| Coordination................3 | |
| the plan? ANSWER: Heredity can only work in coordination with the plan, with karma, with the qualities | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| and poise of your movements, the balance and coordination you express, in the tone of your voice | 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE |
| set in motion the energy systems, the muscular coordination and control and the innumerable components necessary to | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| Cope........................147 | |
| so that he or she can no longer cope with life. And from a certain point of | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| experience he or she will be unable to cope with. Emotional life necessarily carries uncertainty and risk | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| learn them here, it is very difficult to cope with the inner situation. The outer conditions are | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| is afraid he may not be able to cope with the woman and thereby fears he will | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| fact must be accepted if you wish to cope with life and make the best of it | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| comes from insecurity: Will I be able to cope? Will my judgment be adequate? Will my reactions | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| opposite directions. Still another way of trying to cope is by crippling your real feelings. This also | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| break the vicious circle. Humanity has tried to cope with the problem of death for as long | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| up to now in your particular way to cope with them. My speaking of the longing for | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| major ways in which the unconscious attempts to cope with death. Both are based on negation: one | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| of the two ways you have chosen to cope with death -- evading it, or rushing into | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| as long as you do not learn to cope with death in a healthy way. You sense | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| certainty will come after you have learned to cope with death in the fullest sense. As long | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| these problem within yourself, you become able to cope with the unnecessary duality in a much healthier | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| of the divine purpose. How is one to cope with this duality? You may remember a recent | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| course, the result of not knowing how to cope with death. Now we come to the matter | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| What one personality type may be able to cope with quite well and does not experience as | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| if you own up to it, you can cope with it. You can learn to understand it | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| self, you need other people to help you cope with these demands. Unconsciously, you put pressure on | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| here is that life becomes so difficult to cope with -- not because life is in fact | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| can become aware of them and learn to cope with them by solving the underlying problems. As | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| you are great to the degree that you cope with defeat honestly, humbly, with dignity and poise | 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION |
| self-image we have discussed are unconscious attempts to cope with life. Because they are erroneous solutions, they | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| first two solutions are adopted in order to cope with life. The last is adopted in order | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| life. The last is adopted in order to cope with the conflict resulting from the other two | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| at straws because the child, seeking solutions to cope with a seemingly hostile and frightening world is | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| a difficulty that the child finds impossible to cope with unless special defenses are established. The God-image | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| pseudo-solutions. The pseudo-solutions are adopted in order to cope with the God-image, and that, in turn, creates | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| acceptance of life and a healthy ability to cope with life, or at least a confidence and | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| a confidence and intention that the ability to cope with life will be gained, in all its | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| clear knowledge of it will enable you to cope with it in the manner most appropriate under | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| finally manifest in an outer situation you cannot cope with. You cannot determine what you are really | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| you dare not face an unwelcome reality and cope with it, you cannot be spontaneous. You dare | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| own freedom, from the ability to face and cope with a situation, even if it is against | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| with reality. If you are free enough to cope with not being liked, you will react spontaneously | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| that it is impossible to face reality, to cope with frustration, to relinquish an illusion connected to | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| because you fear others, but because you cannot cope, caught between the two artificially constructed attitudes that | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| to come to the surface and learn to cope with them. Understand their deeper meaning and their | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| anyone. You feel helpless, and because you cannot cope with the issue, you hope for life to | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| are not dependent on outer circumstance. You can cope with the situation, and even though a certain | 94 SIN AND NEUROSIS -- UNIFYING THE INNER SPLIT |
| facing them fully, then by my willingness to cope with them truthfully, not superficially, nor for the | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| The mature person will accept life's uncertainty and cope with it. The immature person will not. As | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| life for what they are. Therefore, you cannot cope with any real situation and are bound to | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| a more genuine element, it is easier to cope with your feelings, and soon the hurt will | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| something the child in you would rather not cope with. So it may seem much easier to | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| The self-destructiveness derives from a certain inability to cope with problems, or the inner desire not to | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| with problems, or the inner desire not to cope with them. All the processes of the images | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| you have the courage to face this and cope with it, you can indeed shorten the process | 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE |
| further resolution of conflicts and enable you to cope with the afflicted area of your psyche. First | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| much better. In reality you will learn to cope with the mishaps and difficulties, rather than becoming | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| defensiveness, the better you will be able to cope with a danger through healthy defense. Often when | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| If it is an unhealthy wish, you cannot cope with it because you are no longer aware | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| the material world. These faculties are needed to cope with the world of matter. Thought and outer | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| memory, and they need intelligence in order to cope with life. They also need their will to | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| his fears of life and his inadequacy to cope with it, project onto this God. He senses | 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT |
| of. Since you are not aware, you cannot cope with it. This, then, causes depression, and depression | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| in their relationships, in their work. They cannot cope with life and seek all sorts of solutions | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| done for you. You do not want to cope with decisions, with the strain of living. Or | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| not wish to overcome, to make efforts, to cope with people and their demands; to decide whether | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| most human beings do not know how to cope with the difficulty, actual or seeming, of facing | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| see how to operate without these crutches and cope with life without them. The same attitude is | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| a necessary protection for you in order to cope with life. If you really see all that | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| in the over-malleable soul stuff. How can you cope with your life when you are not in | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| are being made on you? How do you cope with them? Before going any further, let us | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| also due to the fear of having to cope with the demands of others. Now, my friends | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| as it is to establish that you cannot cope with the demands of others, it is not | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| hard to be good, but is unable to cope with his hidden selfishness and cruelty due to | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| starve, they do not become better equipped to cope with the struggle for existence. If you do | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| your life. As you experience your capacity to cope with setbacks and disappointments, to relinquish your will | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| age, one no longer possesses sufficient energy to cope with life, but if this energy-current were reversed | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| the sanest people -- are much easier to cope with because they require less effort for the | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| behind those who can freely admit, and thus cope with, their resistance. If there are spontaneous questions | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| there is a struggle -- how can he cope with it? ANSWER: It is an error to | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| the fear will cause an overflow you cannot cope with. It is not the awareness that causes | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| persisting fears are unrealistic fears you do not cope with properly, regardless of what the issue may | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| have the confidence of knowing that you can cope with life. My dearest friends, meditate deeply on | 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY |
| It may be comparatively easy for you to cope with the difficulty of interacting with certain people | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| offer. This period will enable the person to cope even better with the outer world and to | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| It continues to make unfair demands you cannot cope with and push out of sight. Accept fully | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| of an accumulation of hurts which he cannot cope with. So he often finds himself in a | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| necessary, then their guilt, confusion and inability to cope with the problems that a child represents will | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| the joy and freedom of being able to cope with aspects of life you could not cope | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| cope with aspects of life you could not cope with previously. At the beginning, when deep and | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| and to others, in which you wish to cope with your personal difficulties and the world's difficulties | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| -- your growing peace, insight, and ability to cope with issues with which you could not previously | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| with issues with which you could not previously cope will prove how essential it is to live | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| you because then, and only then, can you cope with them. If you can look at these | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| your own demands are, the better you can cope with those silent, subtle currents of demands flowing | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| or those of others you feel you cannot cope with. Sometimes both occur. It is impossible to | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| with. Sometimes both occur. It is impossible to cope with something whose existence one consciously ignores and | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| easy to wish for death because you cannot cope with life when life is painful and unfulfilled | 123 LIBERATION AND PEACE BY OVERCOMING FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN |
| and knowing way? False solutions and means to cope with life create false strength, false security, false | 125 TRANSITION FROM THE NO-CURRENT TO THE YES-CURRENT |
| accept the difficulties in life. In order to cope with life, people have to accept what they | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| force. According to this concept, people have to cope with making the decision between good and evil | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| emotions arise in their own psyche. Children cannot cope with either. Numbness is also a protection against | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| expect such acts, or from an inability to cope with pent-up rages, or from a subtle process | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| but within themselves, they are adequately equipped to cope with the world's cruelty, which so often gives | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| are most shocked, afraid of, and unable to cope with the existing cruelty in the world, and | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| it necessary any longer to numb oneself, to cope with helpless exposure to pain; for you are | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| prevails, the particular problem must remain. You cannot cope with certain life situations precisely because you withhold | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| without these assets people cannot adequately live and cope with anything they encounter. Therefore, the control which | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| a loss of control, to an inability to cope, in whatever fashion this may manifest for an | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| the wrong way to protect yourself and to cope best with life. The means to inactivate the | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| experience, because you do not know how to cope with it, how to handle it. You flatten | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| very character defect makes the personality unable to cope with the good even where it exists. Only | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| purposeful warning that serves to make the individual cope with a particular situation successfully; when that situation | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| threatens you and makes you doubtful you can cope with it. This doubt results from your reluctance | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| magical means, but through your increasing capacity to cope with everything that happens as an integral part | 152 CONNECTION BETWEEN THE EGO AND THE UNIVERSAL POWER |
| will give a new security and help to cope with life. Thoughts will come from the deepest | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| of healthy strong feelings, and enough resiliency to cope with anything. Instead there is a brittleness and | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| up, denying their existence, the less you can cope with them and the further you must alienate | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| from the fact that you know you can cope with any situation because you do not have | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to see the problem and resolve it. To cope with these fears is truly the main problem | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| to the ego. For the ego's capacities to cope with life and to live life productively are | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| and inspired by the real, universal self cannot cope with anything. It becomes completely disassociated from any | 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| limitations of yourself and the outer world, to cope with the world so as to produce your | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| necessary to first accept the present limitations and cope with them, for they are a product of | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| can you attain self-realization unless you learn to cope with the realm of feelings? When you do | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| veneer is relatively superficial. Once you learn to cope with these feelings by just letting them be | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| because the ego does not know how to cope with these feelings. The way out of this | 166 PERCEIVING, REACTING, EXPRESSING |
| discomfort with which the individual was unable to cope. At a time when one is very young | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| creating harmful, life-defeating attitudes, you will learn to cope with it in a new way. If you | 167 FROZEN LIFE CENTER BECOMES ALIVE |
| the self-sufficient person is the recluse who cannot cope with people and thus escapes into solitude, rationalizing | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| dualism that wrecks a person's inner faculties to cope with anything. I say this for the purpose | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| were put into and you must learn to cope with, independently of your inner processes of thinking | 175 CONSCIOUSNESS: FASCINATION WITH CREATION |
| your present state within yourself? How can you cope with the frustrations that come your way? In | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| is particularly important because of your inability to cope with frustration. There is also an element of | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| the influence of these drugs. Completely unable to cope with life, he had dropped out of college | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| leaving both parties confused and less able to cope with the self and others. On the other | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| about the victim? How is that person to cope? As a victim, your first problem is that | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| are the aspects which determine the ability to cope with relationships. The more profoundly understood and lived | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| struggle is so immense because you have to cope with the disconnectedness of your consciousness. The reality | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| and will strengthen myself along the way to cope well with the temporary frustration of this desire | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| Hence you do not trust your ability to cope with lack of fulfillment, which makes you inordinately | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| your desire with confidence in your ability to cope with both nonfulfillment and fulfillment, and therefore with | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| you try to understand it. Your capacity to cope with the negativity of others grows only to | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| relationship similar to what you described. I cannot cope with this person's angry rebellion. I know I | 183 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF CRISIS |
| for all of you, however, is how to cope with the undesirable material that begins to manifest | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| realize this, my friends, will you learn to cope with every aspect of yourself. Almost all human | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| all human beings, with very, very few exceptions, cope with only a small part of themselves. They | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| they defend against in themselves. Your inability to cope with this acted-out, destructive behavior of others toward | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| child's life is indeed often more difficult to cope with because there is no actual occurrence to | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| because you have nothing to focus on and cope with. By facing the fear directly, you proceed | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
| plane of development, in order to learn to cope with it and thus to truly overcome it | 197 ENERGY AND CONSCIOUSNESS IN DISTORTION: EVIL |
| state of fear that they could just about cope with the environment, but they could not yet | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| the population increased, humanity developed the ability to cope with the elements. People learned to take care | 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS |
| world. The child unfolds its inherent potential to cope with others outside the home. Such growth continues | 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE |