| Unfairly....................9 | |
| at poor little me, how I suffer, how unfairly I am treated, how absolutely miserable everything is | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| be comparatively easy to recognize. The person feels unfairly treated, exploited, victimized, resentful, while still being unable | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| union with the other sex. Each sex feels unfairly put upon and resents its own supposed disadvantages | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| the usual assumption that one is unlucky and unfairly put upon by life. One's contentment and fulfillment | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| wish to receive, but want -- childishly and unfairly -- to get more than I am willing | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| You will feel just as resentful and as unfairly treated and injured as when people are truly | 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| have or else I will perish, will suffer unfairly and unbearably, will be unfairly treated. This voice | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| perish, will suffer unfairly and unbearably, will be unfairly treated. This voice indicates a threat containing the | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| The woman will feel that she is being unfairly exploited by the physically stronger man and will | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| Unfairness..................10 | |
| receive is very uneven. Because of this basic unfairness, such a scheme cannot work. For, divine law | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| pursuits, limited outlooks, lack of concern, subjectivity and unfairness due to blind, isolating tendencies. If two nations | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| up your pride. Then you will see the unfairness that exists when you blame life, or other | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| place it outside yourself, you always commit an unfairness; you are never in truth. It is always | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| guilt. The clearer you can see the preposterous unfairness of what you demand compared to what you | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| to love, you will get nothing but rejection, unfairness, and hate in return. It does not pay | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| of blaming others in order to justify your unfairness and your unloving demands, you not only unhook | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| form does not allow it. An attitude of unfairness and dishonesty is always present when you grab | 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD |
| you would not be hurt by hostile judgments, unfairness and the intent to put you down. But | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| those who were supposed to judge, to imply unfairness, arbitrariness, rejection. This is clearly a projection of | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| Unfaithful..................5 | |
| the underlying motive for men's inclination to be unfaithful is. Women tend much more to be sluggish | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| the victim. They do not understand themselves. The unfaithful one may suffer just as much as the | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| will be more specific. If a person is unfaithful, it is often taken as a personal insult | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| the partner will no longer need to be unfaithful. It may not stop overnight, but the desire | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| will no longer find it necessary to be unfaithful. Or, if the partner turns out to be | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| Unfaithfulness..............5 | |
| person does not ever commit an act of unfaithfulness, but the motivations for faithfulness may be just | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| as the motivations which lead a person into unfaithfulness. Outer faithfulness may not be real faithfulness. So | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| in both partners contribute to bring about such unfaithfulness. If a person finds himself thus betrayed -- | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| most vulnerable. Therefore, the other may respond with unfaithfulness, because she is looking for that very free | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| although you may indeed contribute to the other's unfaithfulness by your own childish craving to be loved | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| Unfamiliar..................10 | |
| life spark that furnishes you with a heretofore unfamiliar strength, acumen, vitality, and ability to enjoy life | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| intellectual understanding is not possible if you are unfamiliar with the talks leading up to this one | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| climate of this may first seem strange and unfamiliar. You need to acclimatize yourself to it. Picture | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| are here for the first time and are unfamiliar with the depths of our work may not | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| territory may actually be less safe than the unfamiliar one. So you frequently remain in a constricted | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| circumference to avoid the imagined danger of the unfamiliar. Living a full life always means stepping beyond | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| first few whiffs of the new experience are unfamiliar. Soon the new becomes the familiar, and you | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| toward another -- toward an environment that is unfamiliar -- you may feel temporarily anxious. But the | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| to the fore, an aspect so strange and unfamiliar that it seems at first somewhat frightening. Is | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| bandied about. Not every insight revealing a hitherto unfamiliar pattern, not every new phase, indicates the process | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| Unfathomable................7 | |
| and most impure, with -- for you -- unfathomable gradations in-between. Not all the beings who are | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| cause and effect, so often ascribed to an unfathomable fate? The first phase, the phase where cause | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| to the apparently fateful occurrences governing your life. Unfathomable fate seems to control your inner body, your | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| when it is not reciprocated, or, for apparently unfathomable reasons, they fall out of love when their | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| people's wrongdoings, coincidence, bad luck, or even some unfathomable problem within yourself you simply have not yet | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| makes your life unbearably lonely, fearful, and meaningless. Unfathomable death is terrifying, and although it is possible | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| of one's existence an inevitable event that is unfathomable, that is totally unknown, that is deeply threatening | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| Unfavorable.................26 | |
| concrete way. If through ignorance of these laws unfavorable forms are created, each being has to dissolve | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| very fortunate can turn out to be very unfavorable if you do not learn your spiritual lesson | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| by not following the divine laws you produce unfavorable conditions. In that respect what you think is | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| hidden causes, whether good or bad, favorable or unfavorable. As I said, there are a number of | 18 FREE WILL |
| some people, through pride and defiance, choose an unfavorable one. Rejection is given only because of the | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| negative is felt and a very negative and unfavorable reaction comes forth, contrary to the desire of | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| think thoughts that are bound to bring you unfavorable results, which create a vicious circle as you | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| in your life, good or bad, favorable or unfavorable. Once you experience this, you can dissolve your | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| or unhappy incidents in your life, favorable or unfavorable happenings, will have exactly the same effect on | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| is a decision too, although a wrong or unfavorable one. It is God's will that you become | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| becoming a victim. You could link up all unfavorable incidents with your own wrong attitudes, no matter | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| together with the other people involved, create very unfavorable chain reactions and vicious circles. Not only does | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and quality of the various cycles, favorable and unfavorable. This is why all Scripture says that no | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| will be gained, in all its favorable and unfavorable aspects, acquiring thereby the ability for happiness, love | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Everything is exaggeratedly good or bad, favorable or unfavorable. You are incapable of properly dealing with the | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| its destructive influence, which causes many unnecessary and unfavorable results. Let us now see how these three | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| in other cases the conditions may be extremely unfavorable and yet comparatively little neurosis exists -- we | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| the effect on the personality is heavy. Then unfavorable circumstances create suffering that goes way beyond what | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| and good may, in reality, be the most unfavorable occurrence. Only gradually will your view readjust to | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| disappointments, unfulfillments, so-called bad luck, the repetition of unfavorable patterns -- all are determined by your unconscious | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| conclusions, the molds in the soul substance create unfavorable, destructive situations. In short, a man's and woman's | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| on the other; favorable for one person but unfavorable for another. When this is the case, you | 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE |
| words, the earth, with its conditions, favorable and unfavorable, the greatness and the pettiness, is a direct | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| much risk to take, how many favorable and unfavorable outer influences should exist in the life not | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| involved -- both good and bad, favorable and unfavorable. Underneath the duality of good versus bad you | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |
| constant way of life, the imbalance must create unfavorable conditions. You can see sometimes in your world | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| Unfavorably.................3 | |
| put into relationship it can act favorably or unfavorably. It can be formed in this way or | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| were a separate entity that, either favorably or unfavorably, runs its own course. We shall discuss this | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| when all is revealed. Human beings usually react unfavorably to this concept because they think of it | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| Unfeasible..................5 | |
| up by saying that marriage would be practically unfeasible for the human race if it did not | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| these feelings present is not only unrealistic but unfeasible, and therefore discouraging. To learn of your emotions | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| are high indeed, for the entire strategy is unfeasible. What the child in you sets out to | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| self-liking on standards that were unrealizable, impossible, and unfeasible, you were insecure. You can be secure only | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| gyrations and distortions to seek after novelties. Nothing unfeasible is required to discover what needs to be | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |