| Black.......................34 | |
| color, my dear friends. It is not dark, black, or sinister as are the trends of the | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| words the difference between mysticism and white and black magic? ANSWER: This is too long a subject | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| difference between the mystic and the occult and black and white magic, but there was no time | 18 FREE WILL |
| you all know very well the difference between black and white magic, I am sure. So I | 18 FREE WILL |
| hold on the knowledge. The written words in black and white can shed a new light of | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| your real desires and put them down in black and white and say to yourself, This is | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| the trouble to put them down concisely in black and white. If you merely think about them | 38 IMAGES |
| problems and conflicts in front of you in black and white. First, find a common denominator in | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| right and wrong, good and evil, white and black. Decisions can hurt people. Realize that the person | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| must be a basic dishonesty. There is no black or white. God's motives always mingle with wrong | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a photograph: on the negative the objects are black and the background is white, while on the | 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES |
| desperate. The undeveloped being feels in terms of black and white. It knows no in-between. Either there | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| thing goes against its will, the world looks black. When the infant is hungry but for a | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| the following inner argument: Since there is only black and white, and white is denied me, let | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| real objectivity that never permits viewing anything as black or white. True self-responsibility is the only safeguard | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a photograph compared with the positive. What is black in one, is white in the other, and | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| are also final. Now, the world is all black and bad. You are unable to live up | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| part, then moralizing occurs. When the whole becomes black due to partly black trends, or white for | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| When the whole becomes black due to partly black trends, or white for that matter, then moralizing | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| else that has nothing to do with either black or white. Save your other questions for next | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| that not a projection of a kind of black magic, due to the childish belief in one's | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| good, then that is bad, everything is either black or white, right or wrong. (2) There are | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| of duality: this versus that, right versus wrong, black versus white, good versus bad. As you know | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| found if one looks at one side as black and the other as white, the dimensions of | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| you dislike about yourself. Have it down in black and white. Look at those traits when they | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| have found that what appears first as a black, frightening abyss turns out to be a tunnel | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| of either/or, good or bad, right or wrong, black or white. This way of perceiving life is | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| you need to re-establish connection, to probe the black spots, where it seems most difficult, is much | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| chasm, it seems at first to be a black gulf of emptiness. What you feel at this | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| from them, and that you do fear the black wall of the unknown which you must traverse | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| that is truly positive, seems to you a black wall that you fear and wish to avoid | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| fear of mortality, you can go through a black wall and truly realize immortality as an experienced | 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE |
| You will discover various states. For example, a black hole of nothingness to begin with, which you | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| superficial level, are a coverup of that empty black hole, or what seems to be such. You | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| Blame.......................155 | |
| to acknowledge this truth. It is easier to blame fate, the injustice of destiny and higher powers | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| about by other people, than it is to blame oneself. It is easier to feel like a | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| takes over, meaning that they are not to blame. This is not so. Certainly, evil spirits can | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| people are doing worse, or by putting the blame on evil spirits whose influence on them, they | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| be passive and -- consciously or unconsciously -- blame some fate or circumstances or other people for | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| feel I am blaming you, nor should you blame yourself when you begin to recognize these trends | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| what you want it to be, you can blame Him for it in some hidden way. In | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| are times when you cannot find anyone to blame. So you just cover it up and are | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| you seek happiness in the wrong direction; you blame others for your misfortunes; you blame fate, you | 31 SHAME |
| direction; you blame others for your misfortunes; you blame fate, you blame God; you blame the alleged | 31 SHAME |
| others for your misfortunes; you blame fate, you blame God; you blame the alleged injustice of the | 31 SHAME |
| misfortunes; you blame fate, you blame God; you blame the alleged injustice of the world. But you | 31 SHAME |
| a more humble attitude. Even people who constantly blame others and the world, or fate, or God | 36 PRAYER |
| you, not God and the fates, are to blame, your revolt may turn against yourself and you | 38 IMAGES |
| it is an unjustified guilt feeling when you blame yourself for not being perfect now. Such unjustified | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| and whether or not you find someone to blame for a real or supposed wrong done to | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| that you are responsible and may have to blame yourself? Isn't it too easy to do nothing | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| He searches within, but cannot find anything to blame himself for. Yet a deep uncertainty remains. Why | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| and does not want to assume the entire blame for the failure and so blames his or | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| completely thwarted by the world. For this, you blame the world on the one hand and the | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| that you feel victimized by it. You put blame on everybody left and right and never find | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| themselves catch up with them, they may then blame the actual deviation from truth on that particular | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| both parents for his unhappiness, even though this blame may have been unconscious. The next step must | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| gain the insight of no longer putting the blame where it does not belong, no matter how | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| least vaguely sensed it. We certainly do not blame any of you. We realize that that is | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| act. You will further find that you probably blame other people who -- so you wish to | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| about how often people create imaginary guilts, or blame themselves for very unimportant shortcomings in order not | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| life. It is the attitude in which you blame others, God, fate, life, rather than finding your | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a moment that all the outer events you blame for the situation are the natural result of | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| the most common devices is to project the blame for failure into the outer world, onto others | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| say that one must never resent, despise, dislike, blame, find fault with others, and so on. As | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| anger at others is, in reality, nothing but blame that they prevent you from being as you | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| this behavior pattern. They have no right to blame others for taking at face value what they | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| fulfillment you must increasingly crave for makes you blame others, circumstances, the fates, or bad luck, instead | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| your non-acceptance of your real self, from the blame you throw into the world for not allowing | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| favor, and if it fails to come, you blame the world's injustice and arbitrariness rather than your | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| guilt and of the necessity to accuse, to blame, and to judge. QUESTION: Isn't it sometimes much | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of self-alienation. Another is looking for and finding blame in others to cover up your own guilts | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| effects will be rebellion, self-pity, and putting the blame on life and the world. If you obey | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| probe itself for its own shortcomings, rather than blame the other, regardless of how much appearances may | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| attitudes that cause your unhappiness, you grumble and blame the pathwork for not living up to its | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| egocentric people become, the more they tend to blame themselves alone for the failure of a relationship | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| about it? ANSWER: Even if some of the blame put on the other person's doorstep is partially | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| no redeeming feature, while on another level you blame everyone else and the whole world for your | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| all beings. For example, when people shift the blame for their present unhappy state on any other | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| off. Typically, in this state of rebellion you blame someone or something else. When you do so | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| again forget. When you are unhappy you automatically blame someone or something else, at least emotionally. The | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| what the appearances are. If you do not blame anyone, but overly blame yourself in a very | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| If you do not blame anyone, but overly blame yourself in a very destructive attitude that does | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| is only a disguise for violent hate and blame of others. In this kind of attitude that | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| and then blaming others -- and denying the blame as well -- is a violation of the | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| will see the unfairness that exists when you blame life, or other people, for what is really | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| be constantly injured -- your self-pity, self-victimization, resentments, blame of others whom you make responsible for your | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| weapons against others in order to put the blame on them. But the moment you are truly | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| self-evident, it hardly needs further elaboration. Since you blame others, they must respond in kind. Since you | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| relief. No matter how merited some of your blame of others may be, it never removes your | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| I mentioned the frictions and constrictions when the blame for the lack is projected onto outside circumstances | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| you will weaken the rage with which you blame others, circumstances, people, life itself. And this already | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| to accept even defeat if only one can blame the circumstances or bad luck or other people's | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| way of negating self-responsibility, as mentioned before. Such blame always incurs an opposite, compensatory attitude of accepting | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| of being victimized are themselves misconceptions. The false blame launched against the world makes the world responsible | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| doing it to you, whom you can then blame for victimizing you. This is one of the | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| see what is underneath your particular facade of blame and victimization, in whatever guise it may appear | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| wants them to worry; he wants them to blame themselves for messing him up; he wants them | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| he sees this, he also sees that his blame is totally exaggerated. He is now at the | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| crudeness will always put the bulk of the blame on the other. All this applies to any | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| largely comes from wanting to absolve yourself from blame or extract yourself from difficulty when establishing and | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| emotional, and unarticulated fashion. The silent, covert, indirect blame is being launched without a spoken word. It | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| due to such unconscious interaction. The launching of blame spreads poison, fear, and at least as much | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| one tries to project. The recipients of this blame and guilt may react in many different ways | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| other person did wrong. I mean the subtle blame for personal unhappiness. This is what must be | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| way you can avoid becoming a victim of blame and guilt projection is to avoid doing it | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| fate you cannot understand, perhaps you no longer blame the outside world -- God, fate, life, chance | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| affect you and how you still tend to blame circumstances outside yourself for negative experience. In reality | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| as hostility, envy, hatred, rage, bitterness, self-pity, or blame -- can become a creative power to build | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| into hostility, cruelty, spite, self-hate, guilt, confusion between blame of others and blame of self, and is | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| self-hate, guilt, confusion between blame of others and blame of self, and is thus a destructive energy | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| a sense of injustice and, therefore, resentments! You blame the world for withholding from you what you | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| with their meaning -- rage, hate, fear, guilt, blame -- and all the tightnesses in body, soul | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| still unaware that in some respects you still blame and accuse, feel sorry for yourself and hide | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| when you are in denial, you need to blame and accuse to make others responsible for what | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| weak, it may succumb to the ferocity of blame from a person who still strongly denies self- | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| explored those levels of your being where you blame others for their evil because you shy away | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| way with themselves and would rather dwell on blame. But those of you who follow me all | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| want to deal out punishment to those you blame can you truly understand the connections I make | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| out hope, blacken vision, and induce resentment, hate, blame, and often spite. A venomous passive resistance and | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| this, so you go on continually projecting the blame onto others. The energies entrapped in holding the | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| others and of life, and between fear and blame. You will, on the one hand, attempt to | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| contradictory attitudes contained in envy, jealousy, resentments, competitiveness, blame, and so on, should not drive these feelings | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| You can say, Yes I have hate, envy, blame, bitterness, irrational demands, or whatever they may be | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| conscious of it or not -- makes you blame, accuse, and feel victimized. In turn you feel | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| state yourself, because it suits you better to blame others and to wait for a salvation that | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| intentionality regarding her, and your feelings of hate, blame, and resentment. You do not wish to open | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| others, you are caught in a battle of blame, self-justification, helplessness, self-rejection and self- doubt. You cannot | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| in that sense you fail. But when you blame others for your lack of love, even if | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| says, I will deny the truth and will blame you for not giving me all and for | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| one to assume the sole burden of the blame, you surely expect to be ostracized. This assumption | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| whenever you so decide. By assuming the sole blame, you give permission, as it were, to others | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| by making myself the victim, so you cannot blame or catch me. Suppose the other person is | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| I want to demand from you and then blame you, accuse you, and punish you when you | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| have others caused it? -- thus fluctuating between blame and self-blame. Neither leads to any solution. But | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the ulterior motive to get away from facing blame, accusation, and self-justifying victimization, this may lead to | 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES |
| unfulfilled life, and if you in any way blame others for your present state, no matter how | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| happening is that even if you no longer blame others and exonerate yourself, even if you admit | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| yourself. This always means that inwardly you totally blame yourself, but do not wish to see this | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| to see this self-blaming behavior. The more you blame yourself, the more you are hooked on blaming | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| personality -- the acting out, the desire to blame, still exists quite strongly. Let us apply what | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| to the topic of blaming. You desire to blame because you do not desire to see yourself | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| the tight, strenuous current of the need to blame, experience and observe this drama truly as an | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| movement that is created by your desire to blame. As you take full responsibility for the desire | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| you take full responsibility for the desire to blame, open your heart in a relaxed, new way | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| new way to welcome the desire not to blame. In doing so, you can see truth in | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| in the other. Seeing truth never leads to blame. When you blame, you are never in truth | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| Seeing truth never leads to blame. When you blame, you are never in truth, even if what | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| bad, for if they were, you would not blame. The same applies to you. Seeing truth does | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| it. Seeing truthfully may elicit anger, but never blame -- and that is very different. Become attuned | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| others, you inevitably withhold from yourself. You then blame the consequent deprivation on the other person because | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| of assertion I refer to here does not blame the other, and yet it also recognizes what | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| their yearning for oneness remains unfulfilled, and they blame others, circumstances, and life for it. All matters | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| can find at your disposal. If you cannot blame it on the present circumstances, you may use | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| distrust, wish to withhold of yourself and then blame the world for your misery. This is where | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| unfulfilled needs and your spiteful withholding? By more blame? By more demands? Certainly not! Only when you | 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER |
| directly toward your nucleus. You can no longer blame it on others and thus escape from your | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| of assuming responsibility without the distortion that is blame. Now you can find the way to own | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| to your rule, but also will resent and blame, hate and defy you for it, even though | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| I want from you. I shall accuse and blame you for victimizing me. I shall turn it | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| your self-hate, which then makes you put the blame on someone or something else. This is the | 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN |
| it away or justifying it, without shifting the blame for it onto others, yet without a trace | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| matter how much she tried to put the blame exclusively on man. By the same token, man | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| figure to make decisions for her, take the blame for her mistakes, and battle with the hardships | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| share of responsibility. She still puts all the blame on man. The new women's movement contains a | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| unfair and unrealizable demands, she must resent and blame male authority and play the victim game. Similarly | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| exploited by the physically stronger man and will blame him for victimizing her. Both will fail to | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| no fear exists and therefore neither defenses nor blame. Contrary to the fairy tale that femininity blossoms | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| heart, creating resentment, hate, and therefore frustration and blame of the other sex, the benign circle will | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| They do not assume the stance of self-righteous blame to widen the gap between the self and | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| the victim game; the man will use the blame and superiority game. He will blame women for | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| use the blame and superiority game. He will blame women for exploiting and using him, and will | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| sex from the bondage of hate, distrust, and blame. When this release is pronounced in daily meditation | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| these circumstances, for which you may then again blame the outer world and those who, at least | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| feeling victimized. It can also manifest in resentment, blame, hostility, and overt hatred, with many shades in-between | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| line of least resistance? Do you then rather blame others than honestly look into your lower self | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| you sacrifice your freedom and integrity and then blame the outer world for the result. You conceal | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| may for a while find outer circumstances for blame for this self-restriction, but when this is no | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| defense would entail giving up the victim and blame game. It would entail accepting part of the | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| an arena in which people could no longer blame the devil for their own misdemeanors. They had | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| the truth, that you want to attack, to blame, to see people or events in the worst | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| turn, are often projected onto others whom you blame for causing your pain. These two kinds of | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| clearly. Often you misinterpret this despair and you blame life or others for it. So, my friends | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| alleviated no matter how much you try to blame it on your partner or on outer circumstances | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| put two and two together. They often even blame others for this state and use it to | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| When these goals remain unreachable, you resent and blame authority figures, often accusing them exactly of the | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| really expect from them. To be specific, you blame them for infringing upon your freedom when limits | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| you explain yourself in a way that implies blame and accusation, you only create a bigger wall | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| from yielding to the temptation to accuse and blame. Make yourself neutral, at least temporarily, until you | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |