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 Pseudostrength..............1
the fear of a weak ego by overstressing pseudostrength. Both attitudes may result in similar problems of 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
 
 Pseudo-strength.............3
hide it behind a mask of aloofness and pseudo-strength. Another will hide it behind a superimposed layer 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
self-assertion, when you submit in evident weakness. This pseudo-strength is, in reality and essence, just as weak 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING
of true dignity and self-value. It is a pseudo-strength that comes from the weakness of insisting on 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
 
 Pseudo-wisdom...............1
them your puny ego logic, ego law, and pseudo-wisdom. For feelings are an expression of the creative 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF
 
 Pseudo-yes-current..........1
the difference between the tight, anxious, doubtful, greedy pseudo-yes-current and the relaxed, calm inner knowledge of all 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
 
 Psyche......................310
has allowed humanity to make discoveries about the psyche, the unconscious. Though the knowledge is still scant 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
a foretaste of unity and teaches the fearful psyche the longing for it. The more strongly one 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
lead you to the very recognitions that the psyche wishes to avoid. When you have decided for 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
and concepts play a role in the human psyche. Therefore general attitudes need to be investigated. An 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
you speed up all succeeding lives because your psyche becomes impregnated with the process of self-search. It 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
dearly creates an important conflict in the human psyche. It is self-evident that the child feels ashamed 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
various ways, either by physical disease that the psyche produces, or by various mishaps, difficulties, failures, or 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
God is not what is experienced in the psyche. Then the person turns away from God altogether 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
area, the less will the environment influence the psyche. Other factors also play a role. For instance 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
entirely be eradicated, no matter how sick the psyche may be in other ways. Thus, these two 53 SELF-LOVE
a change and a cure of his sick psyche. Homosexuality, by the way, is also one of 53 SELF-LOVE
Self-destructive and self-punishing forces, brought forth by the psyche the moment a wrong motive is registered, may 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
this: it creates a further conflict in the psyche. The stronger the mass image of self-importance and 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
freely expressed in infancy, remains hidden in the psyche of the adult and continues to produce similar 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
in an extremely unhealthy and damaging way. The psyche argues: Since I cannot avoid unhappiness, I may 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
it has to come out of your own psyche, whether due to spirit instruction during sleep, or 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
always a symbol for the spirit and the psyche. Now, to come back to your question: The 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
ashamed. QUESTION: Many times you stated that our psyche is in some way an electromagnetic field. Is 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY
you aware of what the inner person, your psyche, thinks, wants and feels. This is often contrary 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
wish for sickness. In this part of your psyche you still hope that what you want can 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the particular wish. In short, the healthier your psyche, the better your inner will can function. The 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
better your inner will can function. The unhealthy psyche is always confused, not only about others and 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
life exist in the same measure as the psyche doubts himself or herself. If you find the 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
gnawing guilt persists. It is as if the psyche says: You have not come to the roots 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a real guilt. It is as though the psyche says: I produce this guilt so that I 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
be unloving is a desirable state. The child's psyche says: If I am unloving, I will be 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
child's mind. No conflict that arises in the psyche is utterly meaningless, although the emotions can be 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
with this betrayal locked in your soul. Your psyche says: How can I trust myself knowing that 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
not only apply to the fields of the psyche, it is just as important with any kind 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
the truthful concepts be gradually implanted in the psyche. Therefore our work until now dealt mainly with 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
than you realize. It also affects your own psyche by suppressing your personal unfoldment, creativity, and expression 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
life plan. In order to fulfill it, your psyche clamors demandingly that you proceed in a certain 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
you now -- indicating a disturbance in your psyche -- discard them quietly, without getting impatient with 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
separate this approach from the conflicts of your psyche. They are intimately connected, which becomes apparent when 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
person who does not resist inwardly. When the psyche is only half willing to allow you to 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
The problems would have come up anyway. Your psyche, which is far more knowing and far-seeing than 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
bound to occur soon. The knowledge in your psyche led you to be on such a path 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
and in the measure of your wish. Your psyche knows very well how to distinguish between healthy 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
the way your soul yearns for it. The psyche discounts the value of the latter, but does 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
the fore. Something is triggered off in the psyche, entirely unknown to the conscious mind of the 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
hardship becomes so difficult to bear that the psyche puts up a sickness which disappears the moment 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
do anything to remove the core. Thus, the psyche reacts often to the best interest of the 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
I said, only a personal investigation into the psyche could furnish the answer. QUESTION: I would like 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
then that with this unconscious demand in your psyche you are afraid to love? Since your concept 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
do not know what. One part of your psyche sabotages the rightful demands of the other part 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
you rely on your judgment and intuition? Your psyche knows perfectly well that the way you perceive 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
own subconscious, strengthening the healthy aspect of your psyche, and weakening the aspects that are unhealthy, childish 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
transition, so to speak. Imagine the entire personality, psyche or mind, both conscious and unconscious, as a 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
go deep enough, will always get to the psyche and reveal the essential spiritual truths, as proclaimed 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
it, the more potent it is within your psyche. Unconsciously, you feel that getting your will is 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
sure that this trend must exist within your psyche. In other cases, such a fear may be 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
For the divine laws work eternally within the psyche and this will be more and more discovered 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
lower self, higher self, inner self, mask self, psyche and all. Could you straighten me out? ANSWER 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of the present in your individual work. The psyche indicates your inner world of feeling and reacting 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
yourself. But do not forget that the human psyche is habit-bound; it is geared to function in 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
asking questions. It is as though the resisting psyche is so afraid to reveal the sore point 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
today uses shock treatment. Could that damage the psyche and the subtle bodies? ANSWER: Yes, it does 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
and often do, damage parts of the human psyche and subtle bodies. QUESTION: I saw in the 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
exclusive ways presents a particular hardship for the psyche. Needless to say, the conscious awareness of this 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
in detail about how they work in the psyche, how they form a supposed solution, and how 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
will find aspects of this submissiveness in their psyche. The extent to which this pseudo-solution is predominant 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
so strong that many repercussions occur within the psyche. I don't want you to misunderstand me as 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
supreme may seem to be expedient because the psyche may feel endangered if it were to give 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
error is all the more tragic because the psyche falsely believes that being self-centered will preserve its 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
all its demands, aggressiveness, and power drive. The psyche thinks: If I assert myself and my power 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
danger comes not in the sense that the psyche believes, but in a very different sense: from 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
between such mutually exclusive aims and solutions, the psyche seeks compromise solutions. Such compromise may assume various 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
part of the inner organism. This damages the psyche and the whole structure of the individual. A 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
from the predominant aims and needs of the psyche. Since most adults live in daydreams in one 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
to make you restless and disharmonious. Now the psyche feels, I have received what I thought I 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
one's will would be very humiliating. Therefore the psyche pretends to accept these rules for the sake 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
a form of temper tantrum in which the psyche says, You see, you have forced me to 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
this destructive defense until such time as the psyche is ready to do without it. This is 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
choice. A festering, twisted condition prevails in the psyche leading to a host of further conflicts which 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
it comes to the subtleties of the human psyche, misunderstandings and misinterpretations are even more apt to 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
of primary and secondary reactions. The healthier a psyche is, the more free it is of the 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
recognize what causes this complete twist in your psyche and how it manifests in many areas, and 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
Observation of this process, understanding of why the psyche retains it, will produce results. Battling it forcefully 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
you the very protection you seek causes the psyche to resist. Yet such states of struggle are 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
would be compulsive and indicate, somewhere in the psyche, a wrong approach to God, to universal law 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
separated from this current by obstructions in the psyche, such as selfishness, egocentricity, fearfulness and cowardice. Every 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
as long as it still seems necessary. Your psyche will give it up to the degree that 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
break out of the destructive pattern. Since your psyche refuses to be cheated of real living, the 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
experience in fantasy. It is as though your psyche said, As long as I do not face 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
living may indicate that a part of the psyche is not reconciled to living. Too little daydreaming 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
this is enjoyed on some level of the psyche, then we are dealing with masochism, no matter 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
to cope with the afflicted area of your psyche. First, let us briefly recapitulate. To begin with 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
When a certain dissolution has taken place, the psyche is ready to cross the threshold. But the 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
your soul have to be experienced until your psyche is truly equipped to make the best of 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
and frustration have afflicted the resiliency of your psyche and made you incapable of properly dealing with 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
ability to give could never grow within your psyche. However, during all the work you have done 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
danger are used in other situations, the human psyche is distorted and put out of balance. Looking 101 THE DEFENSE
are among the difficult intricacies of the human psyche. The more you understand the limitless possibilities and 101 THE DEFENSE
self-concern. Yet there is another part of the psyche that realizes that only in happiness can one 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
outside of yourself, but embedded in your own psyche. There is a vast difference between the perfectionistic 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
as any commandments, represent universal tendencies. The human psyche is not separated into clearly defined compartments, one 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
the unclarity produces a thick haze in your psyche, an unhealthy climate that hinders your self-expression. If 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
sadism. No. But since everything in the human psyche is interconnected, in some instances one may find 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
to do this, forever deeper levels of his psyche become liberated. In this liberation, genuine God-experience is 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
problem in your work. Every affliction of the psyche hinders living. It does so because it prevents 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
Therefore nothing is really resolved yet. The immature psyche always fluctuates between underestimation and overestimation. Neither is 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
that smolder closer to the surface of the psyche. These little and unjustified guilts substitute for the 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
such defenses exist? They exist because the troubled psyche seeks a solution, but the message is misunderstood 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
message is misunderstood by the conscious mind. The psyche says, Give up your defenses against loving. Do 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
material is particularly directed to areas of the psyche that are accessible only after certain obstructions have 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
indicate. Self-exploration and facing lesser evils make the psyche strong enough to face very unflattering truths. Such 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
wish affects the person and works in the psyche. Extending such wishes, as much as one can 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
as well as the illusory crutches that the psyche has built up as a substitute for true 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
is one of the destructive aims of the psyche to deliberately dull itself not only to one's 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
warding-off process in such a suffering reaction. The psyche says, I cannot take it. I may be 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
extreme distress and sorrow, while in reality the psyche did commit sin. This discrepancy has to be 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
being on the lookout for signs that your psyche resists such change; the recognition of your fright 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
growth and functioning of other aspects of the psyche. To deal with an experience that would normally 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
the effect is bound to be detrimental, the psyche seeks a remedy. Such unconsciously sought remedies are 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
on earth with material means. The spirit, the psyche, is, of course, capable of experiencing this. In 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME
an invalid. Both depend on others. The resisting psyche is therefore not only the child that has 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
When fear of true deep feelings vanishes, the psyche no longer needs to produce falsely positive feelings 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
proves that you are still convinced that your psyche, your entire personality in fact, is divided into 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
thoughts may not be conscious, but affect the psyche when sufficient insight has been reached. Some of 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
and of the battles going on in the psyche. We have discussed this all-important topic before, but 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
of your being. In some areas of your psyche you are quite free and function without clinging 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
may have to be repeated because usually the psyche is not ready to face all its pretenses 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
create as many problematic conditions in the child's psyche as hurts and frustrations do. If parents are 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
derive from overindulgence, or from a clear, unconfused psyche. The effect on the child depends on whether 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
will have no adverse effect on the child's psyche if no corresponding problems exist. Now let us 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
in a permissive, pampering, indulgent environment, are. The psyche gets accustomed to it, and when life later 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
conditions, motivations and the underlying unification of the psyche make all the difference. In one instance it 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
conflict -- split concepts -- which divides the psyche. Split and conflict is the consequence of illusion 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
aspects of reality. Unresolved confusions remain in the psyche and are bound to recur in each lifetime 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
earth sphere. To the degree that the child's psyche is free and healthy, the relationship with a 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
to them, personify the unmended split within your psyche. Hence, your parents are not responsible for your 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
perceive how you represent your parents within your psyche, when you sense the subtle interaction between identification 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
illusion and misconceptions. At the same time, its psyche is very impressionable. Everything it experiences has a 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
assimilated. The freshness and impressionability of the child's psyche causes early experience to have a more extensive 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE

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