| Relation....................36 | |
| why I cannot talk about this. QUESTION: In relation to your last lecture, when you spoke about | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| in relationship to Jesus Christ; is there any relation? ANSWER: There is no relation in a direct | 21 THE FALL |
| is there any relation? ANSWER: There is no relation in a direct way. The word you use | 21 THE FALL |
| advice is this: First, think about what, in relation to other people, seems most difficult for you | 21 THE FALL |
| the point of view of your faults in relation to their deviation from the divine laws? Until | 36 PRAYER |
| you ignore the different motives existing within in relation to the noble desire. The conscious noble motive | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| true from one incarnation to another and in relation to the duration of a lifetime and for | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the degree of inner willpower is small in relation to the outer will with all its conflicting | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| you perceive the other as a person in relation to you, or the situation as a whole | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| that the intensity of your emotions bears no relation to the issue. QUESTION: I was referring to | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| you become weaker and more helpless. Such a relation to authority can take the form of a | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| from reality. You no longer see yourself in relation to the world around you in the light | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| the many intricacies of the human personality in relation to life circumstances. But the fact that a | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| power of habit in a person, again in relation to role-playing? Could a person assume a habit | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| you can begin to evaluate the situation in relation to reason, justice, and fairness. A large step | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| under discussion: the function of the ego in relation to the real self. The real self knows | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| the point of view of an individual in relation to his or her life. I will not | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| perception of pleasure so unique and specific in relation to the unpleasure? ANSWER: This is a very | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| wherever you shy away from your truth in relation to universal truth. This opportunism based on fear | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| of the function of the ego and its relation to the real self. This relation is extremely | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| and its relation to the real self. This relation is extremely subtle and difficult to put into | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| equally true. This applies to the ego in relation to the real self. It is true when | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| analogy to your position in the universe and relation to the universal forces. Your ego must be | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| and the way you therefore experience yourself in relation to life, is what makes the path so | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| principles; only their arrangement, emphasis, degree, proportion and relation to each other are different. However, this does | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| Can you comment further on the centers in relation to the movement of energies? Do they charge | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| a terrific battle going on right now in relation to my self-esteem. It feels like an atomic | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| view. So far we have dealt with this relation only vaguely. We have not yet examined it | 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE |
| proper perspective and perception of life and its relation to your inner self-creation. The perception of the | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| know that you brainwash yourself continually, particularly in relation to your experiences in life. As long as | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| of consciousness. You see the outer event in relation to your inner landscape. The inner landscape is | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| inorganic manifestation, even though it is organic in relation to the higher self. In these instances, the | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| awakening to a slight degree -- slight in relation to its actual state. The limited part of | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| for you to see where you are in relation to the group; to probe yourself with questions | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| as an aspect or an attitude is in relation to your total personality. Just as you find | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |
| middle of a very complicated transactional situation in relation to acquiring the rest of the property in | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| Relations...................4 | |
| of humanity's soul life than world conditions and relations among nations. This is not hard to figure | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the type of love -- whether in partnership relations or in personal friendships -- that needs and | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| to false guilt and the misunderstanding of human relations, if you are not certain. Neither declare there | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| secrecy plays in the interrelationship between countries. Such relations are more marked by secretiveness, pretense, and hiding | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| Relationship................425 | |
| Only when you have established inner harmony, a relationship to God in which His laws are accomplished | 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS |
| path that seems comfortable, however, means that the relationship to God is not entirely harmonious. Therefore, if | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| formula which is repeated daily. And so your relationship to God will unfold toward harmony. Think about | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| or the happiness and security of a loving relationship; it is different with each one of you | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| will be easier for you to harmonize your relationship to God. And harmony with God brings about | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| mirror image for the real person. Imagine the relationship between the two realities somewhat like this. You | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| process is neutral in itself. When put into relationship it can act favorably or unfavorably. It can | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| to go about it. QUESTION: What is the relationship between the divine within and the master who | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| of the spirit world are in a different relationship to the spirit entities than an earthly thing | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| removed, because at this stage of their karmic relationship, it may be that love should be learned | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| faults that you have. QUESTION: Is there a relationship between dreams that you have when you sleep | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| circumstances. Since life in spirit is in direct relationship to the inner harmony, enlightenment, and general attitude | 21 THE FALL |
| I hear a few words about bodhisattvas in relationship to Jesus Christ; is there any relation? ANSWER | 21 THE FALL |
| very well be that there is no karmic relationship with some members of the family. It may | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| of the family. It may be a new relationship that was given because it best fulfills the | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| be any difference in your attitude whether the relationship is karmic or not. You do not even | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the trends in you which stand in direct relationship to your conscious will and are thus directly | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| the workings of all your inner currents in relationship to spiritual law and truth. However, if and | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| case, it may be a problem of human relationship; in other cases something else. But whatever the | 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH |
| place of the security that only a harmonious relationship with God can provide. Financial success, satisfying emotional | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| even call a shortcut, to establish a personal relationship with or a personal experience of God. You | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| deed or attitude of yours, stands in direct relationship to one or more of the spiritual laws | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| he holds a very particular position in his relationship to the Father; he is something quite unique | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| your intellect that such feelings exist in your relationship with God, it is your task to test | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| begin to work very conscientiously concentrating on your relationship with your fellow-creatures. You will often find a | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| his last incarnation was to straighten out a relationship with another human being--perhaps to learn to love | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| considerations of your purification, your development, and your relationship to God are made secondary? You cannot compromise | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| time ago. When eros is missing, the sexual relationship must eventually suffer. Now this is the problem | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| to do to maintain the spark in the relationship which seems to evaporate the more habit and | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| is not so. I am focusing on a relationship where the choice is a mature one and | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| may then seek eros else-where. For the sexual relationship must eventually suffer unless eros is maintained. How | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| a gnawing, unfulfilled longing. At this point the relationship turns static. It is no longer alive even | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| more. Two people may arrange an apparently satisfactory relationship, and as the years go by they face | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| find refuge in the steady comfort of their relationship. They may even believe that they are happy | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| one another. Yet an important element of their relationship is missing: the revealing of soul to soul | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| Then the life-spark is maintained so that the relationship can never stagnate and degenerate into a dead | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| overcome the pitfalls and dangers of the marital relationship and to repair damage that has occurred unwittingly | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| and revealing yourself as you really are. Your relationship will always be new, regardless of how well | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| as you really are. In this way, your relationship will always be new, regardless of how well | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| one will also lead and help. In a relationship that is alive, healthy, and flexible, it must | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| Although your purification work through a deeply committed relationship manifests differently than it does in the work | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| but sexual satisfaction begins to suffer if the relationship is not kept on the level I show | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| way. And to form a durable and solid relationship in a marriage is the greatest victory a | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| the loss in the same way. A similar relationship exists between your unpurified personality and your divine | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| and whatever the child's, and later the adult's, relationship to authority is, his or her attitude toward | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| to fulfill something that stands in no direct relationship to the goal itself. By so doing, you | 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE |
| laws of the soul, the laws of human relationship, and the laws of the universe. Then you | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| find freedom, independence, and the real and healthy relationship to the eternal Creator of love and justice | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a deeper meaning than merely procreation. In the relationship between the sexes so much can be overcome | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| love is always the ultimate aim! But the relationship between the sexes also offers more hurdles and | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| offers more hurdles and friction than any other relationship because personal emotions are more involved. Therefore objectivity | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| certain misconceptions and mass images about the man-woman relationship came into existence as well. Superficially, there seems | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| alone will enable you to have a successful relationship with the other sex and to make the | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| affect marriage more adversely than any other human relationship. Some of the things I have said are | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| love. On the other hand, a more casual relationship has less of a chance to bring out | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| determine the intensity of this conflict. Observe your relationship to the other parent, the one who seems | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| strong, but inwardly such an imbalance in the relationship exists very definitely. You must not forget that | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| It is most easily found in the love relationship between the sexes. You can see where this | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| as a general truth of life. The same relationship exists between the conclusions and deductions the intellect | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| to the change you wish. To determine the relationship of effort to desired change, you need maximum | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| without any unreal, preconceived ideas of how a relationship should be and how the other person should | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| the approach to reality can bring. When a relationship is ambivalent between people, they tend to create | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| I do not merely refer to the love relationship between man and woman -- but this apparent | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| the interplay of cause and effect in human relationship as this happens in the inner world of | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| incapacity, you may nevertheless build a more mature relationship, free of the childish compulsion to recreate and | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| in unawareness about themselves and also about their relationship to the entire universe. Those of you who | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| create tension and conflict in a particular personal relationship. Check your real motivations behind the conscious ones | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| is this unhealthy or wrong? ANSWER: Such a relationship can exist for quite a while, and it | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| a limited time. But it is not a relationship based on true interdependence, because the individual's own | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| the core of right communication. Such an unhealthy relationship is based on bargaining and the interplay of | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| alternate in both at various phases of the relationship. Free interaction on the part of both partners | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| both partners is the mark of a healthy relationship. QUESTION: There seems to be a very fine | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| about the mutual need that may hold a relationship together, and that this need is unhealthy. But | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| this attitude will give you an entirely different relationship to God, as well as an entirely different | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| will lessen. There will be a more proportionate relationship between your words and your feelings. Again, the | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| actions affect others. Taking account of oneself in relationship to others is bound to bring the knowledge | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| and to love; to have a real, meaningful relationship. He is unaware of this need. The childhood | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| They will also experience themselves in a realistic relationship to the world at large and to other | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| you will need to inflate it. And your relationship to others depends on how you perceive them | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| perceive them and how you regard yourself in relationship to them. In the fluctuation of being either | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| a question of feeling and experiencing yourself in relationship to others, to the world, to life, and | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| Only in accepting, let us say, an imperfect relationship -- and this by no means implies the | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| will you derive and give joy in the relationship. Only through accepting your own imperfection can you | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| joy from an imperfect situation, be it a relationship, or your own inner state which you otherwise | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| must clear up your emotional entanglement in the relationship, and then you will deal with it realistically | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| real need is a yearning for a rewarding relationship on a mature basis. With gluttony, the displacement | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| risking the involvement and responsibility of a personal relationship. The sixth cardinal sin is ENVY. Again, I | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| when it is not reciprocated. A mature, rewarding relationship is mutual. It cannot be one-sided. It would | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| person hates. However, they will not seek a relationship in such a case, not even one of | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| love, mutuality is a prerequisite for a mature relationship. This does not mean that both always feel | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| kinds of love together here -- general human relationship and erotic love -- and this is why | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| greatest and best adjusting factor in a marital relationship the ability to slowly grow into seeing God | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| ANSWER: This applies to any kind of human relationship. QUESTION: I'm becoming aware of a new kind | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| It is just an acceptance. In a personal relationship, this becomes a process of growing between two | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| will and effort that is put into the relationship. But, generally, I may say that if the | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| discuss another facet of love, will, and human relationship. You know from life and from your own | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| only what can be received, another kind of relationship could come into being that may be very | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| sick. This attitude would then establish a human relationship, whereas your greedy egocentric giving destroys it. Let | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| consideration is not given, then you nullify the relationship. Whether this consideration applies to outer and obvious | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| by wishing this particular success or that specific relationship. Such an attitude will enslave you whether or | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| self-awareness, realizing a potential, or establishing a meaningful relationship -- must be intended for the whole. For | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| and my will are directed toward a human relationship where there is an incompatibility, then the whole | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| both partners -- is forcibly injected into a relationship that is not feasible for these particular people | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| feasible for these particular people. Another type of relationship could exist between these people, but the strong | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| Be in peace. Be in God! 105. HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT Greetings | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| to tonight's subject. I wish to discuss man's relationship to God in the cycle of development, in | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| perception, he often has a genuine God-experience and relationship. But then, as he grows more conflicted and | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| hidden away from awareness, the more does his relationship to God become false. False, because it is | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| a more realistic and genuine experience of and relationship to God. During this stage, faculties are cultivated | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| state of being in awareness. Simultaneously, a new relationship to God comes into existence. God is experienced | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| this will give you a new approach and relationship to God. It will not only transform your | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| in life. Needless to say that in man's relationship to God, his prayer -- meaning his speaking | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| I would say now, for instance, about the relationship to God, would make absolutely no sense. A | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| be in God! 106. SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP Greetings, my dearest friends. I welcome you and | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| discussing, working on, and understanding the importance of relationship. You have learned that fruitful relationships can exist | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| But we have to understand more profoundly what relationship and relating are. Life is relationship, my friends | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| profoundly what relationship and relating are. Life is relationship, my friends. What is life? is a question | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| be truthful. But above all else, life is relationship! If you do not relate at all, you | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| at all, you do not live. Life, or relationship, is relative -- relative to your attitude. You | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| scale. You are used to associating the word relationship with human beings around you. But in truth | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of fulfillment. The scale of the possibilities of relationship is enormous. Let us begin with the lowest | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| has some capacity and willingness for involvement and relationship, but not enough. The drama of mutual exchange | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| or later cause a disturbance if the shallow relationship is a close one. If the shallow relationship | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| relationship is a close one. If the shallow relationship never becomes close, nothing will happen, but neither | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| and understands them. This will not harm the relationship, because through the mutual exchange the communication automatically | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| to you what constitutes a profound and meaningful relationship. At times you think that mutual exchange of | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| ones and lead a meaningful life. Even your relationship to other aspects of life, such as the | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| now to your questions. QUESTION: What about a relationship that changes? Also, what about seeking variety and | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| it a manifestation of healthy relating if a relationship changes and if a person wishes many relationships | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| with a yes or no. Both a changing relationship and the desire for variety may indicate healthy | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| must beware of oversimplification. The fact that a relationship changes for the worse does not necessarily indicate | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| any other one-sided neurotic bondage. Before a healthy relationship can come into being between two people who | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| earthquake fulfills in nature. Whether or not a relationship can become predominantly free and healthy depends on | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| involved. By the same token, a smooth outer relationship, apparently devoid of friction, is not necessarily an | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| two people grow together in any kind of relationship -- be it partnership, love, friendship, whatever -- | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| themselves, and not only about the other, such relationship will become more securely rooted and ever more | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| deserted by those few with whom a deeper relationship exists, then, needless to say, it indicates unhealthy | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| richness of different human beings and of one's relationship to them in a free spirit, and not | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| spirit, and not in order to use one relationship against the other, then it is healthy. Often | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| happens in a hidden way -- does their relationship fluctuate between domination, rebellion, submission, appeasement and resentments | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| evolves that overshadows the potential for a real relationship which is always free. QUESTION: Between two human | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of love will be greater, and thus the relationship will be less problematic. Dissolution of problematic areas | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| but understand them. To the degree that a relationship has problems, unconscious distortions exist in both parties | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| are responsible for all the problems of a relationship. Such insight always has a very liberating effect | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| the proof that it is not a real relationship, but a superficial one. A real relationship means | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| real relationship, but a superficial one. A real relationship means involvement. That does not merely mean looking | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| means the staking of one's whole being. A relationship of deep involvement is bound to suffer friction | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| and will therefore enter into a more realistic relationship with themselves. All growing and learning is determined | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| was on yourself and not on you in relationship to others. Yet, as you know very well | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| on this path and apply it to your relationship with others. When you calmly observe your reactions | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| repercussions in your psychic life and in your relationship with others. I name but two such repercussions | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| reactions towards future events? You thus distort the relationship between the event and your reaction to it | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| on a different level. You put the entire relationship out of balance. Since the other people receive | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| look like. QUESTION: May I ask about the relationship between the subconscious and the soul? ANSWER: The | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| dearest friends, be in God. 112. HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME Greetings, my dearest, dearest friends. Blessings | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| should like to discuss a new topic, humanity's relationship to time. This is, indeed, an important subject | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| ask what bearing these reflections have on your relationship to time. If you analyze each negative emotion | 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME |
| with others. Last time I talked about humanity's relationship to time. I said, in essence, that very | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| of the disharmony people have created in their relationship to time. When these times yield victory and | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| -- of others, of a situation, of a relationship -- you have a direct clue to your | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| most important influence in a child's life. The relationship to them is of primary significance. Others, such | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| substance. But these others are only important in relationship to, and as determined by, the original relationship | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| relationship to, and as determined by, the original relationship to the parents. Most of you need to | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| a strong degree you still carry the original relationship to both your parents into all your current | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| not to the degree required in a close relationship with another human being, where one's senses have | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| is the love for individuals in close, intimate relationship. I do not have to repeat why, for | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| as such, of lesser value than the intimate relationship of human love that requires practical involvement, the | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| that a perception of the divine. An intense relationship that is often turbulent because of blind egocentricity | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you now really and profoundly perceive yourself in relationship to your life. By such understanding, you bring | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you live unto the day without understanding the relationship between you and your life, you must be | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| its full significance unless you view it in relationship to the attitude that you have had toward | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| It is essential that you see it in relationship to your personal problems. The fight between your | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| factor often manifests in a disturbance of the relationship between the sexes. Such a disturbance may be | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| relationships; of never being able to maintain a relationship; or of never even fully establishing relationship in | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |