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| knowledge and acceptance of all its consequences and related renunciations of whatever has to be given up | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| to touch on something else, because it is related to today's theme. This is self-pity, which often | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| understood correctly, the splitting of the atom is related to the idea which I have just attempted | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| but you have intuited that the concepts are related. When one says that the splitting of the | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| own divine self or this medium's divine self related to such a master? ANSWER: I will answer | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| If you do not have a personal image related to a mass image, the mass image may | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| life, and doubly so where a similar or related personal image is involved. Before we turn to | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| also is a subject, and indirectly it is related to the problem I have discussed tonight. But | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| which the baby cries seems in no way related to its anger, fury, and unhappiness. This part | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| subject, my friends? QUESTION: How is all this related to the Oedipus complex? ANSWER: In the condition | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| To accomplish that, your efforts must be directly related to the change you wish. To determine the | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| should like to add a thought that is related and which supports what you have said. In | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| you are bound to see how every impulse related to this outlook creates fear and insecurity and | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| what one sees and perceives as truth, is related to what one projects. And what one projects | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| on this path is a larger conflict always related to your world of duality. Behind your images | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| not to have been answered satisfactorily. They are related. One has to do with the possibility that | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| substantial proof of your self-alienation? If you were related to your real self, if you were in | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| a constant practice in adulthood, it is certainly related to gluttony, although the displacement of the real | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| Others, such as teachers, siblings, or anyone closely related, also play a significant role in forming the | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| found that the sibling relationship is always directly related to the parental situation. The parents express, symbolize | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| original and the current conditions? How are these related in your psyche? How, if at all, are | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| your psyche? How, if at all, are they related in reality? On what false assumptions is the | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| they enjoy life or because they are dynamically related to it, but in order to avoid death | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| between, outer and inner self. All suffering is related to helplessness. The greater the helplessness, the less | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| false concept a person has is always directly related to somehow not wanting to accept a truth | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| a superior power -- all this is directly related to your innermost integrity, your honesty with yourself | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| unconscious minds. The fear of happiness is directly related to the fear of letting go of one's | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| This brings me to the next very much related fear on the list, and that is the | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| it dies. Therefore splitting off and dying are related, as reunification and living are related and interdependent | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| dying are related, as reunification and living are related and interdependent. Ego existence, pleasurelessness, and death are | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| highly energized state lately, which seems to be related to my job. It has prevented me from | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| tense because of an intensity that is directly related to the state of duality -- through believing | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| opening up to receiving life's gifts. Very much related to what I said here is an important | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| rigidly upheld. The Lever Law This law is related to the See-Saw Law. The difference is that | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| often even destructive attitudes? Tension must always be related to error. In all your approaches and practices | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| The other practice I suggest is very much related to the topic of this lecture -- the | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| is too taxing. On the surface this seems related to how difficult others are, but actually the | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| of the soul. The outer life is always related to the inner life in some way. It | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| it. All matters of life must finally be related to the spiritual self and to spiritual reality | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| things of your life. Order and beauty are related and interdependent. There will be generosity, a giving | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| to whatever degree, how these processes are directly related to and part of larger cosmic processes that | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| apart, form together in a new meaningful pattern, related to the larger plan. Trying to imagine the | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| of how and what should happen. Still another related apparent contradiction: You need to be specific, yet | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| have a personal question that is very much related to the lecture tonight. I realize now the | 228 BALANCE |
| there is a lot of vanity and pride related to my outer will that forces me from | 228 BALANCE |
| you will see that it is very much related to it. As this stage is being achieved | 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION |
| would like to shed light on a similar, related reaction, and that is your innate rebellion against | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| duality, with its cause and effect, is directly related to and connected with impurity, distortion, limitation of | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| gives birth to yet another pain, which is related to the pain of your resistance to being | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| corrected and is an utterly dismal prospect. A related manifestation is its converse: Whenever you seem to | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| it not frequently occurred to you that you related a dream quite adequately, once you started it | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| on this path. All your outer experiences are related to your personality, your various levels of self | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
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| in connection with others vanishes, and therefore true relatedness becomes possible. Self-fulfillment also means something much more | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| of itself and be capable of the true relatedness which makes the distinctions and differences disappear. In | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| others? And these two forces make a real relatedness absolutely impossible. For as long as lack of | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| a compulsion to cover up this little voice. Relatedness, the true flow of union, is determined directly | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| greater capacity to relate to others. For your relatedness with others can exist only in exact proportion | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| can exist only in exact proportion to your relatedness with yourself, which includes the awareness and understanding | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| at one end, and the deepest, most intimate relatedness at the other, such as capacity to love | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| personal sense of fulfillment by the depth of relatedness and intimate contact, by the strength of the | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
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| evolved that they receive answers to their questions relating to their own development, then their faith will | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| know less or more about the great questions relating to Creation, whether you have more or fewer | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| I would like to ask a final question relating to this topic. I have come to the | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| hold true for certain crass modes of conduct relating to crime and the upholding of social laws | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| to evaluate the importance of any happening by relating it to permanency, which is a facet of | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| QUESTION: With regard to the last lecture, and relating it to the lecture on The Abyss of | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| of the symptoms of self-alienation such as: not relating to yourself and to others as you and | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| the universe. You are capable of loving and relating, and experiencing joy. You are truly self-responsible. You | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| of the soul, which makes it incapable of relating, communicating, and loving. In the broadest terms, sin | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| are opposites of love, of communication, and of relating to others. These vices do not unite, but | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| first wonderment represents the first conscious steps towards relating to the Creator. Who created these laws? Who | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| Before you have reached this highest state of relating to God, of being, where prayer and being | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| It does so because it prevents you from relating to others. We began discussing, working on, and | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| have to understand more profoundly what relationship and relating are. Life is relationship, my friends. What is | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| it lives, it relates, but its degree of relating is limited to its degree of life -- | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| is a mineral because it is incapable of relating more. The mineral relates by the fact that | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| it relates in a completely passive way. The relating capacity of an animal is already more dynamic | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| are unfulfilled. Thus you also prevent others from relating and do not give what they search for | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| before you used them as substitutes. Often, real relating and communication is confused with the childish compulsion | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| and flow? Is it a manifestation of healthy relating if a relationship changes and if a person | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| not say yes to life in loving and relating, as well as in obligations, you are pushed | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| helped. This is true love, this is true relating. You all have much to learn about this | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| them by their own capacity for loving and relating. They never feel insecure and helpless because they | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| interacting with certain people, but you may dread relating to others. If so, do not fail to | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| extroversion will never take the form of true relating. The extroverted person can also be introspective. Any | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| traits and attitudes. If you have difficulty in relating and coping with certain types of people, avoiding | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you have asked, or political, social, religious, or relating to any other human activity or attitude, from | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| The more it develops its inner faculties, thereby relating more and better to others, the higher it | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| have a problem with partnership, a difficulty in relating to the opposite sex. Let us further suppose | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| Such fears are quite naturally barriers that prevent relating to the opposite sex, which is one of | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| is one of the important aspects of self-fulfillment. Relating to other human beings is always a gauge | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| your demands, will open the flow of true relating. So, my friends, let us briefly recapitulate: self-fulfillment | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| Such objectivity must open the door to full relating and living, to that immeasurable happiness which every | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| truth behind another person's confusions. True knowing and relating removes all havoc. I am sure that most | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| self-sufficiency that does not exclude love and deep relating with others. This is the fine point of | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| being. But this, after all, is the real relating, the closeness which eliminates isolation. Intimate self-expression and | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| the closeness which eliminates isolation. Intimate self-expression and relating flows with the life-stream and brings dynamic peace | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| isolation and for the pain when you are relating to others. They must both be the same | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| outer personality. Thus the weight is subtly shifted relating to what is healthy and what is sick | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| to connect with others and is capable of relating to others. Its negative, distorted version is pushiness | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| inner state. The friction that arises out of relating with others can be a sharp instrument of | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| peace and unity that comes from avoidance of relating has even led to concepts that spiritual growth | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| still project on others your own problems in relating and still render others responsible for anything that | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| and denial of self-responsibility for the difficulties in relating. This denial fosters dependency on the perfection of | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| can you love without fear unless you approach relating to others the way I have outlined above | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| are profound fulfillment, vibrant aliveness, and blissful, joyous relating. When you are inwardly ready to relate to | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| same holds true. Alternating periods of aloneness and relating have their own, built-in safety valves: each preserves | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| the honesty of feelings and the more intimate relating among yourselves. What is more, the spiritual force | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| of it, as the result of two beings relating on the deepest, most honest level, who fuse | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| to see all experiences as intrinsically meaningful events relating to your total inner reality and to your | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| group consciousness, and what is learned in group relating can then further individual development. I will now | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| need to be by yourself. That kind of relating is true intimacy. This kind of relating must | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| of relating is true intimacy. This kind of relating must also exist for a couple in order | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| fear your aloneness, you must also understand that relating to the other -- be it one person | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| other sex and fulfill yourself. To attempt such relating and fulfillment while the old attitude remains unchanged | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| is the man of the New Age. For relating, my dearest friends, you need to go into | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| soon learn to recognize on this path. If relating the outer to the inner is not a | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |