| Unevenness..................3 | |
| exactly, of course. According to the evenness or unevenness of the split, the incarnations change from one | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| to occur more often, due to a greater unevenness in the split, homosexuality can result the first | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| perception. But it manifests indirectly. In the apparent unevenness of the inner reality lies the real balance | 228 BALANCE |
| Unexaggerated...............4 | |
| gratification is a result of ignoring its healthy, unexaggerated existence. Being dependent on others who fall short | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| experience the real self, such as in natural, unexaggerated sadness. But you make sure to deny the | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| do not like -- in a rational and unexaggerated way, really meet it face to face and | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| deliberate self-destruction, or hopeless resignation. It requires an unexaggerated honesty to face up to what is within | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| Unexpected..................10 | |
| great spiritual progress. All of a sudden something unexpected and apparently quite new comes to the surface | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| did not come true, due perhaps to an unexpected change on the part of one or several | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| impressions due to environmental influences or to sudden, unexpected experiences. These impressions or attitudes usually take the | 38 IMAGES |
| a sudden experience with a very strong and unexpected impact, like an accident. But a shock may | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| True spiritual states of elation come undesired and unexpected. They follow suit after life has truly been | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a creative experience. Creation comes unbidden and is unexpected. When you expect it least, it is there | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| and, lo and behold, the desperation vanished. Completely unexpected solutions appeared. Only by having reached the very | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| havoc, rejects a flexible, accepting attitude toward life, unexpected developments, people, and his or her own unconscious | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| that the result of your efforts will be unexpected and spontaneous rather than direct, then harmony between | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| intentionality very specifically. Then, lo and behold, something unexpected begins to happen. You accept and respect yourself | 222 TRANSFORMATION OF THE LOWER SELF |
| Unexpectedly................4 | |
| in answering certain questions that may come up unexpectedly. These decisions are made on the basis of | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| person is an occasional grace that can come unexpectedly, without any knowing or understanding why. These are | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| find that if and when their feelings are unexpectedly returned, their own feelings cool off. When they | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| so maybe then it can come to me unexpectedly. It is as though you hoped for some | 236 THE SUPERSTITION OF PESSIMISM |
| Unexperienced...............7 | |
| phobia must be an expression of unrecognized and unexperienced feelings. Anything outside of you can be dealt | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| creates disease in the body, so does unassimilated, unexperienced feeling matter cause disease of the soul. Your | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| within yourself where the false needs and the unexperienced residual feelings create a destructive focal point, you | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| incompatible with the slow-moving energy of evil, defense, unexperienced pain. This is why now, in these gatherings | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| tears in you. It brings out as yet unexperienced residual feelings of sadness, longing, pain. But while | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| motivation to want to feel the old, yet unexperienced feelings -- pain, longing, sadness, fear. When you | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| The misconceptions, false images, negativities, illusions, pretensions, defenses, unexperienced and therefore unassimilated feelings and confused thoughts are | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| Unexplored..................9 | |
| it. You are actually a pathfinder in an unexplored jungle, seeking the way through wild shrubbery and | 36 PRAYER |
| a great deal of trouble and untruth. The unexplored unconscious plays a great role, particularly in this | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |
| have not yet reached certain depths of their unexplored subconscious, this may sound quite preposterous and contrived | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| potentials in the psyche and the ego untended, unexplored. After acceptance of the struggle, people discover relatively | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| of unconscious attitudes whose nature is as yet unexplored. You have the power to overcome the temptation | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| poor substitutes. These may be your intellect; your unexplored emotions, which are merely reactions to unexplored attitudes | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| your unexplored emotions, which are merely reactions to unexplored attitudes; other people's dictates over you; or all | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| of responses which bring forth the as yet unexplored negativities in the other person. So the negative | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| of commitment. It is extending yourself into unknown, unexplored new alternatives and vistas -- and that is | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| Unexpressed.................8 | |
| process. If you approach it with the perhaps unexpressed attitude that immediate improvement must occur in your | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| love, warmth, companionship, union, is contained in the unexpressed claim contained in the main image. Here you | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| Therefore each time he reaps success without the unexpressed inner claim for love being met, it is | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| to reach spiritual heights but who harbor the unexpressed illusion that to face what I am discussing | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| self-beating, hopelessness, and morbid capitulation, which always cover unexpressed hatred. The conscious ego must prevent this stratagem | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| deeply and widely for indirect manifestations. How does unexpressed hate manifest in your life? Perhaps by feeling | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| that it is; it points to unrecognized, unaccepted, unexpressed negative feelings. And if occasionally a glimmer of | 200 THE COSMIC FEELING |
| limitation to express your best feelings when the unexpressed negativities and hidden games of your partner make | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Unfaced.....................3 | |
| run away from yourself. Whenever destructive attitudes remain unfaced and untouched, you live in painful ambivalence. For | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| in the following way: punishing yourself for your unfaced guilt, you must stay in the very attitude | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| the life force is concentrated in unrecognized and unfaced evil, then the energy itself is feared and | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| Unfair......................40 | |
| instant that what you experience is unjust and unfair, no matter how much it may appear that | 48 THE LIFE FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE |
| to be punishing and severe, often even an unfair and unjust force that one has to contend | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| than one's fellow, wanting an advantage that is unfair to the other. Then there is a certain | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| more inadequate, the world even more cruel and unfair. Needless to say, my friends, none of these | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| to be denied what you wish. It seems unfair and unreasonable. So you can easily see the | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| help it. I should be helped. People are unfair to me, and so on, then it is | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| inner reactions. When you become aware of this unfair demand you extend to God, and change it | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| request -- though unspoken and unconscious -- is unfair; it amounts to pride, for you claim an | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| be relatively easy to see how unrealistic and unfair it is to request something that you are | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| you with all its selfishness, egocentricity, one-sidedness and unfair demands. Thus you are in a vicious circle | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| you discover and experience the existence of the unfair demands of the child in you, you can | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| that belongs to another and that this is unfair to the other person. Even people who are | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| necessity for the entire evolution. It would be unfair to say that unfulfillment is always due to | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| with the self-centered child. It continues to make unfair demands you cannot cope with and push out | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| an advantage if it creates undue pain and unfair disadvantage for another. So, on the one side | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| understand that while the hitherto hidden greed is unfair, the subsequent measure against it -- complete self-denial | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| against it -- complete self-denial -- is equally unfair in the opposite extreme. Whether it concerns the | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| up to your unreasonable feelings and requests, your unfair demands, and your childish selfishness. Let the irrational | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| you are not a persecuted victim of an unfair and unkind fate, that you do not live | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| like myself better, because there will be no unfair exchange, demand, or pretense on my part. Hence | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| -- not only because others refuse such an unfair deal, but because you close yourself against it | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| lord it over others or to get special unfair privileges, and obtain something for nothing, you will | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| wish to give. Life cannot comply with such unfair desires, and you feel cheated and resentful because | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| for and that the payment is not an unfair demand on the part of life. Such an | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| your hostility, your jealousy, your envy, and your unfair, one- sided demands are truly unjust. Only then | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| making it clear that they are unrealistic and unfair and showing that the resulting emotional reactions prove | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| this image, although you know that it is unfair, unreasonable, unintelligent, and that it causes you and | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| your own negative intentions, lovelessness, untruthfulness, spite, and unfair demands. If you are aware, for instance, that | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| of your negativity. The guilt caused by your unfair demands, your spite, the withholding of your love | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the innocent victim. If you admit your similar unfair demands, your cowardice in giving your feelings, and | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| yield the demanded result, it is bad and unfair, which you proceed to prove by the dismal | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| to do with love. Such an attitude is unfair, cheating, prohibitive, and infringes on the other person's | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| on someone else. To the degree she makes unfair and unrealizable demands, she must resent and blame | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| experiences exist nevertheless as proof that life is unfair and untrustworthy and that your own inner processes | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| something or imposed something on you that is unfair. You act as though you were being prevented | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| Yet you act as if this were an unfair price, and you are full of outraged rebellion | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| claiming that those who have earned them are unfair and abusive. Now, even if authority is being | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| justification to their argument that it is an unfair world they live in and that they who | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| of factual, psychological, emotional, and spiritual cheating, impose unfair disadvantages on others, and therefore also on the | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| created are lacking, life appears too difficult and unfair. Then you demand a perfect authority to put | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |