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 Self-contemptuous...........1
This will make him or her just as self-contemptuous, guilty, and frustrated as are the other two 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
 
 Self-contradiction..........1
The only way to come out of this self-contradiction that holds you immobilized with magnetic force, in 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
 
 Self-control................5
time, you answered the question about willpower and self-control. I think it is important to see oneself 21 THE FALL
enough. As you rightly say, before willpower and self-control can be strengthened, you have to have a 21 THE FALL
goal, and in what direction should willpower and self-control be utilized. In order to have willpower, the 21 THE FALL
fear that they can lead you into losing self-control. Let me put it this way: the strong 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
when the human personality became capable of using self-control could the next evolutionary step be taken. The 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
 
 Self-created................27
equation must always come out right: hardship is self-created, yet precisely because of that, it contains the 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
in which a person retires into a lonely, self-created world. Again, they do this out of fear 4 WORLD WEARINESS
of a crass ego-centeredness. Such withdrawal into a self-created world may yield them certain momentary advantages in 4 WORLD WEARINESS
the meaning of it all. Only when the self-created obstacles are overcome can you reap, already here 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
to have. For only the victory over the self-created difficulties, even if you don't yet understand their 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
Or it can be the effect of a self-created cause through a particular way of life. QUESTION 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
those who wish to get out of the self-created miserable circumstances. Since life in spirit is in 21 THE FALL
could not become aware of and eliminate the self-created obstacle. We have friends here to whom such 35 TURNING TO GOD
them. You must not turn away from your self-created precipices, which need not exist in the first 36 PRAYER
give up your forcing current and thus your self-created illusions, thereby becoming free to receive real value 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
functions in reality. It cannot manifest in a self-created world of illusion, in a world based on 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
are bound to see that all evil is self-created, and thus it is your lesson and medicine 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
suffering. Many self-aware people understand that suffering is self-created. Your realization of this, whether vaguely or fully 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
often fare better. They may not discover their self-created underlying causes -- and this is a pity 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
others, you will have to deal with these self-created, limited conditions and handle each separately, with intelligence 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS
to the Guide's teachings, our entire fate is self-created, whether we live in happiness or unhappiness, fulfillment 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
to other matters. The fact remains that your self-created disorder is responsible for so much of it 205 ORDER AS A UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE
you toward others. You are isolated in the self-created prison of your defense against pain and unpleasantness 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
higher self remain separated fragments in their own self-created worlds. You must occasionally reside in these separate 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
move, to accept the temporary hardships which are self-created, and to walk through them as through tunnels 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
growing, of changing, of self-purification, of traversing all self-created pain and evil. Now let us briefly consider 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
false reality. You begin to live in a self-created world that has no bearing on what reality 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW
The human state of self-awareness lives within its self-created dimension of time. Thus the sense of past 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
how cruel or unjust they may seem, are self-created medicine for the purpose of ultimate purification and 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
particular airpocket of your condensed reality. However, that self-created wall can crumble only when you accept its 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
the universal laws better. By thus embracing your self-created boundaries you transcend them most meaningfully. Soon your 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
efforts to hide the assumed -- and hence self-created -- poverty by pretending a false wealth, built 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
 
 Self-creating...............7
of the highest consciousness and wisdom, self-perpetuating and self-creating. There is no word to describe its intense 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
room for it in your consciousness and your self-creating. Many are the people who want to reach 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
you believe in your innermost potential to be self-creating, to be in bliss, to live the infinite 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS
the human personality, and its importance in the self-creating process. Self-awareness, whether it concerns awareness of inner 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
Positive, real desire is a prerequisite to the self-creating process. For example, if you do not want 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
a rule psychological reality stops short at the self-creating aspect of your inner being and ignores your 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
does not wish to be a fully grown, self-creating entity. It wishes to be given to and 254 SURRENDER
 
 Self-creation...............12
each of you in searching out your negative self-creation. There are still many areas of your lives 200 THE COSMIC FEELING
They occur by immutable law: the law of self-creation. You have experienced in the further course of 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT
truth they have discovered -- the truth of self-creation. And they can create and recreate wherever the 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
from obstruction. But where the psyche is stuck, self-creation is blocked. Stagnant energy becomes even more potent 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
Be blessed, be God. 211. OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES My dearest friends, I greet 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
of life and its relation to your inner self-creation. The perception of the human mind is specifically 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
the point where you can become aware of self-creation that the results of your creation not only 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
real. The more you lose the connection with self-creation, the more bitter and hopeless the suffering becomes 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES
self- awareness have nevertheless in-built patterns of creation, self-creation, which that particular organism follows through in a 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
a total disconnectedness from the inner process of self-creation. The feeling of helplessness is overwhelming at this 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
not. Grace is as much a reality as self-creation and self-responsibility -- and they are by no 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT
standing firm. As you grow in autonomy and self-creation, you will sense very clearly that there is 254 SURRENDER
 
 Self-creative...............1
misuses of divine creation. They can never be self-creative. Your present ability to witness and thus to 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE
 
 Self-criticism..............2
them. To achieve this mastery, self-observation, objectivity, and self-criticism are essential. If what I advised tonight in 21 THE FALL
you occupy yourself with self-probing and testing, severe self-criticism and analysis of your deeds, thoughts, and emotions 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
 
 Self-debasement.............2
out of strength. Actually some people believe that self-debasement is the sign of real, great love; however 4 WORLD WEARINESS
two extremes. A number of people indulge in self-debasement, pulling themselves down in the eyes of others 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
 
 Self-deceit.................2
yourself, that is, by thorough self- examination, without self-deceit. Find the extent of your ego, your oversensitivity 4 WORLD WEARINESS
order to overcome the hurdles, the temptations to self-deceit, which block the way to the abstract knowledge 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
 
 Self-deception..............89
to look at what is really there. Such self-deception must inevitably bring you into conflict with yourself 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
the road of least resistance and vanity, practices self-deception and thrives on discord. But, in the long 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
attracts negative forces, it is also based on self-deception. Such people believe themselves to be very humble 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
motives, either by not wanting to or through self-deception, build on untruth. When you accept calmly who 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
greatness when coming from a full heart, without self-deception, rooted in sincere willpower. This is the first 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
personal fault is always responsible, however great the self-deception. Faults need to be overcome, especially those that 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
this very clearly, and, indeed, this kind of self-deception is very common among human beings. The forms 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
not accomplished, there should at least be no self-deception. One should have at least a clear and 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
the basic good trends from all masks of self-deception and from influences caused by character weaknesses. The 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
way, in a way that suits your own self-deception, then the path is used as an escape 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
to advance and to sacrifice the comfort of self-deception. But there is also another part of you 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
meet your resistances without any wishful thinking and self-deception; second, for making sure that you do leave 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
will surely do more for you than any self-deception. Feelings change indirectly and not by force, nor 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
with the positive thoughts, then there is a self-deception that may bring greater repercussions than if you 36 PRAYER
attain spiritual growth is utterly unrealistic. It is self-deception and wishful thinking. You cannot avoid it. QUESTION 39 IMAGE-FINDING
the good act contains a bad motive, without self-deception. The mere fact that the bad motive is 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
Yet people have largely ignored the danger of self-deception, they have ignored their habit of using the 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
force. Suppression is always self- deception; therefore, when self-deception or suppression exists, the life force cannot regenerate 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
opposing forces bottle it up. Without suppression and self-deception, spring would revive you. Fatigue is a symptom 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
much? ANSWER: For lack of self-recognition and for self-deception out of pride and fear. There was in 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
sense, acceptance fosters masochistic tendencies, hopelessness, and the self-deception of indulging in resignation that is not only 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME?
interim stage, after you cease to act in self-deception and compulsion and before you are capable of 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
in you. By doing the right act without self-deception, in the hope that one day you will 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
short. It will be a farce and a self-deception. It is often the case that people feel 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
inner yearning. Their lack of awareness is a self-deception and therefore illusion. When you consider all this 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
deviating emotions, and thereby avoid the pitfalls of self-deception and suggestion. Prayer, if rightly understood and used 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING
Your happiness may have been valid and without self-deception at all. For it is possible to be 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
an overall view, without any further subterfuge and self-deception, such knowledge will no longer disquiet you. It 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
the same. Asceticism is so often a great self-deception and a complete denial of the life force 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
has to be very careful, since evasion and self-deception are always so close at hand. The temptation 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
and think this way leads only to a self-deception that delays your coming out of your darkness 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
pain. Jesus met it squarely, without pretense, without self-deception, without deceiving those who had faith in him 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
having met my ordeal fully, without pretense and self-deception, having gone through it to the ultimate end 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
see that it is nothing more than dishonesty, self-deception, an ostrich attitude, and a lack of self-awareness 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
possible. There is in this course a dangerous self-deception; the lack of awareness of what you really 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
and lead to a forced, insincere reaction and self-deception. Allow yourself to have all emotions come out 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
goal. It may lead you further into increased self-deception, the very same self-deception you want to uncover 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
you further into increased self-deception, the very same self-deception you want to uncover instead of avoiding. This 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
This may occur through the subtle coloring of self-deception, or it may be crass enough to make 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
emotional immaturity, as well as of the existing self-deception. The fact that you put raw, destructive, immature 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
actually are, is not only dishonesty, hypocrisy and self-deception, but it also leads you more deeply into 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
in truth and reality, not in falsehood and self-deception. When this happens, a new security and respect 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION
a false self-image. It leads not only to self-deception, but to alienation from your real self by 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
to experience real feelings, and necessitates repression and self-deception. QUESTION: In a previous lecture you mentioned secondary 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
pride are connected. The lie is one of self-deception and therefore of self-alienation. It is displacement. Thus 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
unawareness, that once was deliberate, really amounts to self-deception. You want something, yet you feel that what 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
what you want inwardly. And it is this self-deception that causes the destructive result, not the quality 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
will to observe yourself in candor and without self-deception, and from this observation your capacity for loving 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
again we have discussed this entire condition: repression, self-deception, non- acceptance of who you really are, as 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
getting rid of anything. Forcing leads only to self-deception and illusion. By letting an undesirable aspect be 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
the outer actions may so easily lead to self-deception. Evasion can take many forms. I repeat, wherever 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
can look at their inner life squarely, without self-deception, or they may have a severe breakdown which 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
this unhealthy desire concisely, and acknowledge it without self-deception, can you begin to find out why this 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
self, the idealized self, and the tendency to self-deception all have to be eliminated before one can 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
thought, or feeling, and the second by the self-deception and hypocrisy of pretending the opposite, and not 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
but it is nevertheless what happens in a self-deception. You can have true faith in God only 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
consume your energies in the denial. You perpetuate self-deception, and you do not achieve the result you 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
opposite, because it is proud, arrogant, and breeds self-deception and untruthfulness. I also want to remind you 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
you. Thus you start an elaborate system of self-deception and pretense which brings you into vicious circles 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
of it. What is more, due to the self-deception, more confusion sets in. Since all this is 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
conscience is very discerning about any kind of self-deception. It is adamant against cheating when one tries 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
this phase is reached, a certain amount of self-deception has been eliminated. Whatever your personal particular shame 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
can exactly pinpoint their shame, their pretense, their self-deception. They have indeed reached a major step in 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
truthful self- examination respond according to law, while self-deception and lack of awareness cannot bring you into 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
honest self-observation, acknowledging the fact of it without self-deception, and requesting the help of your higher self 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT
When the overall development is more primitive, such self-deception is less necessary. Blind automatism is always the 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING
over as yet unrecognized, untruthful ideas is merely self-deception, superimposition. It cannot create a genuine constructive attitude 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
to force or deny any emotion leads to self-deception which then may take the form of pretending 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
so, but will withhold it knowingly and without self-deception. Such meditation will strengthen the knowledge and finally 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF
react. This self-determination is not a superimposition or self-deception when you fully meet your self. Since you 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
artificial manipulative act that can lead only to self-deception. It is attempted not in the unitive knowledge 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING
false guilts. This inner mechanism is exact. No self-deception or conscious denial can eliminate the effects of 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
state of truth about yourself, no longer in self-deception and no longer unaware. You are nearer the 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
in any language guarantee avoidance of subterfuge and self-deception. Only the profound sincerity of the inner will 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
one resists looking at that offer opportunities for self-deception. It is essential to say to oneself again 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
understand, my friends. Integrity, honesty, and lack of self-deception in the way you give of your total 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION
are still distrusted and their self-regulating reality ignored, self-deception must still exist. A will to be destructive 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
myself. I will stop living a life of self-deception -- which everyone does to the extent he 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
appearance of love. Such cover-up is often mere self-deception, since most of the time others are not 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
such areas. Wherever people hold on in blind self-deception to such attitudes, they do not want to 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
emotions and attitudes. To name only a few: self-deception about what being good is; dependency, which is 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
the universal self may lead to even greater self-deception if the consciousness is deluded by the actually 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF)
truth, then becomes the tool of error and self-deception. Thus what you may now believe to be 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
you avoid one of the most insidious obstructions: self-deception. We search for and bring out that negative 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
reality must be taken into consideration, and then self-deception will no longer present a danger. It is 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA
gauge, it shows whether you are living in self-deception or truly following your path according to your 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA
longer projecting it outward. You are losing your self-deception. Yet you find yourself strangely unable, as it 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION
a shell that needs sustenance from without. This self-deception is obviously futile. It is of utmost importance 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
power of your self-indoctrination. When you encounter this self-deception in you, my dearest friends, halt and question 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM

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