off a spark of recognition | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| continual process of actualizing divine life is the proper balance of everything: the balance of assertion and | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| is appropriate comes from within. Or consider the proper balance of right selflessness and right selfishness, as | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| you know yourself do you gradually gain a proper perspective and perception of life and its relation | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| contributed to the failures and what to the proper execution? Where may more challenge be needed and | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| the best and the worst in you in proper proportions, you recognize the best and worst in | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| has to do in order to become a proper channel for the God consciousness. You do this | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| example the balance between rest and wakefulness. The proper personal balance may vary from individual to individual | 228 BALANCE |
| relaxes them. If you combine the two in proper balance, then you have action and effort that | 228 BALANCE |
| and is unwilling to even consider is the proper attitude toward frustration. We have discussed this before | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| first and see your private world in its proper perspective. This will bring a wonderful new balance | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| maturity of their mental processes so that a proper evaluation of the feelings can take place. It | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |
| that you cannot really put it in the proper words. Try, and the words will come. You | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| with your leaders and your followers. Without that proper center of gravity in God, you will always | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |