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 Crux........................5
any great effort -- and this is the crux of the matter. Almost anybody, unless still on 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
The pretense of the idealized self is the crux of the matter. The pretense not only hides 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
will be considerable. This will indeed be the crux of understanding what makes you suffer, of what 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
done. The willingness to do so is the crux. It must exist on all levels for love 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
not wish to cease existing. That is the crux of this dualistic confusion. This is why you 174 SELF-ESTEEM
 
 Cry.........................11
The spirit takes possession the moment the first cry is uttered. QUESTION: You say -- and I 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
the spirit takes possession only after the first cry has been uttered. But it has been known 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
but your conscious being refuses to hear the cry. When you are sad or depressed, when you 31 SHAME
will see what they have lost. They will cry at my funeral. You all know these childish 53 SELF-LOVE
just how noticeable, how strong, how obvious the cry for approval is and in what area the 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
this ever continuing repetition, will you no longer cry to be loved by the parent. Instead, you 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
of life. You do not have to beg, cry, submit and sell your soul in order to 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT
accept these limitations which are such a far cry from the idealized self. But as you learn 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
to give you satisfaction, then you will not cry over something that is actually no loss at 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING
is loosened up and you feel and you cry, you tremble and you writhe, and you experience 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
this capacity to a great degree. They can cry bitterly in one minute and laugh genuinely in 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE
 
 Crying......................11
Your innermost self, your divine spark, is constantly crying out for this food, but your conscious being 31 SHAME
a disadvantage. So when, with your insistent inner crying and demanding, you get the supposed advantage, you 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO
absolute despair, which you can observe in a crying child. The issue over which the baby cries 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS
as adults they will go through life unconsciously crying out for what they missed in childhood. This 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
reexperience the longing and the hurt of the crying child you were once, even though you were 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
I have the feeling my heart is still crying about all I've lost. And then I don't 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
adult conscious mind ignores the fact that a crying, demanding, angry, and helpless child still exists within 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY
needs may momentarily result in forceful expressions of crying and yelling, or of writhing and hitting, but 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
this step. This led to deep feelings and crying, but we helped each other with affection and 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
to the pure influx of spiritual power with crying. You are all gripped by strong feeling and 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
that you first respond to this force with crying. Later, a new joy will manifest within you 196 COMMITMENT: CAUSE AND EFFECT
 
 Crystal-clear...............3
Such a wish is a blessing. Such a crystal-clear strength, undiluted, unconfused, unsplit: that is a blessing 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
I said that if you have a crystal-clear wish for someone else, that is a blessing 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
have the power of light, the clarity of crystal-clear water, and therefore penetrate all hindrances. Physical matter 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS
 
 Crystallize.................8
or rather, why you think you need it. Crystallize the wrong conclusion. Once you get that far 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE
findings, your images and wrong conclusions. Try to crystallize out of them any negative or confused motives 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
and realizable, provided one takes the trouble to crystallize it. Any fear is actually the opposite of 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE
are frequently the same. When people begin to crystallize the questions they are to ask, to probe 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS
a new aliveness. A sea of feeling will crystallize pleasure supreme, the capacity to experience heights of 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
of the error. That is, you must first crystallize it out of your vague thinking and feeling 173 BASIC ATTITUDES AND PRACTICES TO OPEN THE CENTERS - RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FRUSTRATION
with the ultimate of courage and faith and crystallize out of it your beautiful angel. This is 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
them with other words, it is necessary to crystallize the word most responsible for the negative creation 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
 
 Crystallized................5
your latent inner perfection. When you have clearly crystallized your lower self into definite form and see 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
some raging, vicious circle that has to be crystallized out and understood in order to find these 47 THE WALL WITHIN
The moment you have the concise question clearly crystallized, you will already feel relief. You will have 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
and half-conscious wishes -- when this is concisely crystallized in your consciousness, you will immediately understand what 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
words about yourself. Those words need to be crystallized. They may exist only in a vague, hazy 233 THE POWER OF THE WORD
 
 Culminate...................3
more conscious levels when outer and inner conditions culminate in showing up the phantom of the idealized 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
energy sets off its negative chain, it will culminate in a commensurately negative creation and explosion. You 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
Otherwise they will create unbearable tensions that will culminate in crisis. The planet Earth has come to 227 CHANGE FROM OUTER TO INNER LAWS IN THE NEW AGE
 
 Culminates..................3
finally, in the incarnation in which this attitude culminates, the person will be predisposed to insanity. This 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
ease has been reached. Such a struggle rarely culminates in one ultimate victory. The process may have 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
the psychic nuclear point that all this history culminates in the fractional now is already preparing chain 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
 
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a situation when you have feelings of rejection, culminating into feelings of resentment? ANSWER: In the first 32 DECISION-MAKING
far-seeing than your conscious mind, knew that this culminating point was bound to occur soon. The knowledge 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
basic virtues religion preaches. In the very last, culminating point it is always a question of love 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
of you, my friends. It can represent the culminating point you have needed. I can see that 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
highest charge, an explosion follows. This is the culminating point of a specific creation. The creation has 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
thought starting the new chain of events and culminating in a psychic nuclear point is insignificant, fraught 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
to the last half hour you have lived, culminating in the very thought you finish thinking this 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
new psychic nuclear spiral can thus be started, culminating in a new nuclear point. The particles that 214 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS
 
 Culmination.................4
to be better equipped to deal with the culmination of your deviations that have finally manifested openly 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
Friday, Jesus Christ brought his life to a culmination in the greatest suffering and the greatest joy 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
fears he expressed in the hour of the culmination of his suffering. It was very important that 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS
fulfillment which the two movements find in their culmination. This is again a universal phenomenon to be 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY
 
 Cultivate...................89
of certain very good qualities, they will not cultivate self-honesty. This alone is sufficient to become the 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
from lower spheres. The next stage is to cultivate one's thoughts. Quite often a person acts rightly 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
resolution to face your inner truth with courage. Cultivate truthful thoughts; think everything through clearly, independently. Thus 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
understand and help others. Whoever can awaken and cultivate these higher feelings within the soul will truly 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
person does know about these things and does cultivate his or her mediumship in certain respects -- 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
hazily and only partially. When you continue to cultivate the perception, your talent will develop further. You 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
purify oneself by overcoming one's faults, and to cultivate self-knowledge. As to the greatest existential questions of 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
yourself, and this is not possible unless you cultivate systematically your spirit and your development. You need 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
of God is given to me. If you cultivate these thoughts and feelings, continuing to battle with 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH
I am teaching you now, that is, to cultivate and obtain direct contact with the Divine World 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
concentrate, to discipline yourself; you also learn to cultivate thoughts you are unable to sincerely feel when 36 PRAYER
forms of confusion, so thoughts and feelings you cultivate in prayer create good, clear, and harmonious forms 36 PRAYER
great contributor to peace and brotherhood if you cultivate these qualities within yourself. As long as hatred 36 PRAYER
superior, that is an even greater reason to cultivate your tolerance and understanding. If you do so 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
because of its extreme manifestation. This type must cultivate the faculty of selecting, deliberately thinking and planning 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
while it lasts. It is not utilized to cultivate love in the soul, so it peters out 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
wrong in your inner reactions. Thus will you cultivate the very change you wish to accomplish. To 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
wrong, and what the right conclusion would be. Cultivate this process of questioning and observe how the 47 THE WALL WITHIN
you build a certain consciousness. You learn to cultivate unselfish thoughts. Your thoughts are elevated in prayer 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
Bearing this tendency in mind, you will automatically cultivate an objectivity, which is one of the fundamental 51 IMPORTANCE OF FORMING INDEPENDENT OPINIONS
If the outgoing person does not learn to cultivate the restricting forces, he or she will never 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
-- is bad, so that you neglect to cultivate and purify that in you which is strongest 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
which you truly are, while you neglect to cultivate the other forces that need encouragement to grow 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
helping the spirits. The main point is to cultivate the basic healthy attitude I discussed. When you 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
path such as yours continue to nurse and cultivate the already overdeveloped aspect. That, of course, is 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS
expressed in prayer and intention. The energy to cultivate it in action can never be left to 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS
the way you are supposed to feel. You cultivate these artificial feelings for a long time, until 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
on the path. But you also have to cultivate patience as far as the present is concerned 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
receive the gratification you long for, you can cultivate this wider outlook. Take the instantaneousness out of 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY
give up the attempt to uphold them, you cultivate within yourself an inner tyranny of the worst 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE
dependency actually makes you helpless. You do not cultivate in yourself the faculty of standing on your 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS
and happens only when you truly want and cultivate it. Before such awareness is cultivated, the average 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
you wish to find meaning in your life, cultivate the thought: I wish to serve not only 98 WISHFUL DAYDREAMS
tolerance to the how and when. You also cultivate an awareness of your own disturbing currents, as 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES
half of this cycle, it is important to cultivate and develop intellect, memory, discrimination, and willpower. Without 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION
be alert to this reality in you; to cultivate the awareness. After this very fruitful year, it 105 HUMANITY'S RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IN VARIOUS STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
prohibition for the sake of love. You can cultivate the deep desire to change and find ways 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
by side with the constructive ones? If you cultivate your wish for self-knowledge daily and mean it 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT
a healthy foundation, enabling many more individuals to cultivate their growth. Every one of you who participates 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME
maximum experience from each particular incident. You will cultivate the inner will to face and understand in 112 HUMANITYS RELATIONSHIP TO TIME
permit this reticence? Could it be that I cultivate self-finding only in those areas that do not 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
not deserve all that. You do not even cultivate a concept of yourself in which you see 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
develop it, grow in and through it, and cultivate it in every possible respect. You also need 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN
beyond the ego. Their final goal is to cultivate a strong ego, whether or not they think 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF
this, which increases the ability to understand and cultivate the will and the courage to look at 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
exist in the self-realization you have begun to cultivate. Hence you experience moments of living in the 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
you meet the whole of you; if you cultivate this day in and day out and you 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
unless you contemplate the cause and effect and cultivate it with your conscious ego. As you own 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
interaction will work both ways. The more you cultivate this process, the safer you will feel, and 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
your real self and with others, is to cultivate an overall attitude deep within compatible with the 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
divine powers within you. There are those who cultivate only one of these two approaches. Some concentrate 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS
see yourself totally, as you are? Do you cultivate such an aim by expressing this desire, particularly 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
identified with your ego, you will continue to cultivate more separation, and self-idealization must be the consequence 143 UNITY AND DUALITY
use your ego so as to nurture and cultivate healthful habits regarding food, sleep, exercise, in order 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
no bitterness, no fear, no emptiness. When you cultivate truthfulness, not just once in a while, but 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
more sensitive layers of experience is required to cultivate and increase this awareness. A very deliberate, yet 160 CONCILIATION OF THE INNER SPLIT
approach life in this manner. The more you cultivate such attitudes, the more the ego- self becomes 161 UNCONSCIOUS NEGATIVITY ENDANGERS SURRENDER OF EGO TO INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES
and yet available reaction that wards off pleasure. Cultivate a purposeful willingness to see whatever still eludes 170 FEAR OF BLISS VERSUS LONGING FOR IT -- THE ENERGY CENTERS
innermost being. I hope you will continue and cultivate this process, so that you bring to life 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF)
of concentration with one-pointed attention. Second, you will cultivate a much greater self-acceptance and understanding of reality 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF)
your most destructive aspects you cannot become whole. Cultivate this altered attitude. The new attitude of acceptance 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
love in this group is a tangible reality. Cultivate it, my friends. Realize how the law of 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES
you. It will wither if you do not cultivate it. But it will grow and become forever 187 (THE WAY TO HANDLE) ALTERNATION OF EXPANSIVE AND CONTRACTING STATES
universe will communicate itself to you. When you cultivate this attitude, positive results have to occur. The 194 MEDITATION: LAWS AND VARIOUS APPROACHES-SUMMARY (MEDITATION AS POSITIVE LIFE CREATION)
the necessary conditions which you refute. When you cultivate the thought: There is enough for me. I 198 TRANSITION TO POSITIVE INTENTIONALITY
completely rid of them. As long as you cultivate your capacity to produce and experience any feeling 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
to let in new possibilities. And you must cultivate your spiritual capacities so that you can entrust 203 INTERPENETRATION OF THE DIVINE LIGHT SPARK INTO THE OUTER REGIONS - MIND EXERCISES
longing per se. Take it seriously. In fact, cultivate it and learn to understand it, so that 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
tune into your inner movements, you have to cultivate the ability to concentrate. This is not as 206 DESIRE: CREATIVE OR DESTRUCTIVE
the self-discipline you have learned. Thus you can cultivate a creative receptivity to experience the eternal state 210 VISUALIZATION PROCESS FOR GROWING INTO THE UNITIVE STATE
the final state of expanded self-awareness that you cultivate on a path such as this. What I 217 THE PHENOMENON OF CONSCIOUSNESS
courage, your truthfulness, and from the faith you cultivate, little by little, that makes you overcome your 219 CHRISTMAS MESSAGE -- MESSAGE TO THE CHILDREN
from their hidden inward selfishness. Thus they will cultivate a service through martyrdom that is not wholesome 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
self. At the same time you need to cultivate a neutrality. Your devotion to fulfilling the will 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
and openness. People in this phase continue to cultivate a rigid, inflexible attitude in which they think 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS
can control everything within and around them. They cultivate an unyielding false selfhood. All the phases of 225 EVOLUTIONARY STAGES OF INDIVIDUAL AND GROUP CONSCIOUSNESS
to call upon this force. You need to cultivate in your awareness, in your thought processes, the 228 BALANCE
approach is what really counts. You must not cultivate one at the expense of the other as 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
education in the age to come. You must cultivate the curiosity of the child to make learning 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
the questioner seriously. It is extremely important to cultivate this curiosity. Once it is squashed, the learning 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
systems and curricula participate in the new consciousness. Cultivate this vision, my friends. Even if you cannot 231 NEW AGE EDUCATION
see, this is the attitude you need to cultivate. It is a step of courage: Oh yes 235 THE ANATOMY OF CONTRACTION
impose a momentary disadvantage on you. You can cultivate an open and intelligent frame of mind much 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
to such a path. If you do not cultivate this talent, then you will be a follower 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
your energies and direction in choosing what to cultivate on your road to unfoldment? Do you abuse 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
above all, always be carried by those who cultivate a channel to divine inspiration. Those who do 242 THE SPIRITUAL MEANING OF POLITICAL SYSTEMS
and fear, and in which you continue to cultivate this process and bring it to fruition. Cultivating 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
consequences of the lower self, you try to cultivate the illusion that there are no effects. If 249 THE PAIN OF INJUSTICE -- COSMIC RECORDS OF ALL EVENTS, DEEDS, EXPRESSIONS
over to the Creator. You also need to cultivate the ability to yield to other human beings 254 SURRENDER

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