| Pseudo-love.................3 | |
| no love under superimposed levels of pseudo-faith and pseudo-love. Only after fully understanding the inner causes, misconceptions | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the protection, and the real as well as pseudo-love enjoyed in childhood, is connected with the hurts | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| stripping off your superimposed layers of pseudo-goodness and pseudo-love. However, you have not yet quite succeeded in | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| Pseudo-masterful............1 | |
| quite different from the kind of activating the pseudo-masterful man issues forth. He has an attitude that | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| Pseudo-necessity............1 | |
| joyful life becomes when you dispense with the pseudo-necessity of pursuing negative aims. Wanting to defeat life | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| Pseudo-need.................1 | |
| exist. These two elements are mutually exclusive. The pseudo-need for manipulation, if you examine it, stems from | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| Pseudo-needs................1 | |
| already answered. Manipulation happens out of defensiveness and pseudo-needs. The one that is manipulated, whether or not | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| Pseudo-positive.............1 | |
| all this represents danger. Instead of real or pseudo-positive emotions, they will manufacture a hardness and aggressiveness | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| Pseudo-protection...........6 | |
| but cannot fulfill. The price for your unconscious pseudo-protection is the frustration of the legitimate desire. This | 38 IMAGES |
| the real person, hidden behind the layers of pseudo-protection which are always wrong solutions to life. Once | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| creation of the idealized self-image as a universal pseudo-protection. They never realize that this very countermeasure not | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| one. This current may be some sort of pseudo-protection. It may fulfill a certain false need. Find | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| a friend who is absent. The need for pseudo-protection originates in the creation of an image. Can | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| as a protection for the self -- a pseudo-protection of course. At times, the very same person | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| Pseudoprotections...........1 | |
| There will be none of the petty defenses, pseudoprotections, and pretenses that one who distrusts life inevitably | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| Pseudo-protections..........1 | |
| At that moment you understand how strenuous the pseudo-protections and pseudo- solutions are. How much more easily | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| Pseudo-protective...........1 | |
| Here the too great resistance of the brittle pseudo-protective wall has similar effects to that of the | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| Pseudo-reasons..............1 | |
| this topic and have found many reasons or pseudo-reasons why people believe they must protect themselves from | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| Pseudo-religion.............1 | |
| true, individual spirituality and the escape into a pseudo-religion out of weak motivations. This lack of discrimination | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| Pseudo-safeties.............1 | |
| is extend your hand and relinquish your old pseudo-safeties. Be in peace. Be in God! 100. MEETING | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| Pseudo-safety...............7 | |
| You would always remain a cripple in the pseudo-safety of utter reliance upon another authority. This is | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a threat to people. They want the fixed pseudo-safety of a stone wall on which they can | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| because you let life pass by in the pseudo-safety of solitary confinement. This is why we are | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| to hold on to self-protective behavior in the pseudo-safety of isolation. However, you cannot risk revealing yourself | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| the child shies away from it, preferring the pseudo-safety of restriction, inhibition, dependency, pleasurelessness. When that state | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| always requires relinquishing the negative pleasure and the pseudo-safety. The soul then becomes ready to learn, experiment | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| in this state, but still believes that the pseudo-safety of this cramped, fearful position is preferable to | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| Pseudo-satisfactions........1 | |
| can you wish to abandon negative pleasure, the pseudo-satisfactions of your pretenses, your role-playing, your defenses? How | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| Pseudo-security.............3 | |
| less contentment will the soul find in the pseudo-security of separateness. Even an otherwise thoroughly self-centered person | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| in their lives. They content themselves with the pseudo-security of separateness and aloneness, for this offers less | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| again and be hurled back into the old pseudo-security of your negativity. Again and again you will | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| Pseudo-self.................1 | |
| covered up by the false layer of a pseudo-self. Another factor that contributes to prohibiting strength is | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Pseudo-selflessness.........1 | |
| universe. You may conceal this inhibition under a pseudo-selflessness which may, in fact, be more selfish than | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| Pseudo-solution.............50 | |
| can be used as a rationalization for the pseudo-solution of withdrawal from life because the negative unconscious | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| how much superfluous energy you put into the pseudo-solution that you unconsciously thought would work for you | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| them. There are many, many aspects to this pseudo-solution. Painstakingly, you have to find them in the | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| in their psyche. The extent to which this pseudo-solution is predominant varies with each individual. So does | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| much easier to find when one type of pseudo-solution is very dominant in the personality. In most | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| be true if it is used as a pseudo-solution, such a person must also fall short of | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| again according to your personality structure and chosen pseudo-solution. If your pseudo-solution is the quest for power | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| your personality structure and chosen pseudo-solution. If your pseudo-solution is the quest for power, then your reaction | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| two directions, toward others and yourself. If your pseudo-solution is the quest for serenity, you will deny | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| what you chose as salvation and safety: the pseudo-solution. It makes change, growth, and liberation extremely difficult | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| of distorted soul forces lie in eliminating the pseudo-solution and replacing it with truth, which is always | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| say here presents only a general outline. The pseudo-solution has to be found in its particular form | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| distorted instinct of self-preservation will lead to the pseudo-solution of a quest for power, with all its | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| of the procreation instinct becomes conducive to the pseudo-solution of submissiveness, compliance, appeasement. The quest for love | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| be loved and thus receive pleasure. The third pseudo-solution, namely, withdrawal, the quest for serenity, is secondary | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| If the distorted instinct of self-preservation and its pseudo-solution, the quest for power, predominate, a vital part | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| If the distorted instinct of procreation and its pseudo-solution, the quest for love, predominate, vulnerability and helplessness | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| subtly the belittling is done. Those whose predominant pseudo-solution is a quest for love to obtain pleasure | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| the individual. Beware of rigid evaluation that each pseudo-solution contains only one distorted instinct. It is not | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| and pseudo-solutions. They do not realize that any pseudo-solution produces an unhealthy dependence on others, regardless of | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| aware of the next layer and its predominant pseudo-solution. You will also find other defense mechanisms. You | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| at straws. COMMENT: Right. You see, any such pseudo-solution is always a grasping at straws because the | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| you from destructive guilt feelings about the original pseudo-solution you have clung to. Then, you could not | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| bring into clear focus the false value and pseudo-solution and show how illusory both are. Depression sets | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| illusory both are. Depression sets in because the pseudo-solution and the goal seem difficult to attain. You | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Let us suppose the false goal of the pseudo-solution that you attempt is to be approved of | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| self-image that you establish; this attitude represents your pseudo-solution. Your pseudo- solution, in turn, represents the predominant | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| damage you have inflicted upon yourself with this pseudo-solution, and go on inflicting upon yourself as long | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| it came as a necessary byproduct of your pseudo-solution, and with this defense mechanism at work the | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| age. Another reason for resorting to this unsuccessful pseudo-solution is the following: as in everything else, feeling | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| result of all this seems to confirm your pseudo-solution, your defense mechanism, but this is a very | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| whatever the various pseudo-solutions are. Even if the pseudo-solution is submissiveness, which seems so opposite to the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| longer want to fulfill those needs through a pseudo-solution. You do not have to take recourse to | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| particularly for a person who has chosen the pseudo-solution of power. Not to be helpless does not | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| plans. On the contrary, if you adopt the pseudo-solution of power, you are more dependent than most | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| your emotions. The overdramatization is connected with the pseudo-solution of power. The repression of feelings is connected | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| The repression of feelings is connected with the pseudo-solution of withdrawal, false serenity, escape from living and | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| all that you wish to avoid. When your pseudo-solution is a withdrawal from feeling, from loving, and | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| in greater detail a little later. If your pseudo-solution is submissiveness, weakness, helplessness and dependency as a | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| a neurotic, unreal situation. You choose either the pseudo-solution of aggressiveness, or withdrawal from life, or appeasement | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| apathy that I just mentioned. Sloth represents the pseudo-solution of withdrawal from living and loving. Where there | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| even if non-involvement is being used as superficial pseudo-solution. In the new state of the real self | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| soul itself. But the particular choice of the pseudo-solution is an expression, or manifestation, or indication, of | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| suspicious, guilty, and resentful; because some image or pseudo-solution is at work. You have, again, a correct | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| resistance that is in your way. Each personal pseudo-solution is a way you have to eliminate your | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| your obstructions on the way to specialness. Which pseudo-solution you have chosen depends on individual character traits | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| inner being where you still live in the pseudo-solution of loving yourself by indulging yourself, by blaming | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| honoring yourself the more. The tragedy of this pseudo-solution to your self-hate is that as long as | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| or someone outside. In such instances the old pseudo-solution is still coveted, if only in the form | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| living is a much headier wine than any pseudo-solution could ever be. Those who have begun to | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |