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 Badness.....................15
guilt feelings that make you exaggerate your own badness and lead you to feel hopeless about yourself 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
that there is no such thing as evil, badness, sin, malice. All this prevails only as long 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF
impression you were no longer loved. No wonder badness associated itself with punishment and unhappiness, goodness with 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
you. You will not need to exaggerate the badness of the trait in question, nor will you 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
bad, as long as you battle against this badness and believe you cannot tolerate it, duality exists 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
pleasure, and wit. You ascribe all that to badness. How wrong you are! Goodness is as diversified 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
wrong you are! Goodness is as diversified as badness. Only it has more humor, individuality, pleasure, because 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
In essence, goody-goodyness is another facet of the badness that seems so desirable to you. In this 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
without others who also contribute, and not by badness, but by ignorance, distorted concepts, and shortsighted defenses 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
without losing a sense of proportion about its badness determines the degree to which you are able 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
hidden self is not the actual measure of badness -- if there were such a thing -- 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
try to exonerate yourself because you sense a badness in yourself. Actually your contribution may not be 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT
current, as though they were proof of its badness. Thus people have preached through the centuries that 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION
goodness, or having to bear the burden of badness for the sake of tasting some of the 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
exist entities who manifest total goodness and total badness? In the latter instance you may say that 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
 
 Balance.....................251
days. It would be necessary to establish a balance. When this does not happen, the consequences are 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
of these faculties if they created the right balance and placed their intellect into the service of 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
the following: First, do I keep a harmonious balance within myself between instinct and intellect? Do I 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
incarnate as a man to establish the original balance. If you knew how many incarnations you lived 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
split we have just discussed is not in balance and therefore people have to live contrary to 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
can ever touch you or throw you off balance. The price is: no self-pity, no self-delusion, utter 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
always temptations. You have to find a proper balance. By routine I mean that you go on 36 PRAYER
rather than constructive intuition, such a person loses balance in life, just as the reason-type does in 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
until starting to work toward achieving a proper balance. In the third category is the will-type who 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
it be ideal to have all three in balance? ANSWER: The ideal form is in balance, but 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
in balance? ANSWER: The ideal form is in balance, but that does not mean that they are 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
mean that they are distributed in equal measure. Balance and harmony do not always mean an equal 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
always mean an equal measure of each current. Balance depends on the way the currents are distributed 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
really just that. The true reason-type will learn balance, so that reason will function properly in the 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
be chosen in such a way that a balance is established until the soul reaches a harmonious 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
harmony to some extent at least, the proper balance between reason, emotion, and will has to be 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
feelings take their course. Discretion, and a healthy balance between reason, emotion, and will are necessary to 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
although you may do so quite unconsciously. This balance is very, very subtle, my friends, and it 47 THE WALL WITHIN
in the wrong direction. Wherever such lack of balance exists, other unhealthy and harmful currents prevail, and 47 THE WALL WITHIN
other unhealthy and harmful currents prevail, and the balance has to be established by becoming aware of 47 THE WALL WITHIN
same. For the life plan works to establish balance and harmony. The more ignorantly the personality works 47 THE WALL WITHIN
The more ignorantly the personality works against the balance and harmony, the more disharmonious the process of 47 THE WALL WITHIN
harmony, the more disharmonious the process of establishing balance and harmony must be, but come it must 47 THE WALL WITHIN
seeks to bring the universal forces out of balance, the healing forces of nature step in to 47 THE WALL WITHIN
of nature step in to bring back the balance. But this very balancing out may often seem 47 THE WALL WITHIN
or an earthquake. But in the end the balance is reestablished. For nothing else can make you 47 THE WALL WITHIN
that which knows how to keep the proper balance. Your true self is neither as good as 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
such a way as to restore order and balance in your life. Situations will occur that seem 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
right track. Wherever and whenever you deviate, the balance must be reestablished, so that through your difficulties 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
a while until you can reach the right balance. In this discussion you both have the right 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
each of you has to find the proper balance in yourselves by realizing toward which one of 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
that it is difficult to find the correct balance. Today's trend does have its drawbacks. It causes 53 SELF-LOVE
of restriction in its positive aspect means equilibrium, balance -- for it is this principle that balances 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
you on this earth sphere cannot see the balance and harmonization that take place constantly. In fact 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
remedy the world situation until and unless a balance of these forces is established in individual souls 62 MAN AND WOMAN
plane, which always tries to harmonize and establish balance, also touched man. He was swept into it 62 MAN AND WOMAN
It is only a question of the proper balance and distribution. I might add here that the 62 MAN AND WOMAN
the flowing state of being for purposes of balance until after the Plan of Salvation has found 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
On a deeper level, this commandment means a balance of one's activities. Part of one's life must 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
judgment and common sense to find the proper balance between work, spiritual unfoldment, rest and pleasure. You 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
You should all be able to arrange this balance individually and not stick to rules and regulations 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to your unwillingness to love, which you would balance by making others love you. For all these 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
in this work is to achieve a proper balance. In many instances a person is more developed 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
it does not bring the desired harmony and balance. It is done because people prefer to think 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
ever doing anything. It automatically creates the right balance between activity and passivity. Those of you who 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
who derive real understanding from revealed truth will balance it out. This is why there must be 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
too strong. The whole universe is based on balance, and whenever balance is upset, the universal forces 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
whole universe is based on balance, and whenever balance is upset, the universal forces work toward reestablishing 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
must respond according to the law that reestablishes balance. To better understand this process we have to 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
it cannot or should not upset the natural balance. But this is not so. You will now 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
with knowledge of the laws of communication and balance, you will gain even deeper insights. They will 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
from the distorted one. Thus a proper inner balance will begin to take place. You will cease 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
constructive. One imbalance always causes another. Thus, establishing balance comes from facing truth and changing whenever possible 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
facing truth and changing whenever possible. This new balance comes automatically and is unattainable by deliberately initiated 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
one. But even that is geared to establishing balance eventually. QUESTION: Sometimes when one has an unresolved 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
not, your entire system is put out of balance. Your faculties are limited to a degree you 101 THE DEFENSE
human psyche is distorted and put out of balance. Looking now at the spiritual side of your 101 THE DEFENSE
to just the right degree, to the proper balance. Needless to say, this cannot be learned by 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
level. You put the entire relationship out of balance. Since the other people receive what they really 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
also be introspective. Any healthy person creates a balance between these two directions of being. A preponderance 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
areas, the movement of the emotions is off balance -- in part blindly wild, manifesting, for example 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
or yourself, you have not attained a harmonious balance between the three elements of life. Harming oneself 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
in experiencing pleasure, your inner being is off balance. In a balanced, integrated, full personality, one activity 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
one is out of kilter, one's entire inner balance must be upset. To the degree a man 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
destruction have made this fact familiar to you. Balance is upset; conflict and confusion perpetuate the chain 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
concepts begin to mend; psychic upsets begin to balance; confusion, disorder, conflict, make way for order and 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
real self. This organically results in the proper balance between self-and other-centeredness. Others deserve the same consideration 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
have reached the fine point of a proper balance of control, and gain forever greater powers over 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
am speaking of inner soul movements. In proper balance there is calmness; without strain, you let the 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
is important to understand and express the proper balance between the self and the universal powers that 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
to either trust the self or God. The balance between the self-directing mind and the creative universal 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
the other. In order to comprehend the proper balance, it is necessary to understand the function of 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
self and the creative forces establishes a perfect balance between the activity of the self -- fulfilling 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
in total commitment. When you find the right balance, there will be no fulfillment missing in your 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
to do the work for you. The proper balance is perfect activity in a relaxed, unstrained, stimulating 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
a tight knot. When the individual re-establishes the balance, fences dissolve, and the expansion of the self 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
with others. This is the fine point of balance where it is not mutually exclusive to stand 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES
to relinquish it, to flexibly adjust. The fine balance between steering one's ship through the river of 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR
self. The only way you can discover this balance is by feeling into yourself and listening to 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
innermost self is finding the proper rhythm and balance between impressing and expressing, finding which kind of 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
perfect source, help is necessary. Since a healthy balance between expressing and impressing does not mean one 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
mean one versus the other, so a healthy balance between accepting help and accepting self-responsibility does not 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
another. In this way nature tries to reestablish balance. The overdevelopment may be nature's attempt to straighten 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
It is only through love that this precarious balance of opposite extremes is achieved. This fine balance 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
balance of opposite extremes is achieved. This fine balance comes automatically through the heart's ability to love 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
place on the outer levels. But where a balance is established, life continues, and death is an 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
not shirking this truth. Be in God! 137. BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL Greetings, my dearest 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
each specific problem. The reestablishment of the correct balance of control can best be demonstrated with the 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
being needs and wants love. When a proper balance of control exists in this respect, you give 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
and will, these faculties cannot find the delicate balance of allowing your self-expression and also receiving the 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
the outer brain is unable to effect the balance. Nor can the ego-mind find the balance between 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
the balance. Nor can the ego-mind find the balance between self- assertion and giving in, between giving 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
personality cripples itself and puts itself out of balance. Bring together the manifestation of the live center 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
of both positive and negative desires, and the balance between the two. You may gain an inkling 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
to reject them. If they were perfectly in balance and free from such an inner division, they 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN
occurs in other areas. Nature tries to reestablish balance when the natural order is disturbed. This balance 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
balance when the natural order is disturbed. This balance must be reestablished for the personality to be 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
your inner self. You must learn the fine balance between when and how to use the outer 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
too tightly until it learns to reestablish the balance. In the more recent course of its evolution 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
valid, constructive, meaningful experience comes from a perfect balance between the volitional ego and the non- volitional 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
must neither be shoved aside nor overburdened. The balance cannot be established until people realize that they 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
power. There is a strange and apparently paradoxical balance: the more egocentric the little child within a 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO
146. THE POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-THE BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY Greetings, my dearest friends 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
freedom and fearlessness to love, and a healthy balance between activity and passivity. All these form a 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
and it is impossible to establish a healthy balance between activity and passivity. Let us look at 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
third member of this triad is the healthy balance between activity and passivity. Many of my friends 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
unstrained motion of peace. The principle of active-passive balance must reign in every creative process. A creative 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
function. Even the crasser manifestations, such as the balance between work and leisure, are regulated by this 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY
acknowledgement in order to bring the personality into balance and truth. It means more than denial and 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
the other. This imbalance must give way to balance on both sides. Where division of direction existed 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
in a direction that is opposed to inner balance -- to the realization of their best potentials 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
ego control must be relinquished. This is how balance can be reestablished in the personality. The cultivation 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
experience deep within yourself, once you reestablish the balance between the involuntary processes and the ego functions 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
and thereby help to reestablish the beautiful cosmic balance. This will also affect the availability of the 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS
you contain forces that can establish a new balance; but this can be done only when you 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING
be stepped on and abused. The often fine balance in these forces of communication cannot be taught 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
growth. The child is incapable of achieving this balance. It is rigidly one-sided in its insistence to 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
occur to bring about a change in the balance structure of soul forces so that benign circles 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
water and the body. There is a wonderful balance between the active and passive forces of the 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
person swimming, which determines the harmonious relationship, or balance, between the human body and the body of 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
human being can truly be healthy and in balance within themselves and the forces around them unless 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
The process is always an automatic reestablishment of balance. The best thing you could do in such 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
obstruction will vanish. The process requires a fine balance between the masculine and feminine principles. The firmness 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
mind is constantly groping to find the right balance of these all-important attitudes. Finding this balance is 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
right balance of these all-important attitudes. Finding this balance is one of the great difficulties each person 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
allow them to take their course. Find the balance. It is a constantly changing rhythm or cycle 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
and relaxation in your approach to yourself. Such balance can change your attitude toward yourself and teach 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
If self-realization is to be attained, a new balance must be found in which the ego assumes 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
make you capable of acknowledging this without losing balance within yourself, without losing sight of the fact 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
It requires a continuous groping for the right balance of letting the destructive, ignorant, irrational child in 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING
Law of Compensation Wherever a misconception exists, your balance structure has been disturbed, and an opposite misconception 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
healthy version of these opposites is a harmonious balance of proper self-responsibility and a freedom from assuming 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
self- assertion and flexible giving in constitute a balance, which is disturbed by immature self- centeredness. The 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
which is disturbed by immature self- centeredness. The balance will be effortlessly achieved when the see-saw law 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
not always easy to find the constantly fluctuating balance between inner action and the conscious ego-mind. You 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
therefore possesses special centers that convert, assimilate and balance the power that streams into it. The centers 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
invisible belief creates the predicament of having to balance your advantage with that of others, you will 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
the chair but held up by its own balance. Close your eyes and feel every part of 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
these two sides of the growth process. The balance of conscious effort and relaxation applies to the 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS
right distribution of effort and effortlessness, the right balance of voluntary and involuntary faculties. When the involuntary 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS
psychological, and therefore spiritual rifts, hold the inner balance and harmony out of which grow intuitive guidance 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS
deal with the mutually arising problems, to find balance between self-assertion and giving in, to give and 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
and detachment; between activity and passivity. When this balance becomes a steady state, the destructive infant grows 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF)
Without such structural change in the entity, no balance can be attained. Every crisis ultimately means such 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS
on others, without violating your own laws of balance. You will not have to pay the needless 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
lack inspiration. Both of these lopsided attitudes gradually balance themselves out when individuals grow on the path 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW
and most effective beginning. In addition to right balance and timing, inner and outer guidance will be 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS
the forces of the will are out of balance. Where the will should be active, it is 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
and passive, it is tight, forced, and active. Balance is re-established as purification of the self proceeds 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
swing to the opposite extreme, until the right balance of truth is found. I make a clear 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
can let go and give in. The proper balance will come from your core in specific ways 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
the grace and poise of your movements, the balance and coordination you express, in the tone of 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
process of actualizing divine life is the proper balance of everything: the balance of assertion and giving 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
life is the proper balance of everything: the balance of assertion and giving in, for instance. The 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
appropriate comes from within. Or consider the proper balance of right selflessness and right selfishness, as opposed 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
left behind so that a new and better balance can come about. Thus the past century, whose 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
spiritually matured and are ready to find the balance, the love, and the truth of creative self-responsibility 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
every healthy life there must exist a harmonious balance between sharing intimately with others in a dynamic 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
lacking, the other must also be lacking, until balance is reestablished. If you are frightened by intimate 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
given out again. That would be the right balance. December 24, 1973 II. GUIDE SESSION AT THE 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
in a constructive way, finding the often precarious balance between patience and humility for the grace of 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA
counter-reaction had to set in to reestablish the balance. However, any counter-reaction will first go beyond the 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION
self-responsible and consequently more self-assertive. You find a balance: The more you stop cheating in ways which 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
passively receptive. It is simply a shift of balance: where you have been overactive with your mind 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
self. The new person has established a new balance in the inner system. The intellect must not 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
truth and in love. Be your God. 228. BALANCE Greetings, my very dearest friends. Blessings for every 228 BALANCE
to make it so. This lecture is about balance. Balance is what keeps the universe intact. If 228 BALANCE
make it so. This lecture is about balance. Balance is what keeps the universe intact. If there 228 BALANCE
keeps the universe intact. If there were no balance, no balancing consciousness, no balancing law, everything would 228 BALANCE
you do not know them, are laws of balance. They come from balance and lead to balance 228 BALANCE
them, are laws of balance. They come from balance and lead to balance. Balance is not a 228 BALANCE
balance. They come from balance and lead to balance. Balance is not a cold, mechanical, coincidental factor 228 BALANCE
They come from balance and lead to balance. Balance is not a cold, mechanical, coincidental factor, but 228 BALANCE
and purpose. Every aspect of the law of balance is meaningful and has its own consciousness. It 228 BALANCE
It is possible to find the law of balance in the physical laws, but only to a 228 BALANCE
is held together by a supreme law of balance of which you human beings as yet know 228 BALANCE
-- are governed by the great law of balance. Some of these laws are obvious to your 228 BALANCE
key to the universe, the key to creation. Balance exists on all levels. On the physical level 228 BALANCE
exists on all levels. On the physical level, balance is order and creates order. Imbalance is disorder 228 BALANCE
a much higher organization. On the emotional level balance means harmony -- the harmony of feelings. It 228 BALANCE
of a higher order. On the mental level, balance means sanity and must lead to more balance 228 BALANCE
balance means sanity and must lead to more balance and more sanity. Imbalance, on the mental level 228 BALANCE
Everything leads inexorably to integration, order, harmony, light, balance, love, intelligence and health. The law of balance 228 BALANCE
balance, love, intelligence and health. The law of balance is therefore always integrating. Balance means the right 228 BALANCE
The law of balance is therefore always integrating. Balance means the right measure. Consider any manifestation in 228 BALANCE
rain may be as cold as required to balance out the stifling heat of the climate. The 228 BALANCE
mild arctic sunshine may provide the warmth and balance just sufficient to sustain life. In imbalance, pleasurable 228 BALANCE
the physical level. Take light and darkness. The balance between them creates a beautiful harmony and provides 228 BALANCE
of the inner level where you need a balance between activity and rest. When either goes out 228 BALANCE
activity and rest. When either goes out of balance and becomes overemphasized or underemphasized, chaos and temporary 228 BALANCE
within itself the intuitive ability to discover the balance that holds everything together. As the creative light 228 BALANCE
imbalance is simply a step toward a greater balance. It is very important for you to understand 228 BALANCE
the areas in you that are out of balance. The purification process of this path is, of 228 BALANCE
is, of course, an expedient way of reestablishing balance. You find the measure intuitively. Look for an 228 BALANCE
Look for an intuitive measure of how to balance certain expressions: how and when to be outgoing 228 BALANCE
stilted. When you try to establish the longed-for balance with the surface personality, the result will be 228 BALANCE
divine center. A truly satisfying and fulfilling inner balance comes only through the arduous path of self- 228 BALANCE
to love, to be in truth and in balance. Nevertheless you cannot will them directly. They manifest 228 BALANCE
and sincerity in being in truth with yourself. Balance can never be forced from outside. Neither can 228 BALANCE
can love or wisdom or enlightenment or peace. Balance is a divine and spontaneous manifestation. Balance is 228 BALANCE
peace. Balance is a divine and spontaneous manifestation. Balance is sanity. Within every particle of your being 228 BALANCE
well as the energy body -- you need balance to be healthy. Illness of any kind is 228 BALANCE
through a positive will. True, deep, meaningful personal balance cannot be measured with figures and equations of 228 BALANCE
not a fifty-fifty proposition. Take for example the balance between rest and wakefulness. The proper personal balance 228 BALANCE
balance between rest and wakefulness. The proper personal balance may vary from individual to individual, but nobody 228 BALANCE
and wakefulness. From an outer point of view balance is lacking when you sleep eight hours and 228 BALANCE
active sixteen hours. Yet in terms of inner balance this may be exactly the right measurement for 228 BALANCE
not necessarily express the inner measure of right balance. This principle becomes more apparent when we try 228 BALANCE
you must look for it within. The inner balance comes from a different mathematics, a measurement that 228 BALANCE
unevenness of the inner reality lies the real balance. There you will discover a completely different way 228 BALANCE
and what is uneven. In other words, the balance of the inner reality is not stilted or 228 BALANCE
inner dimension needs to delegate all rhythm, all balance, all measurements to the outer mind. This often 228 BALANCE
meaningless, stilted and self-defeating. It breaks the real balance. The measurements of the outer mind are contrary 228 BALANCE
and to go into an inner order and balance. Make room for it, have faith in it 228 BALANCE
therefore destroy the old order -- the old balance system and its obsolete measurements -- as it 228 BALANCE
in this light will you find a truer balance that is much more profound and meaningful than 228 BALANCE
example -- the active and receptive principles. The balance is not a third factor, but the conciliation 228 BALANCE
them. If you combine the two in proper balance, then you have action and effort that are 228 BALANCE
force, it is the proportion that keeps the balance. QUESTION: I have a personal question that is 228 BALANCE
your higher self and request guidance for the balance. As I said in the lecture, this cannot 228 BALANCE
to ignorance of the reality and importance of balance. Perhaps we can combine these two levels: The 228 BALANCE
awareness, in your thought processes, the concept of balance, of manifesting both sides of what now appear 228 BALANCE
only half, it is impossible to right the balance. Although in the course of evolution the pendulum 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE
they are, at times, also parallel. This perfect balance cannot occur through an intellectual decision. It can 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE
still experience a difficulty in finding the fine balance between freedom and self- discipline. This applies equally 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
devastated and totally rejected, by holding your inner balance and knowing of your fundamental divine nature, so 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
new light on everything you experience. A true balance will be established in that way. It is 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION
can go wrong when that attitude exists. Perfect balance will be attained in all the many dichotomies 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
it will come. You will find the right balance between giving, reaching out and moving, between spontaneity 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975
when you search arduously to attain a truthful balance in facing your lower self honestly and -- 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
is absolutely necessary to ascertain that you lack balance, that you are on the wrong road to 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
can also be tender with yourself. A beautiful balance will emerge clearly: self-discipline, strict honesty with the 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
appreciation for the self. The distortion of this balance is self-indulgence at the expense of others and 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
when you seek and gradually attain the right balance can you be receptive to your own divinity 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
his or her domination. Neither can find the balance between discipline and relaxation and the intuitive knowing 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
manifestation, complementing one another, it cannot maintain the balance required for harmonious and full living. Such a 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
with more silence and receptivity, to establish more balance. But do not forget that an inherent wisdom 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
this will the pendulum swing into a new balance. The overemphasis on activity now is the balance 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
balance. The overemphasis on activity now is the balance that you need in order to establish harmony 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
proper perspective. This will bring a wonderful new balance and harmony into your life and lead you 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
God means fulfilling your destiny. It brings about balance and harmony in your entire organism. Your mental 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
therefore always be coupled with change. The healthy balance of the soul of the earth can be 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
nucleus of this path has kept a steady balance. We pray to the Lord for His grace 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS
You, and those like you, will shift the balance. Humanity will begin to grow into its innate 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY
hidden motives, the most secret intention, the exact balance of ambivalent feelings and the real reasons for 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
become clear to many human beings that the balance of nature is being disturbed through humanity's thoughtlessness 254 SURRENDER
other. These conditions contribute to maintaining an overall balance in nature. Yet one animal killing another for 254 SURRENDER
will eventually enable you to find this fine balance. For a dependent ego that denies self-responsibility it 254 SURRENDER
and demonstrate it? There is a finely calibrated balance between the active movement of the personality -- 254 SURRENDER
say. In your era, there is a new balance between developed and undeveloped souls. As there are 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE
At other times it is reversed. A certain balance should be maintained, though it can never be 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE

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