| Unwanted....................4 | |
| soul due to the suppression of conflicting or unwanted desires that everything is entangled, and it will | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| relaxed attitude of accepting, for the moment, the unwanted pain, and fully understanding that the self-produced misery | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| may be reaction to, and correction of, an unwanted situation with the other parent -- a compensation | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| then seek out various ways to camouflage the unwanted parts. When you succeed, the truth of this | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| Unwelcome...................33 | |
| inner wrong currents and attitudes and the outer unwelcome occurrence, you will come face to face with | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| matter how subtle, as you go through an unwelcome experience, you will cease being afraid of the | 60 THE ABYSS OF ILLUSION -- FREEDOM AND SELF-RESPONSIBILITY |
| be somewhat like this: Death and pain are unwelcome. One day death will come to me. I | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| healthy way is to say, Yes, death is unwelcome. I really do not know what will happen | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| only come to understand what brought on many unwelcome results, but how it is in your power | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| to relinquish, because you dare not face an unwelcome reality and cope with it, you cannot be | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| you seek a way of fighting against the unwelcome influences that have created the original pain. The | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| from others to avoid feeling guilty or fearing unwelcome consequences. In both cases the result is resentment | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| not you will succeed in growing, shedding an unwelcome trait, acting constructively -- as though all this | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| attachment creates all the personal difficulties, all the unwelcome circumstances. All the many souls inhabiting this earth | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| the same in the psyche and are therefore unwelcome. Similarly, in distortion, fulfillment turns into satiation, stagnation | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| my friends, what causes your outer difficulties and unwelcome situations. Even before you are capable of giving | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| this awareness and to link it with the unwelcome manifestations in your life. This essential step must | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| have them and, subsequently, connecting them with the unwelcome results must give you new hope and a | 140 CONFLICT OF POSITIVE VERSUS NEGATIVE ORIENTED PLEASURE AS THE ORIGIN OF PAIN |
| corrects the misconceptions that have brought the outer unwelcome experience about. By not cringing away from it | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| bad -- your mentality denies self-responsibility for the unwelcome experience, and your emotions disturb the natural rhythm | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| Seek to understand the connections between yourself and unwelcome emotions and those outer conditions that cause these | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| knows no fear of ending or loss or unwelcome byproducts. It is the kind of happiness, as | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| appears, to the uninitiated and still self-involved, an unwelcome development that one cannot identify as growth. In | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| center. By the very act of self-acceptance, the unwelcome emotions and attitudes gradually dissolve. Even before that | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| so that you can avoid going through the unwelcome feelings, you put obstacles in the way. Those | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| what already exists in you. Striving away from unwelcome feelings leads into more strife. If you expect | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| strife. If you expect the pathwork to eliminate unwelcome feelings before you have fully experienced and understood | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| The pathwork teaches you how to accept our unwelcome feelings, not how to get out of them | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| world. You fear that by doing so, certain unwelcome results will occur. Here, too, you must ask | 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER |
| and sees the secret attitude that produced the unwelcome fate. Once cause and effect are connected, one's | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| hidden wrong assumptions and destructive reactions when anything unwelcome comes your way, and fully open to truth | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| in exact proportion to your inability of enduring unwelcome feelings. You deny the fear of not being | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| whenever you feel consistently anxious and uncomfortable as unwelcome conditions arise in your environment. The belief in | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| your attitude to yourself. And it must bring unwelcome effects from others to you. No matter how | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| toward responsibility is considered a burden and an unwelcome, undesirable constriction. The more mature you become, the | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| self-awareness in all those mundane aspects that are unwelcome for you to face and deal with. Only | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| that seems momentarily to your disadvantage or feels unwelcome. You are no longer in a state in | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| Unwilling...................98 | |
| that such a person may be petty and unwilling to give. It is just that, in ignorance | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| however, do not recognize it because you are unwilling to awaken to the inspiration coming from the | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| learned this truth as long as you are unwilling to pay. Paying means accepting your difficulties, knowing | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| most wonderful venture. But even if you are unwilling to take this road, it is infinitely better | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| truth about yourself or not. If you are unwilling to face yourself with the truth, and rather | 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| knew how, but since you were incapable or unwilling to love, their love was more of a | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| personal responsibility for your hardships, and you are unwilling to take the medicine. Try to translate your | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| and I wish for change but I am unwilling to bring it about myself? Anyone who has | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| force, often taking a person unaware and even unwilling to go through the experience. Only if the | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| understand the deep meaning of Eros. They are unwilling to learn pure love, and simply use the | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| change too. This depends on you. Whoever is unwilling to take the risk of this great adventure | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| journey. The choice of a partner who is unwilling comes out of the hidden fear of undertaking | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| your sphere. It helps many who may be unwilling and unprepared for the love experience. It is | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| No one can say then that I am unwilling. But what really bothers me, I will not | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| you are incapable -- I should rather say, unwilling -- to form an opinion for psychological and | 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS |
| the soul. If people who are unable or unwilling to make decisions wait for God to take | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to give you something that you are inwardly unwilling to give them. You request unconditional love. You | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| as overgrown imagination. Because of this, you are unwilling to love. Therefore, your capacity to love is | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| no terror, there is no need to be unwilling to give love. With this willingness, your capacity | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| love. The more you are afraid of love, unwilling and thus unable to love, the more you | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| it is to request something that you are unwilling to give. Your desire to be loved is | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| reality. You cannot do this if you are unwilling to face your confusions and misconceptions. Be on | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| with what I discussed here. If one is unwilling to assume mature responsibility, then one naturally feels | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| believable they are, the better they serve the unwilling part of the human being. All of you | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| can have such a result. If people are unwilling to apply it personally, in the deepest possible | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| actually results from withholding outgoing forces and being unwilling to risk giving of yourself. Such an attitude | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| How can you give it if you are unwilling and unable to feel as much as you | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| your still existing, actual immorality, which you are unwilling to face, makes you moralize with yourself and | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| does one not hear the points one is unwilling to hear, but actually one often hears the | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| unaware that he could do so, and even unwilling, because he cherishes the pseudo-individuality of the perpetual | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| this is the case, realize that you are unwilling to leave your inner isolation. You are too | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| escape from a drab reality. When you are unwilling to leave your isolation, your needs cannot be | 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS |
| hindered because the object of their affection is unwilling to receive the powerful, demanding force that they | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| you observe; doctrines you follow. If you are unwilling to live through, and be in your present | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| valid occurrence to cover up something you are unwilling to face and come to terms with. Whether | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| willing to see it. In self-pity you are unwilling to see the way out; instead, the world | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| it, yet certain other parts you are absolutely unwilling to accept. You are so frightened by the | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| area of the lower self that you are unwilling to tolerate. This condition is quite general and | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| restraints and feel that you are as yet unwilling or unable to give them up. In this | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| the child to substitute for feeling irritated, and unwilling to tackle the problems the child has, so | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| or to give up something which it is unwilling to surrender. Self-will wants the little ego to | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| reverse situation exists. The little ego is lazy, unwilling to assume the necessary responsibility or accountability, unwilling | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| unwilling to assume the necessary responsibility or accountability, unwilling to do what must be done in order | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| am convinced of a no, which I am unwilling to face so that I can go on | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| Being alienated from yourself, because you are still unwilling to expose yourself, you come to a crossroads | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| when the self keeps it secret and is unwilling to give it up. So what is bad | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| that the area you most fear and are unwilling to see is the one you most need | 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF |
| These instances harbor the secret you are still unwilling to unveil, in spite of all your good | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| seems to exact from them something they are unwilling to give. This, my friends, is the work | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| causes you misery, and yet are unable and unwilling to give up this way of being. It | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| desire. If you feel inwardly tense and are unwilling to relax into an attitude of wise, positive | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| different when someone has the capacity, but is unwilling to do so; when a person could unfold | 151 INTENSITY: AN OBSTACLE TO SELF-REALIZATION |
| again and again, by deliberately instructing your still unwilling and tentative unconscious: I let go, I let | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| they a result of a rigid selfwill -- unwilling to bend, change, flow with the stream of | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| obstructions in the personality which the ego is unwilling to remove, to that extent life dries out | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| destructive attitude, a negativity you are as yet unwilling to relinquish. When you feel anxious, ask yourself | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| this affords you a certain pleasure you are unwilling to give up. Well, the price one pays | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| disentangle this level of reality. If you are unwilling to see what you believe to be true | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| indeed seem endless as long as you are unwilling to give up this negative attitude toward life | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| perceive yourself correctly. For example, if you are unwilling, and therefore apparently incapable of, shedding your idealized | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| they must respond in kind. Since you are unwilling to be positive and giving, and do not | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| perception of anything be accurate if you are unwilling to perceive yourself correctly? The triad of perception | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| for what it is, you may still be unwilling to give it up -- for whatever reasons | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| behind it. It is as though your personality, unwilling to face up to the real guilt but | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| consciousness may get lost in its own momentum, unwilling to stop. Later, it no longer sees how | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| painful, but only as long as you remain unwilling to give up the negativity. If you will | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| you cannot shed as long as you are unwilling to look behind it. It is of specific | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| more harmful than denying that the self is unwilling to abandon destructive attitudes and then pretending that | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| own terms, and you are in fact secretly unwilling to share, your longings must remain unfulfilled. People | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| and negative, if in your feelings you are unwilling to accept the possibility of happy expansion, then | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| because you are afraid to be involved and unwilling to risk pain and scared of loving, then | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| channel for this to happen, you are basically unwilling to change and/or are doubtful about the reality | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| way in some areas, while remaining closed and unwilling in other areas. You will experience life and | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| bent upon its own insistence that it is unwilling to accept present reality. It wishes to be | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| are uncreative for two reasons: either they are unwilling to adopt the necessary self-discipline to follow through | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| give up the wishful thinking that makes you unwilling to face the irrational, destructive aspects of yourself | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| this level you are totally egotistical and therefore unwilling to accept any frustration, little or big; you | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| accept any frustration, little or big; you are unwilling to deal with any difficulties and therefore cannot | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| long as human beings are unable, or rather unwilling, to recognize their destructive aspects, they must be | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| direction must be taken, many leave the path, unwilling to accept the truth that avoidance is futile | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| child created fear and pain which you were unwilling and unable to experience fully. That cup has | 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS |
| going and that whatever you may be now unwilling to experience is universal, necessary, and not at | 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS |
| you hide from the lower self and are unwilling to face it, you will not find the | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| is, you still find yourself unable, or rather unwilling to abandon this attitude. A great effort to | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| requires commitment: total, unequivocal commitment. If you are unwilling to invest yourself in that way, you seek | 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT |
| this is the way I am, and is unwilling to give up this pleasure, convinced that this | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| perception of those around you because you are unwilling to deal with pain or frustration. Or you | 211 OUTER EVENTS REFLECT SELF-CREATION -- THREE STAGES |
| from each other and from life. You were unwilling to give to life. Only recently do many | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| its hopelessness. Thus the outer personality finds itself unwilling to move, even though it could. The inner | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| responsible and establishing their own channel, but are unwilling to do so. I might say, you have | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| unable to take on selfhood individually, and being unwilling to do so, insisting that others -- parents | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| conscious, mature mind is at first unable and unwilling to comprehend. It hardly needs to be emphasized | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| leadership that the infantile personality lacks and is unwilling to even consider is the proper attitude toward | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| you. Most of the time you are completely unwilling to consider such a possibility. You are so | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| life manifestation, that is where you are most unwilling to move, that is, to change an attitude | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| enjoy the accompanying privileges. A person who is unwilling to assume such responsibilities has not rightfully earned | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| if authority is being abused, those who are unwilling to assume the demanding task of leadership are | 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS |
| abundance can exist for them, and they are unwilling to give. Perhaps they do not want to | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |