| Unloving....................22 | |
| intentions: you know certain reactions are selfish or unloving, and you do not like to be that | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| of this confusion is that the rejecter seems unloving. The mother or father is desirable also because | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| him or her is desirable. Therefore, to be unloving is a desirable state. The child's psyche says | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| state. The child's psyche says: If I am unloving, I will be desirable, my love will be | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| that was in darkness, that was selfish and unloving because of the wrong conclusions. Where you have | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| more you experience unpleasant truth as harsh and unloving. Separation of concepts exists where imperfection and separateness | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| but inwardly the motivations may be selfish, vain, unloving, and cowardly. One may conform to all the | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| indeed, quite the opposite effect because it is unloving and isolated. It emphasizes the self and how | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| and vanities that often make you vindictive and unloving and nevertheless maintain your self-respect? How can you | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| are negative and withholding, you are not only unloving, but you actually deprive or hurt others. This | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| to all women as if they were your unloving mother. You do not want to give up | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| punish them for the result of your own unloving attitude and build cases in order to justify | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| in order to justify your unfairness and your unloving demands, you not only unhook yourself from this | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| not yet found where and how they are unloving should set out to do so. Do not | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| to, to let go of something untruthful and unloving into that which is truthful and loving. As | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| you want to perceive. In other words, your unloving perceptions appear absolutely correct. But, my friends, question | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| a very limited truth you perceive in the unloving state. It is, in fact, so limited that | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| of fearful acceptance and blind rebellion are obviously unloving and unfree. They are not deliberate choices, but | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| are ungenerous and, at least in that respect, unloving and ungiving. In many ways you may also | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| you sense yourself to be: just as rejecting, unloving, ungenerous, over-cautions. The suspicion which you project from | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| false perceptions and therefore in untruthful attitudes and unloving, destructive acts, must work themselves out of this | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| present limitations, that interpreted judgment to imply an unloving attitude on the part of those who were | 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS |
| Unlovingness................3 | |
| guilts substitute for the real guilt of withdrawal, unlovingness, and isolation. In other words, these little guilts | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| ungivingness, your selfishness, your lack of concern, your unlovingness, your blaming, and your resenting others for the | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| of the insistence to never experience frustration, of unlovingness and ungivingness, of ego aggrandizement, of jealousy and | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| Unlucky.....................4 | |
| desire. But in areas where you are repeatedly unlucky, the no-current must be at work in one | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| hanging on to the misconception that you are unlucky and inferior. Suddenly the truth of divine order | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| their lives in which they appear to be unlucky. These areas cannot be changed without deep and | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| indulging in the usual assumption that one is unlucky and unfairly put upon by life. One's contentment | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| Unmanifest..................8 | |
| you are not responsible for your feelings and unmanifest attitudes. You are responsible only for your actions | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| expand sufficiently to let in the as yet unmanifest wisdom, truth, love, energy, strength of feeling, capacity | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| indeed be an expression of an as yet unmanifest, deeper, broader, wiser and more loving divine self | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| inner attitudes are in truth and positive. The unmanifest levels are much more real and incisive than | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| yet unrealized potential. Such a vision of the unmanifest in another person is a great act of | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| to be, who you potentially are on the unmanifest level of reality. At the present time, the | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |
| perceivable to other personifications. God's other aspect, the unmanifest divine principle, can only be indirectly experienced by | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| being making room for the inner, as yet unmanifest being. This happens by the growing process, the | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| Unmasked....................4 | |
| inch to them. These self-deceptions have to be unmasked, my friends. Even among those of you who | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| is not avoided, but its illusory nature is unmasked by going through it. Thus there is nothing | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| of this role you indulge in must be unmasked. It always appears to you to be good | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| who still withdraw from a more meaningful, open, unmasked mutual revealing. I might say that the average | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| Unmoving....................4 | |
| appears to be alleviated by holding on to unmoving, petrified psychic substances. The unmoving seems safe; the | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| holding on to unmoving, petrified psychic substances. The unmoving seems safe; the moving, perilous. To want to | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| does not mean inactivity, paralysis, being slumped in unmoving unaliveness. Quite the contrary: only in a relaxed | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| The suspicion which you project from your own unmoving, withholding, ungiving attitude makes you fear life and | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| Unnatural...................21 | |
| other direction. This would be something forced and unnatural. The necessity for you to make a decision | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| wrong, but you remain insecure. It is an unnatural forceful procedure. The other is in harmony with | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| with the term of what is natural and unnatural, I would like to say again that I | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| used your mind and will in an inorganic, unnatural way, it becomes necessary to remove that surplus | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| you where you can change, without strain or unnatural exertion of control. It is up to you | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| cover it up and contort it into many unnatural and laborious forms. These twists and turns alienate | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| in a state of bliss is in an unnatural, disturbed condition. It is important for you, my | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| and unnecessary hardship exist because of allegiance to unnatural laws. The differences between natural laws and the | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| are frequently quite pronounced. Sometimes the natural and unnatural laws are so similar that they seem identical | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| exhaustion will follow when energy is expended. The unnatural tautness and intensity of a person's state of | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| will then be felt as something foreign and unnatural. This is the first step toward being able | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| stopped through hardening, refusal of the experience, and unnatural restriction. The better you are attuned to your | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| not a stark illusion to suppose that this unnatural, evasive way of self-defense is a more trustworthy | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| you do not even realize that they are unnatural and that you could be quite different if | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| exist. Then, and then only, will whatever is unnatural and destructive reconvert itself. Now let us go | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| the distorted, fearful personality hinders this natural process, unnatural processes are sought. This is why people yearn | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| false responsibility. Such a forced act would be unnatural and incompatible with organic development. Its effects might | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| state that also exists in you behind the unnatural state. The open, free and natural state that | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| my habitual state of unpleasure, pleasure almost seems unnatural. ANSWER: If you can conceive of yourself as | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| and thus do not even notice as an unnatural, painful and unnecessary state. When you listen into | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| Thus their disbelief is often every bit as unnatural, dishonest, and superimposed, as opportunistic and conformist, as | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| Unnecessarily...............17 | |
| This realization will prevent you from being hurt unnecessarily, for people who are in any deviation of | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| to be an ambitious person, have chosen an unnecessarily difficult life, perhaps even against the advice of | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| of maturing. Outer influences may encourage the inclination unnecessarily, while the personality may otherwise grow out of | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| inner conflicts and errors that burden you so unnecessarily -- you do not know how much. You | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| words. The relief of a burden you have unnecessarily carried will be so tremendous that your joy | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| about a state of civilization that makes life unnecessarily difficult. Thus your often unpleasant reality is in | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| mutually reject each other. While you defend yourself unnecessarily because no actual danger exists, you are releasing | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| nothing more destructive on this earth than people unnecessarily defending themselves. There is nothing that creates more | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| seldom in the spirit. These lead often so unnecessarily to a harsh ascetic life that is joy-negating | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| prevent accumulating avoidable real guilts and putting yourself unnecessarily under the power of detrimental influences which encourage | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| and makes the path so much longer and unnecessarily painful. The words have been said, but people | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| implies something that makes you want to fight unnecessarily against the frustration. This forces you to remain | 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION |
| is a requirement without which the way becomes unnecessarily difficult. Such an approach and attitude will build | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| yourself of this new power often keeps you unnecessarily away from the beauty of your inner reality | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| very unjustified feelings and thoughts. You reactivate, often unnecessarily, your old, already obsolete authority problem. Anyone who | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| life to very narrow limits and make yourself unnecessarily vulnerable in a brittle way. When you free | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| the attitudes in you that make this expansion unnecessarily painful. In your fear you confuse issues; your | 246 TRADITION: ITS DIVINE AND DISTORTED ASPECTS |