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observing yourself with all your faults, conquering all resistance. The spiritual laws can, and should, be made 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
course, at first he will put up a resistance, because confusion feeds the lower self that prefers 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
lower self that prefers the road of least resistance and vanity, practices self-deception and thrives on discord 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
yourself, and acquire the discipline to overcome the resistance which is so difficult at the beginning. You 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
by your increasing self-awareness. Striving to overcome your resistance is the only way to sharpen your spiritual 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
and lures you toward the road of least resistance. When people live their whole lives avoiding decisions 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
pain, until eventually not even the struggle against resistance will be necessary. All of you can get 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
at the end of the road of least resistance. QUESTION: What is spiritual death? ANSWER: Spiritual death 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
they prefer to walk the road of least resistance and to give in to their weaknesses. Thus 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
to make the inner contradictions conscious, even if resistance has to be overcome. You often call an 4 WORLD WEARINESS
will need all your willpower to conquer the resistance. The longing for God and for one's true 4 WORLD WEARINESS
be in readiness; you must consciously conquer your resistance. Do not push it into unconsciousness. Then you 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
this, and liberate yourself from your feelings of resistance, which will certainly emerge, at least in the 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
the beginning. Do not believe the voice of resistance; it offers nice explanations to the intellect, which 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
beginning a seemingly great sacrifice: the overcoming of resistance to see oneself in truth, to open oneself 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
conscience. These feelings in turn will create a resistance against the recognitions. In this phase the battle 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
this phase the battle is to overcome the resistance and to nevertheless accept the self as it 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
this phase the person has to attack the resistance from several sides. He needs to pray for 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
to get to the truth. The greater your resistance, the likelier it is, my dear ones, that 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
first step, that of overcoming his or her resistance to change. The reward is great, because the 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
attune to the vibration, wherever you sense a resistance, you can be sure of unrecognized violations of 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
real, complete and wholehearted. When you overcome a resistance you open yourself to God's will and truth 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
do not care for, toward whom you feel resistance, or with whom you just happen to be 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
this may at first be difficult and cause resistance, because your feelings are not always willing to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
be a tight inner knot. Take such a resistance as a signal that tells you how important 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
wrong within you. Contemplate what causes your inner resistance, and you can be sure that when you 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
is a feeling of heaviness, of anger, of resistance, of fear, of any disharmony, you have a 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
oneself wide and be willing to overcome the resistance is a struggle. So people will be afraid 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
want to hear. If you overcome the natural resistance to hearing an unflattering or uncomfortable truth, your 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
path. If this test is passed and the resistance is overcome, the answer can be given from 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
you should check whether there is a strong resistance in you to take this last and final 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
why you have such difficulties with the lower-self resistance, you have attained a great deal more than 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
is better to find out about this inner resistance and treat it methodically than to overcome a 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
honestly as to whether there still remains any resistance against accepting these truths. Again and again we 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
these truths. Again and again we observe the resistance. It may be, as I said before, that 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
that may be at the bottom of the resistance to accepting the greater reality. Both motivations can 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
these truths as well, so that all inner resistance will be overcome. This can be done only 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
your inclination to take the line of least resistance. You think that merely because your faults are 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
each individual, would follow the line of least resistance and give in to the lower self, and 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
need to fight within yourself to overcome your resistance. There will always be the voice that says 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
squarely in the face. If you overcome the resistance to do so, which is only difficult at 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
your soul once you have overcome the initial resistance. So you must realize that first you have 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
have taken this step in spite of all resistance, you must see divine law working within you 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
quite so far; nevertheless, that slight feeling of resistance against Christ in a number of people represents 19 JESUS CHRIST
for you, if you do not feel resentment, resistance, or any kind of heaviness within, then it 21 THE FALL
decide either to take the line of least resistance, which is always man's lower nature, or to 22 SALVATION
laziness, the comfort, and the way of least resistance to give in to one's faults. Whether the 22 SALVATION
who offended you. This may cause you inner resistance at first, but if you try again, you 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
on the path of purification. Go with this resistance to the Father and ask Him to help 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the cause in you. If you overcome the resistance against finding out, if you keep awake through 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
sincerely, with your whole heart, and disregard the resistance of your lower self that always lurks nearby 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
is one blind spot in them, a stubborn resistance to facing their outer and inner dilemmas. Oh 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
as you struggle with yourself and overcome your resistance by recognizing it and praying for help, then 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
truly desirous to find an answer, disregarding all resistance, must receive it, no matter what, without exception 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
self-will, your egotism, or a particular resentment or resistance to a person. To fulfill a task demands 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
disbelief, and this attitude is responsible for your resistance to delving into your own soul. You believe 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW
doubt in you. But as long as your resistance against this way of working persists, no matter 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
will then want to interpret to fit the resistance of your lower self. The only way you 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
decided for the right course and that the resistance and fight are over and done with. If 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
immediate comforts is choosing the line of least resistance. The disadvantage here is that your conflicts, hungers 32 DECISION-MAKING
the temptation of taking the line of least resistance, which shows lack of ambition. On the other 32 DECISION-MAKING
about the childhood incident but realizes intellectually that resistance to bathing is unreasonable. He will force himself 38 IMAGES
not let yourself be dissuaded by your inner resistance. For that resistance is just as erroneous and 38 IMAGES
be dissuaded by your inner resistance. For that resistance is just as erroneous and shortsighted as the 38 IMAGES
for you, counteracting your conscious wishes. Indeed, your resistance causes you to lose what could be rightfully 38 IMAGES
So have enough wisdom to see through your resistance and to evaluate it for what it is 38 IMAGES
cowardice to face yourself and to overcome your resistance to developing yourself, there is nothing selfish in 39 IMAGE-FINDING
bring it about myself? Anyone who has this resistance should pose that question. If you can answer 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
upheavals for a while and encounter reluctance and resistance. But these are the very causes you have 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
well-founded arguments. But once you have overcome the resistance for the sake of truth, in the spirit 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
personality is so reluctant and so full of resistance that he or she cannot see it. Then 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
but not half as bad as your unconscious resistance would have you believe. Do not heed it 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
must grow and mature, you can overcome your resistance to finding out the reality. You must know 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
to give you the incentive to overcome your resistance to taking the steps to reach your own 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
which is more comfortable. This accounts for much resistance. The motive for resistance, lack of self- honesty 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
This accounts for much resistance. The motive for resistance, lack of self- honesty, unconscious or half-conscious as 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
yourself fully and thoroughly. To do so without resistance or subterfuge, it is essential to have the 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
and rebellion. As a result, the rebellion and resistance in the law-breaker must become all the stronger 47 THE WALL WITHIN
unaware of the fact that his or her resistance is not turned against the law as such 47 THE WALL WITHIN
or never, encountered the true one -- your resistance against authority will automatically diminish. And after such 47 THE WALL WITHIN
recognitions. You have passed the stage when your resistance to face yourself manifested in finding excuses and 47 THE WALL WITHIN
for it. Thus you have broken the first resistance and pushed the wall considerably into the background 47 THE WALL WITHIN
it. But do not imagine that then all resistance is overcome for good. For as long as 47 THE WALL WITHIN
For as long as you maintain the wall, resistance is inevitable, and only the form and manifestation 47 THE WALL WITHIN
and only the form and manifestation of the resistance will be different. While before you had all 47 THE WALL WITHIN
wage a healthy battle with your ignorance and resistance. Only you yourself can find out when and 47 THE WALL WITHIN
The fact that you have overcome the initial resistance and won your first victory is, in most 47 THE WALL WITHIN
whatever reasons that follow the line of least resistance, the result must be felt by the entity 47 THE WALL WITHIN
experienced even a slight victory has overcome a resistance, found a truth or made a recognition, even 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
own efforts in facing yourself, in overcoming your resistance and sluggishness and self-pity. You should never believe 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE
your intention and effort to break down your resistance to facing yourself. For only then can you 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
can be solved only when you overcome your resistance to looking into yourself -- when you let 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
Ask yourself such questions when you feel this resistance and this battle in you. I speak to 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
if you fear them so, you lack healthy resistance. I mean resistance in the positive sense, as 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
them so, you lack healthy resistance. I mean resistance in the positive sense, as when you resist 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
as when you resist disease, and not the resistance that should disappear when you are on the 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
wrong and the right concept. Observe also your resistance to change and growth. The lower self of 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
discovery will mean to you. The greater the resistance to it at first, the greater the victory 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
by penetrating your own blocks, by overcoming your resistance, by knowing yourself in the deeper levels of 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
say that there is a great fear and resistance regarding recognitions. There is an unjustified fear of 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
be interesting to find out. What is the resistance based on? Ask yourself these questions. It may 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
may find the energy to overcome all possible resistance to your development and can make the best 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
rhythm and follow it without compulsion and without resistance. QUESTION: There is so much discussion, speculation and 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
a wonderful feeling it is. The greater the resistance you have to face from the material which 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
the separating wall between reason and emotion. The resistance to face the fact that one holds an 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
in you, after some painful recognitions, overcoming the resistance to making them, you will find the confirmation 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
and their personal inner misconceptions or images. Inner resistance blocks the way to truth. Also, one may 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
only creates harmful reactions, such as compulsion, guilt, resistance or rebellion. All musts create situations which set 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
rebellion. All musts create situations which set up resistance to truth. Truth is abused by making it 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
senses it and then projects his or her resistance on the divine instead of the person. Often 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the divine instead of the person. Often the resistance is as wrong as that against which one 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
willingness has to be greater than the inner resistance. Otherwise success is impossible. To make it perfectly 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS
the innermost self. A certain amount of such resistance might also persist in this phase of the 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES
in order to camouflage his or her inner resistance. Only the inner will to face and change 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
of facing that you set up a tight resistance against going deeper into your soul. It seems 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
is so often at the root of people's resistance to religion. Psychology, on the other hand, teaches 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
truth makes you free. This is why the resistance of the child in you when it comes 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
bound to bring you happiness and freedom. Your resistance to facing your unreality and to changing is 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
also express your intention to put aside all resistance toward facing yourself and changing where necessary. This 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
has to be a letting go of all resistance to facing yourself fully and honestly, without any 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
-- at the same time checking your inner resistance to receiving the answers -- you will make 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
of your self-will will produce an increasingly stronger resistance in the other person, along with an even 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
a heavy burden that it generates too much resistance to finding yourself. If you approach your inner 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
Try to find that unreasonable, irrational fear and resistance. It is right there in you. All you 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
or deep to find the fear. The basic resistance to transition is expressed in innumerable little ways 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION
your cowardice to face yourself, to overcome your resistance to developing yourself, there is nothing selfish in 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
element: Again, you all know that people have resistance to finding out truth about themselves. That resisting 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures)
to pay the price by overcoming a special resistance. Such overcoming necessitates more movement or action than 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
more and more to the fore, the subconscious resistance, being so afraid of discovery, may produce a 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
people have built for themselves, and in their resistance to reexamine the true motivation for their tenacity 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION
psychoanalysis in any form knows it too. The resistance to change is one of the greatest hurdles 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
ways, but whatever the conscious reason for such resistance, deep down you all battle against giving up 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
This is always the underlying force of your resistance, no matter what the outer rationalizations are. To 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
the outer rationalizations are. To find that the resistance exists is important enough. But then, the deep 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
As long as the real reason for the resistance to change is unconscious, it is not amenable 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
As you gradually learn this by decreasing your resistance through increased understanding, you will truly unfold layer 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
hostility, and aggression. This battle is caused by resistance to giving up the cherished self-image of the 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
they find unpleasant. This would cause an inner resistance so strong that they could not hear your 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
issue. The more you want to penetrate the resistance, the more frustration and impatience you will feel 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
to affect the other person and increase the resistance even more. Moreover, it will be extremely useful 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE
Most of you also know how great the resistance is to letting this happen. Some of you 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
have to face in order to overcome the resistance. You all stand more or less at different 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
of you recognize the signs of your own resistance and consciously battle against it. You recognize the 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
of you are still so involved in the resistance itself that you are unaware of the obstructions 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
necessary that I discuss the mechanism of this resistance. Let us first be clear about the unity 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
not grow. Strangely enough, there is much less resistance in human nature to the necessary growing pains 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
all do. That is the nature of your resistance to accepting and facing yourself. Only after you 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
your own eyes. You will look upon your resistance to doing what is so necessary with a 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
helper. This in itself points to a strong resistance. It is the long, drawn-out result of consistent 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
them with a meaningful result. The state of resistance points to the fact that inward struggle and 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
and demand to come out in spite of resistance. Your awareness of this certainly means insight and 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
determined than ever to give up all inner resistance to face yourself to the utmost. You will 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
attempting perfect action, but by giving up the resistance to face what is usually right in front 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
and even necessary. Once you free yourself of resistance and repression, it will be a great relief 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
facing it. Thus, the same process of overcoming resistance has to be gone through again. In this 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
will become aware of your escape mechanism and resistance at the moment it manifests, while previously you 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
of struggle are not due entirely to the resistance to growth and change and to the fear 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
By consulting his emotions very honestly, and without resistance, he will finally see that his need for 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
you can receive something for nothing. The unconscious resistance to letting go is the strongest cause of 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
should also be easier to give up your resistance to relinquishing, because your own experience will teach 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
conscious at all, but it accounts for much resistance. Inwardly, you are confused and fluctuate between these 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT
in constant flux. At the same time your resistance to change and growth where the hard work 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
This is where you put up the greatest resistance. You go through great pains to convince yourself 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
Once you change course and give up the resistance to seeing how you created this situation -- 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
If and when, in spite of all your resistance and rationalization, you finally allow repressed emotions to 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION
even clear up by itself, simply because your resistance against it has disappeared. Accept also your still 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
more happiness. You will wish to override your resistance to facing that which you suspect is there 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
reality, you may find a certain fear and resistance to do so. Focus on it, and realize 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
it, and realize its significance. Understand that the resistance is the very indication that in it lies 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
Only after you come to terms with your resistance by strengthening and fortifying your will, and by 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
see the truth about your parents, will your resistance gradually weaken. There is no better way to 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
but not easily done. Apart from your own resistance, you may not have the necessary information and 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
the issue, but in an organic way your resistance will weaken, provided you do not keep pushing 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
You see, there is often such a strong resistance to knowing the reality in this respect. Your 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
not help my problem is one form of resistance and amounts to saying, I have no way 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
work toward the understanding and recognition of your resistance to removing this wall, you will soon see 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
as a result of breaking through your inner resistance step by step. Your path will always lead 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
have to come back to this point of resistance at a later time. Perhaps by then the 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
at a later time. Perhaps by then the resistance will have given way, since the unnecessary pain 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
to you, my friends, examine where you find resistance accompanied by the desire to avoid looking at 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
going through the temporary periods of discouragement and resistance, you will come to the point when this 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
light is in sight when you overcome your resistance to the process. The strength, the self-reliance, and 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
your inner will, and your overcoming the ever-present resistance which wears off only after you gain sufficient 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS
another. According to individual makeup and the physical resistance of the various organs, damage will appear sooner 101 THE DEFENSE
too often sloth takes the path of least resistance as long as circumstances are not too bad 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
unwillingness that is often unconscious. Overcoming the hidden resistance will make you understand yourself better and have 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
Matter is one constant hindrance. It is one resistance. We talked about psychological resistance, but that is 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
It is one resistance. We talked about psychological resistance, but that is only one aspect, one small 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
is only one aspect, one small fragment of resistance as such. Earth life, life in matter, is 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
such. Earth life, life in matter, is one resistance. If you had no resistance whatsoever, you could 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
matter, is one resistance. If you had no resistance whatsoever, you could not live at all. Yet 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
between not too much and not too little resistance. The same thing is true of the will 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
will. Will is a force that overcomes the resistance of matter, the resistance of separation. If the 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
force that overcomes the resistance of matter, the resistance of separation. If the will is too strong 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
too little it will not sufficiently overcome the resistance of matter. This is how you can grow 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
you can grow much faster because of the resistance. By learning to go with the resistance, you 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
the resistance. By learning to go with the resistance, you develop inwardly to just the right degree 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
the right stream of the particular degree of resistance you need. It is not the same for 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
and inner. According to this personal vibration the resistance has to fit, as it were, to the 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
to fit, as it were, to the general resistance of matter. To the degree that you live 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
vibration will be in harmony with the general resistance of matter. That is why development on earth 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
after perhaps overcoming a defense here and a resistance there, will penetrate deeper into emotional levels, so 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
your earth life. Only by conquering your own resistance and blindness, your lack of awareness of yourself 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
you have to do is face yourself without resistance, without the pretense of being more than you 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
Candor with oneself IS prayer; alertness to one's resistance is prayer; owning up to something that one 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
defenses; on his willingness to let go of resistance; on his willingness to see the truth within 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
more and more dissolve your pride, pretense and resistance, you will perceive what it means to be 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
to face some area of one's being. This resistance always applies to the area that would be 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
evading yourself. All those who overcome this universal resistance step by step do feel their own growing 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
degree that you recognize and humor your own resistance to self-awareness. Find your willingness to recognize your 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
fears, your guards, your shames, your embarrassment, your resistance against feelings. As you do so, this stream 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING
are lacking when you put up a lazy resistance against assuming responsibility in your life, or do 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
good, even though it may mean overcoming a resistance. So begin to penetrate the wall of evasion 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
you know, there always is a lot of resistance to facing guilts. Whether they be guilts of 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
register your various reactions, which are symptoms of resistance. There are a few major blocks against recognizing 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
There are a few major blocks against recognizing resistance. One is dullness of mind, laziness of thinking 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
change, doing the hard work of overcoming the resistance; constantly being on the lookout for signs that 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
This thought may help greatly in overcoming any resistance. I said this before, but it needs repetition 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
find that this very softness, devoid of healthy resistance, cannot let go of impressions received. You mull 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
in many other connections. Here the too great resistance of the brittle pseudo-protective wall has similar effects 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
similar effects to that of the too little resistance in the over-malleable soul stuff. How can you 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
to be confused with the line of least resistance and the giving in to one's destructive instincts 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS
emotions? Let us be very clear about what resistance really means. It does not merely indicate that 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
the barricade is not too strong and the resistance is not too difficult to overcome. But there 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
your even realizing what they are, will the resistance manifest. This happens with some people at the 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
rather on false self-preservation. Putting it differently, the resistance is a defense against exposure, hurt, and vulnerability 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
the utmost importance to become aware of your resistance. If you look at certain past stages of 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
every major liberation was always preceded by a resistance to looking into yourself. No matter what form 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
looking into yourself. No matter what form the resistance may have taken, you always had to overcome 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
awareness. Learn to discover the signs of your resistance to removing the barricade. The signs may be 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
seemingly legitimate excuses with a grain of salt. Resistance exists not only because your idea of yourself 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
as the water mounts. Recognize the signs of resistance, my friends! Observe yourself. See how you are 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
admission? If I want to persist in my resistance, is it not better that at least I 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
not remove it. This is exactly what your resistance, your barricade, does. It is a pretense of 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
certain attitudes that you resist recognizing. Stop the resistance. Let the negative emotions float freely to the 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
nothing to fear from them. Unhealthy struggle is resistance, and it is futile because you fight to 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
who have never found and consciously acknowledged a resistance in themselves still have much to learn. They 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
can freely admit, and thus cope with, their resistance. If there are spontaneous questions referring to this 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
become much better equipped to accept reality. Your resistance to accept what seems to you unpleasant reality 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
worked on this path have overcome the inherent resistance to face themselves and subsequently change. You have 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
you to muster the strength to overcome the resistance that always stands in the way of your 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
the courage to overcome the fear that produces resistance. Only then will you convince yourself how useless 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE
who make serious efforts to overcome your inborn resistance to facing and changing what is unrealistic and 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
and liberating it was when you overcame your resistance to going deeper. The greater the struggle and 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
to going deeper. The greater the struggle and resistance, the more meaningful was the insight and the 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE
significance, and by not shirking to overcome the resistance to do so, the negative periods will be 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
until you summon the strength to overcome the resistance. But if you give in to the blind 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
give in to the blind, faulty reasoning of resistance, you drag out the crisis. Gradually it becomes 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
are doing, being forever more determined to overcome resistance to facing the truth in yourself, the more 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY
from the psyche are disregarded. The greater the resistance to openly face a problem, the more important 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
away from exploring and understanding. It indicates a resistance to fully grown selfhood and an insistence on 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
which is a product of duality. When all resistance to unknown areas in oneself has vanished so 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
of, or to use a more psychological term, resistance to, your innermost self, you can be sure 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
problem itself. The important no-current is also called resistance. But this word has lost its meaning for 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS
the moment they successfully fought and overcame their resistance against the work at a particular phase, they 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
it are worth all the effort of overcoming resistance. It alone can truly guide you. It not 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
is forgotten, as are your victories after overcoming resistance. Let this innermost self, this greater intelligence within 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
be done immediately, but if you tackle your resistance by constant honest self-observation, acknowledging the fact of 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
It demands fierce overcoming of stubborn, easily misleading resistance, and refusal to yield to temptation. There is 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
manifestation of the yes-current, to the liberation of resistance overcome. Do not forget the truth of your 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
that was in proportion to the fear and resistance that you had harbored. Make use of the 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
it would seem like entering prison. If one's resistance, one's no-currents, existed in order to prevent something 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
ease following a breakthrough, following the overcoming of resistance. This fact is important to contemplate, because it 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
hold on to. Whenever you are aware of resistance and can pinpoint your exact misconceptions and confusions 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
in others you are still battling against the resistance to face what lies behind blind reflexes. The 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
matters. You often just say, I have a resistance, letting it go at that, as though you 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
recourse and had to passively wait until the resistance vanished by itself. It seldom occurs to you 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES
occurs to you to add, Here is my resistance. Now that I know and see it, I 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES

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