| Condone.....................3 | |
| the inner state. I do not condemn or condone here. I am not concerned with the outer | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| even in active, cruelty. Such a person might condone cruelty in an insidious and subtle way. Certain | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| out why you adopt or reject, why you condone, and why you condemn. It does not occur | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| Condoning...................9 | |
| on a path of self-finding. You cannot be. Condoning and blindness to what exists is not the | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| -- and learn to accept them without condemning, condoning, or justifying yourself -- then you can understand | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| experienced this may misunderstand and confuse acceptance with condoning and finality. Acceptance merely means stopping the struggle | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| further destructiveness. It might lead to justifying and condoning truly undesirable things, such as self-righteous acting out | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| to accept your destructive impulses and desires without condoning them; to understand them without identifying with them | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| The new attitude of acceptance does not mean condoning, excusing, or rationalizing your undesirable aspects. Quite the | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| friends. 226. APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF Greetings, my most beloved friends | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| they are. You confuse self-acceptance and self-forgiveness with condoning and whitewashing the negativities of the lower self | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| majority considers it a horrible crime, rather than condoning it. The human race's most prevalent attitude today | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| Conducive...................14 | |
| just happens that the climatic conditions are not conducive to hay fever? Yes, absolutely. Well, if in | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| if in Europe the climatic conditions are not conducive to hay fever, then it is evident the | 70 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| hopeless. These unchaneled, primitive instincts are not more conducive to the pleasure principle than is the spiritualized | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| that can proclaim one particular happening as more conducive to learn from than another. Theoretically, one could | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| nothing will be as life-giving, life-preserving, and as conducive to true pleasure and happiness as your inner | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| forthcoming, the distortion of the procreation instinct becomes conducive to the pseudo-solution of submissiveness, compliance, appeasement. The | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| knowledge is still largely theoretical and not yet conducive to a true understanding. Only as you become | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| friends, that everything that is not genuine is conducive to, and results in, self-alienation, and therefore shallowness | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| kind of joyful acceptance of lack of perfection conducive to a loss of ambition for further development | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| behind. The general atmosphere and influence will be conducive to faster development. Again, this can be likened | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| strain, effort, and difficult discipline, which is not conducive to the great freedom and joy of intimacy | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| ease when the reality is less stimulating, less conducive to loving feelings than the fantasy. Recognize that | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| move in life in a way that is conducive to such a state, the spirit being of | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| into a primal state of fuller existence more conducive to well-being. So a new unity comes into | 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA |
| Conduct.....................37 | |
| pray for enlightenment and guidance every time you conduct the daily review. Then ideas will flow into | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| all the answers you need in order to conduct your life in a way that God will | 20 GOD: THE CREATION |
| the way I am showing you. You can conduct your life satisfactorily, but He will not do | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| who do not recognize their hidden motives cannot conduct their lives freely. They are enslaved to their | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| and then will freely choose his or her conduct. He or she may adhere to public opinion | 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY |
| the personality governed predominantly by reason. Those who conduct their lives mainly by the reasoning process are | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| technique, a training. First you must learn to conduct your daily review, which I have often suggested | 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES |
| on the outer level, on the level of conduct. On this level the answer could never be | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| as if I could pronounce one rule and conduct for all alternatives. The only true answer is | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| truth that will then govern your proper outer conduct. If you are honest with yourself, you will | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| and again I have to say, the right conduct we are all searching for does not lie | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| That would be included in it; all right conduct is always done freely. But it is not | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| at times, even be covered by contrary outer conduct that is not genuine. It then becomes difficult | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| this path. Needless to say that any right conduct, not based entirely on honesty and inner conviction | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| least as long as the person believes his conduct to be an expression of his innermost self | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| self-delusion is more harmful than the worst outer conduct or deed. Therefore, begin to search for your | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| and strong soul currents, all inner and outer conduct according to the universal spiritual laws of love | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| it without indulging in any selfish or damaging conduct. But you must recognize it in all honesty | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| them to mature. That would enable them to conduct their affairs in a very different way. QUESTION | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| do hold true for certain crass modes of conduct relating to crime and the upholding of social | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| may be. They can only show right outer conduct, and never right inner conduct. In former times | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| show right outer conduct, and never right inner conduct. In former times, the human being's spiritual nature | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| have to determine each time anew what your conduct and your attitude are going to be. With | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| supposedly right reaction, about a principle of general conduct. Ascertain if there is a contradiction of right | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| you all gain further strength, further wisdom to conduct your life and your inner growth so that | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| live without outer laws. When it comes to conduct, such laws serve as protection and are necessary | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| conscious of it. As long as your right conduct is motivated by stringent self-moralizing, based on good | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| society, and public opinion, and be faultless in conduct, but whatever goes on in the soul may | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| of human psychic disturbances. I again emphasize that conduct alone does not indicate whether the action taken | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| way of life, I do not mean outer conduct, certain characteristics that are typical for you, although | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| independent, self- responsible concepts by which one can conduct a meaningful life are not acting from mere | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| fear is the obstacle to self- responsible inner conduct, the fear will not vanish. But when one | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| your approach in the fashion suggested here and conduct serious investigation, when you take nothing for granted | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| your feelings? Do you postulate different rules of conduct for others than for yourself? All these violations | 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS |
| is not fully put to use in the conduct of your life. By using existing consciousness, new | 189 SELF-IDENTIFICATION DETERMINED THROUGH STAGES OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| choice of partner and in the way you conduct the relationship. Harmonious fusion builds up to a | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| you it will be very helpful if you conduct a dialogue, again and again, between the old | 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION |
| Conducted...................8 | |
| close to God. Such examination has to be conducted in the light of spiritual law and truth | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| a spiritual law. The daily review should be conducted in the following manner: Let the whole day | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| On the other hand, if the lectures were conducted solely for my regular friends, newcomers could not | 18 FREE WILL |
| concentrated in the highest realm of light and conducted by respective entities; each one is a representative | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| for self-knowledge, so that your search can be conducted constructively. Are there any questions concerning this subject | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| right concepts. Such teachings will have to be conducted in a way that they affect the emotional | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| ways. You may actually hear an inner dialogue conducted by these two levels of consciousness in your | 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION) |
| to fulfill a certain task. This planning is conducted in the world of spirit. I shall speak | 216 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE INCARNATORY PROCESS AND THE LIFE TASK |
| Conducting..................4 | |
| be handled. Only the soul is capable of conducting this operation. It can do so if the | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| says to the outer personality that it is conducting something in a wrong manner. This message comes | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| listening to my negativity. The negativity has been conducting me. This negativity is excessive control and contempt | 220 REAWAKENING FROM PRE-INCARNATORY ANESTHESIA |
| the planetary entity. The earth's higher self is conducting all the exposures that occur now on the | 257 ASPECTS OF THE NEW DIVINE INFLUX: COMMUNICATION, GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPOSURE |
| Confidence..................38 | |
| it. Do not minimize it. And have the confidence that what God wills for you must be | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| never be difficult any more, because then your confidence will be truly established. And why is it | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| creating your own life. This will give you confidence and the deep, absolute knowledge that you have | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| negative functioning of the inner will. The more confidence you have in yourself, the more you will | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| be varied. One reason may be lack of confidence in the hypnotist, although this may be entirely | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| you can lean on with blind certainty and confidence. This is why it is so valuable. Think | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| automatically robs the child of security, its self- confidence is diminished in proportion to its unhappiness, though | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| The stronger its presence, the more genuine self- confidence fades away. Since you cannot live up to | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| ground -- on what is feasible. Your self- confidence will therefore grow in proportion to your self-acceptance | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| to cope with life, or at least a confidence and intention that the ability to cope with | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| healthy peace exists, strength gathers and results in confidence that you will overcome your obstructions and live | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| ability to relinquish will give you strength, self- confidence, and a healthy self-respect that nothing else could | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| tremendous. You have forfeited peace, strength, and self- confidence, and made it impossible for you to pursue | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| fear of attack is so great and the confidence in themselves to handle it is so small | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| you are in fear and in disharmony. Whatever confidence you have in yourself, in your capacities and | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| you can accept frustration, you will have the confidence of knowing that you can cope with life | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| In it you can live fearlessly with rightful confidence in the unknown. You do not have to | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| you are bound to experience growth, liberation, strength, confidence. It cannot be otherwise. Blessings for each one | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| sown, even the negative results, must strengthen your confidence in the principle of the creative process. The | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| increases tension and anxiety. It prohibits peace and confidence in the self and in the life process | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| and in the life process. The only way confidence can grow is entrusting oneself to what seems | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| hope, what is fearful into deep security and confidence. It will change your life from constriction into | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| are already somewhat free from fear and possess confidence and a genuine sense of the benign nature | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| an individual's life it is impossible to have confidence in life's benign nature; it is impossible to | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| old, undeveloped side of the personality will gain confidence in these new modes of operation. Whenever the | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| will confirm that this brings relief, safety, and confidence in life. It is only pride that keeps | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| and aliveness; of a flowing feeling of utter confidence. It is a feeling of being carried, yet | 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT |
| of life and inner movement, poised in the confidence that natural action comes in its own time | 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY |
| of peace, security, vibrancy, excitement, stimulation and utter confidence. Your innermost being and your outer limbs feel | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| you. It is the other way around. Having confidence in the richness of life in this area | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| In this stage you express your desire with confidence in your ability to cope with both nonfulfillment | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| become love, the feeling of distrust turns into confidence and even into the knowledge that life is | 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES |
| If the movement is right, there is always confidence and trust that it will come to pass | 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE |
| personality. This is already a state of grace. Confidence and trust have been established as a result | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| of the many-faceted reality at your disposal. The confidence and fearlessness in which you then live necessarily | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| itself. Then you are infused with warmth, love, confidence, soft flow, joy, and creative expansion. This process | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| the devil in you, in faith and fearless confidence in the inner guidance, you will in reality | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| trust, the more joyful is your anticipation and confidence in yourself to make this new area familiar | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |