| Unpronounced................7 | |
| It is a long tradition of misunderstanding, often unpronounced, that to be godly means to be unhappy | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| is a long tradition of misunderstanding, an often unpronounced conception that to be godly means to be | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| underlying claim which leaves you unfulfilled. Find the unpronounced claim and desire, the repressed need that you | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| When you observe your emotions with their inner, unpronounced claims, and see the resulting behavior pattern; when | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| little nucleus of fear -- still vague, hazy, unpronounced -- is what we have to bring into | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| strife ends when you accept yourself. By the unpronounced but nevertheless distinct expectation that you must first | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| for will dissolve. This burden is subtle and unpronounced. Once you can ascertain in full consciousness, I | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| Unpurified..................42 | |
| spiritual value, or they give over to sick, unpurified emotional currents. These use up much energy. It | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| that their pure currents are polluted by the unpurified qualities. But here everything is clear and open | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| the right act is entirely unsupported by the unpurified feelings, and therefore the person is at war | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| conviction. Be aware that your feelings are still unpurified in this or that respect. Then you have | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| your own convenience while your feelings are still unpurified and not always in accordance with your outer | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| God's world because there were still too many unpurified currents and attitudes in the soul, too many | 22 SALVATION |
| which will succeed as long as there are unpurified beings on this earth. Therefore, direct communication with | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| self-will within each one of you. For each unpurified being desires, perhaps unconsciously, things that are wrong | 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR |
| that this kind of love is wrong. The unpurified soul lacks the strength to risk losing the | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| is cut to order to suit their personal, unpurified needs. There are many who are too proud | 36 PRAYER |
| certain point is reached, is self-serving, then remaining unpurified and unhappy would seem to be a higher | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| the free and harmonious human being. The more unpurified and disharmonious you are, the less objective you | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| is not disharmonious in his activity, as an unpurified human being would be with an overactive current | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| of weakening it, as happens in the disharmonious, unpurified being. If you reread the story of Creation | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| It may even manifest as courage in the unpurified state, although then the courage is used for | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| very treacherous. Do not be dismayed that your unpurified emotions do not change merely because you have | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| change merely because you have finally recognized their unpurified nature. Adjust yourself to the necessity that, for | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| That is why life on this imperfect and unpurified planet is necessary for every soul who is | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| and opinions. But they differ greatly from the unpurified ones of the human personality. Your own higher | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| same way. A similar relationship exists between your unpurified personality and your divine personality. The latter is | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| possibilities. Perhaps to a very small degree any unpurified human being may have a little of this | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| it would seem a higher aim to remain unpurified so as to be unhappy because this would | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| word split in the medical sense, please. No unpurified person is one, for you have so many | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| that you are a human being with many unpurified emotions, with many childish, selfish, and shortsighted attitudes | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| you can learn from because it brings forth unpurified soul stuff. It is therefore my suggestion that | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| a focused awareness that is lacking when these unpurified aspects are submerged in the largely purified personality | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| qualities. The same principle holds true of the unpurified personality. Thus, each entity deals differently with the | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| use the already purified aspects to help the unpurified part in the task fulfillment. The conscious ego | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| totally with the part of you that is unpurified and hates itself. The moment you realize this | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| to find the best way to deal with unpurified aspects, the divine voice will be heard and | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| voice will not get you away from the unpurified part; it will bring both parts together, the | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| great new influx of consciousness and avoid confronting unpurified matter in the soul. Such abuse will turn | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| which cannot exist as long as you are unpurified and alienated from the truth of your inner | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| how the corresponding type of distortion in the unpurified areas of your soul becomes an inevitably compelling | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| effect on you is caused by your own unpurified, limited, and undeveloped consciousness. Your unpurified consciousness has | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| your own unpurified, limited, and undeveloped consciousness. Your unpurified consciousness has the effect of drawing devils near | 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL |
| The spiritual forces are so strong that an unpurified personality cannot bear them. To the degree that | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| and power currents within an individual soul. The unpurified soul cannot stand this power current. To the | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| cannot stand this power current. To the degree unpurified soul substance festers in the personality, the power | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| fear and denial is a symptom of the unpurified soul, the fallen spirit, if you will. But | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| this. Those who do are themselves fallen spirits, unpurified souls, and parts of this evolutionary movement. The | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| enveloped in the negativities that stem from your unpurified self and that therefore draw evil forces to | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |
| Unquestioned................5 | |
| amounts to a desire for omnipotent rulership, for unquestioned obedience from the surrounding world, for a special | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| would carry you way beyond the fence of unquestioned standards. This fence seems a protection against disapproval | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| result of stale, stagnant, obsolete ideas that remain unquestioned. If you dare not question your own taboos | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| of a should, but out of a natural, unquestioned I want to, the response is free, with | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| create the words you speak -- the unchallenged, unquestioned thoughts you utter within your own mind. So | 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD |
| Unquestioningly.............5 | |
| that one should not accept the medium's messages unquestioningly can be easily misused by those who don't | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| At first such a person embraces this authority unquestioningly. Then he or she goes to the other | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| inherently so. The power works eternally, neutrally and unquestioningly, according to the entity's consciousness and direction. The | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| which what is right for you now must unquestioningly be right tomorrow or next year. In your | 230 THE UNIVERSALITY OF CHANGE -- REINCARNATIVE PROCESS IN THE SAME LIFE SPAN |
| frightening world. Submitting Christians accept their parents' doctrine unquestioningly also because they cannot bear the thought that | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| Unraveling..................3 | |
| traits which do not inspire love. Only by unraveling this entire process can the painful inferiority feeling | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| have problems that could be resolved only by unraveling this knot. The first step is to become | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| his or her personality this holds true. By unraveling this whole process and taking cognizance of it | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| Unreachable.................4 | |
| want happiness because you fear unhappiness, happiness remains unreachable. If you want happiness for its own sake | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| alternative because of that, makes the latter an unreachable illusion. This may explain to many of my | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| they are not returned, when the other is unreachable, unattainable, the feelings increase and reach out. It | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| frustration or necessary discipline. When these goals remain unreachable, you resent and blame authority figures, often accusing | 256 INNER SPACE, FOCUSED EMPTINESS |
| Unreal......................95 | |
| truths, this kind of knowledge will be vague, unreal, doubtful, and will not support them. The more | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| rather produce in their unconscious all kinds of unreal guilt feelings, which either do not at all | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| are, in their momentary imperfection. Guilt complexes are unreal and therefore never lead to liberation. They create | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| refers to a mood and therefore to some unreal thing that cannot be grasped. People only take | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| you might call phony or false; it is unreal. I will return to the above example. The | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| to determine a good, genuine color or an unreal, sweetly artificial coloring. You even have created a | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| So, you see, all legends are not as unreal as they might appear to you. Let us | 21 THE FALL |
| a way which is too human or too unreal. The primitive person who tends toward superstition is | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| believe the outer and known trend must be unreal. Therefore, you cannot accept the new finding. But | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| the standards of your compulsive conscience are irrational, unreal, and impossible to realize, and since you believe | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| each one of you. This abyss is utterly unreal, and yet it seems very real as long | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| endangered because your world of Utopia is proven unreal. This is the phantom fear which makes you | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| it, for the superimposed layers, created out of unreal concepts, cannot live in a world of reality | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| the emotional importance you attached to them was unreal. The more your fear of loving produces the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| in freedom, without urgency, and therefore without any unreal, preconceived ideas of how a relationship should be | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| exist inwardly. In this predicament, you have an unreal picture of other people, since you are tempted | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| do not. Your picture of them is not unreal because what you emphasize in your varying moods | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| see what is really bad. Your picture is unreal because of your underlying motive for seeing the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| or bad side rather strongly. And it is unreal because, in each instance, your perception of the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| is tainted and one-sided. You also have an unreal idea of the importance that incidents or the | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| learn to distinguish between the real and the unreal, in this respect as in any other. It | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| and unconsciously forcing others to submit, you construct unreal situations by wishful thinking. In doing so, you | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| be what the child who has built this unreal form wants. The unreal form is a constant | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| who has built this unreal form wants. The unreal form is a constant hazard, and you forcefully | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| who thwarts your will. You refrain from constructing unreal situations which obstruct your view of that which | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| see it, cannot really work. It is as unreal as the effect of attempting to command it | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| force or defend against these wrong conclusions, are unreal. All the impulses and drives you employ in | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| drives you employ in their service are equally unreal, imaginary, and therefore ineffective and damaging. They are | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| it cannot evolve. In your world of unreality, unreal and untrue impulses operate. They can no more | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| Your images are pseudo-defenses. They are based on unreal assumptions. They are supposed to bring you happiness | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| ANSWER: It gives a temporary, superficial, and very unreal pseudo-cure. COMMENT: It takes you by mechanical means | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| a horror. The horror therefore must have been unreal, for a reality is permanent and unchangeable. Only | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| as long as you experience something that is unreal as a reality, the remedy is not in | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| self-purification and growth, because you started building an unreal self on a false foundation and leave your | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| approved of or agreed with, the danger is unreal. In a recent lecture I mentioned three main | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| to actual provocation, and unjustified indignation due to unreal or self-caused provocation. Only extensive work on this | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| feet at the slightest provocation because it is unreal. So, build your true security. You have nothing | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| or it can be something quite imaginary and unreal. Let me give you an example of a | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| both the emotional and spiritual levels, real and unreal needs also exist. If a real need is | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| human personality, a false need will appear somewhere. Unreal needs always have the form of compulsiveness and | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| an inordinate need for approval is in itself unreal. This is not necessarily so. To a certain | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| form of encouragement. If an inordinate, and therefore unreal, need for approval exists, that is often because | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| knowing that awareness of your needs, real and unreal, will not immediately fulfill them. You will first | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| you will learn to distinguish between real and unreal needs by discovering that real needs can be | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| because now you know these reasons to be unreal and invalid. You have learned, for instance, that | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| remedy for the hurt. Since the image is unreal, so must be the remedy, which therefore never | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| image. As I said before, due to the unreal premise that all women are the way the | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| feel the real, as well as the superimposed unreal needs. Simultaneously, train yourself to feel your defensive | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| of self-alienation. You focus your concentration on something unreal and unreasonable, something foreign to the real self | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| unless it is displaced or superimposed by an unreal one. A drive, as I mentioned earlier, comes | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| a static image, which gives you a certain unreal sense of order and security. You think you | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| subject? QUESTION: When parents give the child an unreal, or perhaps real, feeling of rejection, the child | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| real needs. You may know some of your unreal, superimposed needs, but only after a fuller understanding | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| You cannot tell the difference between actual and unreal threats, because the state of being on the | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| when your defense mechanism functions in a neurotic, unreal situation. You choose either the pseudo-solution of aggressiveness | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| isolate yourself with your busy defense against an unreal danger. Actual dangers in which you need all | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| the more you use the instinctual faculties for unreal danger the less they will work effectively and | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| inner system is constantly geared for defense against unreal dangers is often incapable of coping with real | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| This is why we have to eliminate the unreal defense against an unreal danger. Such dangers are | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| have to eliminate the unreal defense against an unreal danger. Such dangers are emotional hurt, rejection, frustration | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| of the moment, but when it comes to unreal dangers, the truth lies somewhere else. You do | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| life is benign and that your depressions are unreal. The flow of living is continuous and only | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| own identity. Hence every function of life seems unreal, like a role you play. You may actually | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| give you a very good clue to how unreal you feel yourself to be, how alienated within | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| same self-centeredness is therefore responsible for creating false, unreal good feelings. This is another angle that shows | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| wrong, but, upon closer examination, is rigid, one-sided, unreal? In this fantasy, do you expect being favored | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| is not understood, since the misconceptions and the unreal outlook behind it are not yet seen in | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| what dwells inside, for overcoming resistance and the unreal fear to do so -- means using impression | 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION |
| Both are a strain and both feel distinctly unreal. The next link in the negative chain reaction | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| because -- due to this unreality, to your unreal perceptions -- you suffer more while you are | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| your fully seeing it. Illusion also means producing unreal negative emotions. This, too, may be subtle. Both | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| you need confirmation or reassurance by others. Any unreal needs have an addictive quality; the more one | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| the life force is prohibited. If there is unreal emotional intensity, the life force cannot enter the | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| You still perceive this as a faraway, abstract, unreal theory, and you experience yourself as an isolated | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| am that I feel so guilty, even about unreal issues. When discovery does not lead to lasting | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| eons later. This kind of bliss appears so unreal and distant from what people consider truly desirable | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| eye, but this does not mean it is unreal. It is no more unreal than atomic energy | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| mean it is unreal. It is no more unreal than atomic energy, which cannot be seen with | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| a much greater self-acceptance and understanding of reality. Unreal self-hate and self-disgust will go away. Equally unreal | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| Unreal self-hate and self-disgust will go away. Equally unreal claims for specialness and perfection also go away | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| divine heritage. Their actual, already manifest goodness seems unreal, even fake, because they refuse to tackle the | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| a person's life may be utterly false and unreal at a later period. What is a real | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| frustration. It is then possible to recognize the unreal need and the vengeance with which it is | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| with which it is perpetuated, pursued, and justified. Unreal needs are demands made upon others. Unreal needs | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| justified. Unreal needs are demands made upon others. Unreal needs can never be fulfilled. It is an | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| needs can never be fulfilled. It is an unreal need to assume that being hurt will harm | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| The moment these difficulties are not channeled into unreal needs, the pain can be dissolved and can | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| one by one of your insatiable demands and unreal needs, you will find out that they are | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| or an unyielding wall in your life, an unreal need has to be looked for. You must | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| fact that you question the validity of these unreal needs, which you had taken for granted as | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| this seems the real self. The other seems unreal -- perhaps even phony. This seems true especially | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| confusion might be: Am I longing for something unreal? Would it be perhaps more realistic and more | 204 WHAT IS THE PATH? |
| groping in the dark, floating on a groundless, unreal -- reality-less, if I may coin a word | 221 FAITH AND DOUBT IN TRUTH OR DISTORTION |
| you to suit your most infantile misconceptions and unreal needs for instant gratification. You feel that everything | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| or in displaced longings -- longings for false, unreal fulfillments. The longing may also manifest in compulsive | 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING |