| Sadistic....................13 | |
| healthy, and as such free from masochistic or sadistic tendencies; it will not be egocentric or violate | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| the logical conclusion that God is cruel and sadistic. The best way of dealing with suffering combines | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| are one current of inflicting pain. The so-called sadistic person inflicts pain on others as a protection | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| the dissolution of this force will stop the sadistic and the masochistic current. So these two forces | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| without also experiencing revenge -- some kind of sadistic wish toward the mother? This happens perhaps only | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| On the sexual level, such an individual is sadistic. Negative contact that manifests in being hurt, expresses | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| You seem to be implying that I have sadistic feelings toward women. I may also have to | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| this way: When you can fully face the sadistic feelings, without the threat and terror you still | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| connect the feeling of unacceptability with the newly-faced sadistic impulses. That connection is the important thing. When | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| affected by the causal connection of unacceptability and sadistic impulses, then you will be on the way | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| this prison. This is the prerequisite. Gradually, the sadistic impulses will lessen and the feeling of acceptability | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| will grow not only because you lose the sadistic, primitive impulses, but primarily because of the courage | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| have to reject entirely. For in this destructive, sadistic side resides a power which is, in itself | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Sadness.....................69 | |
| weariness -- an indefinable longing or melancholy or sadness which may at times take hold of you | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| deviation is -- then a vague feeling of sadness and longing can grip them at times; it | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| thus also toward lifting the feelings of longing, sadness, nostalgia, or whatever else you want to call | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| along with other symptoms, cause indefinite longing and sadness, and anyone who is haunted by similar feelings | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| no torment, no bitterness, no tension, nor any sadness or world weariness. Going back once more to | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| oneself to it without rebellion and bitterness. The sadness that comes from undergoing such hardship will in | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| stay in the old way. The result is sadness or dissatisfaction with life; you do not understand | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| They create vicious circles, they lead to heaviness, sadness, whereas truth always liberates, no matter how unpleasant | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| the truth. Again and again we must observe sadness and remorse as so many beings regret that | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| few people here with problems. There is a sadness here, a very specific sadness. Every type of | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| There is a sadness here, a very specific sadness. Every type of sadness or sorrow can only | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| here, a very specific sadness. Every type of sadness or sorrow can only exist because you human | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| divine law is made. So wherever there is sadness or sorrow -- or disharmony for that matter | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| realize that there is never any cause for sadness. There is nothing that can ever cut you | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| know what remains for you to do. If sadness, or disappointment, or any lack of understanding comes | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the disharmony, all the feeling of injustice or sadness, defiance or misery. Just turn your attention to | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| in your self-work. You may experience a certain sadness when discovering that you did not heed the | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| you are only partly conscious of the inner sadness, the unfulfilled longing, and of your struggle within | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| of your struggle within to cover up the sadness and to fight for a substitute for the | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| not only know in your intellect that the sadness of your unfulfillment exists, but you will also | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| desire implies, nor being afraid of feeling simple sadness that will never have an unhealthy effect on | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| the original desire to be loved and the sadness that you are not loved as you could | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| make you tense, or compulsive, or intense. This sadness will be free of self-pity and it will | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| to be happy about it, but face the sadness and it will not harm you. The reward | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| harmony. It applies to happy incidents, not causing sadness, but rather the opposite, while still being in | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| sad, you would not be your real self. Sadness is healthy; it is a result of feeling | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| not. Boredom is not. Life is joy and sadness; happiness and tragedy; fulfillment and frustration. The real | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| real feelings -- with its resultant boredom is sadness. Be clear about the very decided difference between | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| very decided difference between these entirely contrary feelings: sadness, and self-pity mixed with futility. When you cringe | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| mixed with futility. When you cringe away from sadness, you wind up in shallow living with all | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| realities of life, in happiness, in joy, in sadness and sorrow, in temporary struggle and crisis, are | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| it! Be in peace, be in God! 106. SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP Greetings, my dearest friends | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| to discuss, first of all, the difference between sadness and depression. It is important, at this time | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| If the case is crass, the difference between sadness and depression is very distinct, and I believe | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| sometimes the differentiation is not easy because both sadness and depression exist simultaneously. They intermingle and overlap | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| depression exist simultaneously. They intermingle and overlap. Your sadness may make you believe that depression is absent | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| absent. You may believe that your feelings of sadness and pain are purely normal and healthy and | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| its underlying cause, in spite of the rational sadness. Let us first define the difference. In sadness | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| sadness. Let us first define the difference. In sadness you accept without self-pity a painful fact of | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| cannot accept something with the simple feeling of sadness it is because the outer circumstance is not | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| then, causes depression, and depression, as opposed to sadness, is a very stifling, frustrating, unhealthy feeling. Let | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| I have discussed it. Is it really just sadness? Do you not feel hopeless and frustrated? Are | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| the real self, such as in natural, unexaggerated sadness. But you make sure to deny the experience | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| wish to do this -- you encounter a sadness about the true lack of feelings. You feel | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| you create false anger. You may really feel sadness, but you feel mortified to acknowledge this sadness | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| sadness, but you feel mortified to acknowledge this sadness, even to yourself, so you create false sadness | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| sadness, even to yourself, so you create false sadness, which you can easily display to others. You | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| via a number of other emotions, such as sadness, self-pity, pain, healthy aggression, and self-assertion. All negative | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| emotions you had denied -- perhaps rage, hurt, sadness. When these emotions are fully experienced in body | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| joy, safety and peace is right behind the sadness and pain. It cannot be activated by a | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| feelings when they are denied. Let us take sadness. When something in you says, I must not | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| exaggerated, fear turns into terror. The terror of sadness creates a compulsive urge to avoid sadness. If | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| of sadness creates a compulsive urge to avoid sadness. If life finally forces you to feel your | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| If life finally forces you to feel your sadness through the circumstances you inevitable attract, your terror | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| you struggle so arduously and painfully against the sadness. When you then experience sadness in this mental | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| painfully against the sadness. When you then experience sadness in this mental and emotional state, the experience | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| is indeed unbearable -- but not because straight sadness cannot be borne. Any straight, clean feeling can | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| build mental concepts that sustain the belief that sadness is unbearable and even dangerous, and thus you | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| illusions. Whenever an original experience -- say, of sadness and pain -- is denied, it becomes displaced | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| be reexperienced in subsequent situations. Displaced and denied sadness becomes self-pity, hopelessness, depression. These emotions are indeed | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| and destructive, whereas the direct, original feeling of sadness, if fully experienced and consciously connected to its | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| to practice. If the original, clean experience of sadness is denied in any way and thus becomes | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| message of vengeance into the world. The mellow sadness of real pain and real needs dissolves into | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| brings out as yet unexperienced residual feelings of sadness, longing, pain. But while you experience these, you | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| the old, yet unexperienced feelings -- pain, longing, sadness, fear. When you are totally committed to feeling | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| be completely without anger, rage, fear, pain, or sadness. This idea is distorted and leads to a | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| hate and anger; at will produce pain and sadness; at will produce fear and terror; at will | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| expect that it will make you forget your sadness and pain or let you gloss over those | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| how can true purification take place unless the sadness that has existed all along about the impure | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |