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| at first seemed so difficult to renounce. Most damages are caused by not making any choice and | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| need to grasp the significance, the effects, the damages that follow in the wake of the idealized | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| a vital part of the inner organism. This damages the psyche and the whole structure of the | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| isolation must be the result. Defensiveness not only damages your physical body, but limits your thoughts, your | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| If it is cleanly experienced when someone perhaps damages or hurts you, it will resolve itself. Other | 191 INNER AND OUTER EXPERIENCE |
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| so much the fault in itself that is damaging, but rather that they become disgusted with themselves | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| are not obvious, but are nevertheless just as damaging. Now, my dear friends, I want you to | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| which seems a solution but proves even more damaging in the long run. Unconsciously, the person argues | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| is lived out in an extremely unhealthy and damaging way. The psyche argues: Since I cannot avoid | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| to correct such an unfortunate and often very damaging situation is to find out what the unconscious | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and then concluded that activity as such is damaging for womanhood. The symbolic incident with Adam and | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| often -- he or she will constantly encounter damaging influences. These damaging influences have no effect on | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| or she will constantly encounter damaging influences. These damaging influences have no effect on the person who | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| -- that whatever brings them happiness must be damaging to someone else. Hence, it is inevitable that | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| that makes you happy is automatically selfish and damaging to another merely because it makes you happy | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| recognize it without indulging in any selfish or damaging conduct. But you must recognize it in all | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| you in a way that will ultimately prove damaging to themselves. But in other instances the action | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| this is not necessary and is actually very damaging. Your emotions must be allowed to come to | 68 SUPPRESSION OF POSITIVE AND CREATIVE TENDENCIES - THOUGHT PROCESSES |
| the willingness to change and give up obsolete, damaging tendencies and inner reactions. When you become aware | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| not trouble about it now. The deeper the damaging tendency goes, the harder it becomes. It is | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| the problem. You will then not wallow in damaging self-pity, but will grow sufficiently to shed those | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| this desire come true is unrealistic, unhealthy, and damaging, not the desire itself. Are there any questions | 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED |
| to fully facing yourself is entirely unreasonable and damaging to you. Unreality, or illusion, is bound to | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| you should know by now that this is damaging for you and against your best interest. You | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| the body, and the mind. It has many damaging effects in making you miss out on life | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| of its own. It lives in such a damaging illusion. As you solve this conflict, your awareness | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| you wanted it. Such indetermination is often more damaging than clear-cut negative motives and may apply to | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| are equally unreal, imaginary, and therefore ineffective and damaging. They are the superimposed layers, which cover your | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| limited view is not only unnecessary but also damaging. Your real self knows. Trust it. Your superimposed | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| only be more hidden, and perhaps even more damaging. But I venture to say that the frenzy | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| being, watches and knows this is futile and damaging. This deeply hidden knowledge is not correctly interpreted | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| and it turned out to be so tragically damaging. This led to the anthropomorphic concept of God | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| problems. This betrayal has not only the most damaging effect on yourself -- bringing you the very | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| Hence, nothing will happen. This is just as damaging as the other extreme of childish craving and | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| suicide. You are torn between two unsatisfactory and damaging attempts to negate death. These artificial, forceful, and | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| produce a conflict because it may simultaneously prove damaging to another person. It may make you selfish | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| completely negated. It is a very self-destructive and damaging way of coping with death. QUESTION: How do | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| in hand, and this naturally has a very damaging effect on the soul. Jesus' saying, Become ye | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| all problems. Being nonassertive, giving in, can be damaging by leaving one open to abuse and it | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| of your own defense mechanisms, which are so damaging to yourself and others. In the passage my | 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| life that you yourself should carry. The tremendously damaging effects that this hidden attitude has on the | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| happen only if you let go of some damaging attitude, something destructive that, again, is up to | 88 RELIGION: TRUE AND FALSE |
| in overexertion and overeating would be foolish and damaging. I do not mean a reasonable halt to | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| one hand, I know that these superstitions are damaging to me, on the other, I now know | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you can continue holding on to a very damaging and useless defense mechanism. QUESTIONER: You know me | 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| will lead to finally giving up the twisted, damaging defense mechanism. Do you understand? QUESTION: Yes, but | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| understand why this seemingly harmless process is so damaging. But first let us look at another way | 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS |
| the rare instances of actual danger, but extremely damaging and limiting when there is no such danger | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| and anger. I hardly need to discuss how damaging this is for you and for your surroundings | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| does not call for elaborate defenses, infinitely more damaging than the original hurt could ever be. Also | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| aggressiveness or withdrawal and flight, both are equally damaging and have the same negative results. Both alternatives | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| help you to free yourselves of the most damaging obstructions within. Be blessed, each one of you | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| in a person's life which are undesirable and damaging to one's health, yet they are not considered | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| translation. The word fear is extremely misleading and damaging. The original meaning is respect or awe before | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| out into the open, may not have a damaging effect. But they will be extremely damaging if | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| a damaging effect. But they will be extremely damaging if one is unaware of them or not | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| falsification of personality. The latter is infinitely more damaging. You cannot begin to know how important this | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| that they were responsible for creating psychic conditions damaging to your self-unfoldment. Hurts and frustrations in childhood | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| therefore feel weak and helpless. False control is damaging and leads farther away from health. Only when | 118 DUALITY THROUGH ILLUSION -- TRANSFERENCE |
| to harm others also. One of the most damaging factors in the general development of the personality | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| that clings to the personality in a most damaging fashion because it goes unobserved. The latter is | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| ideas. It means understanding that these elements are damaging because one is somehow immersed in illusion and | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| this context, why these limitations are false and damaging. When you seek clarity in an issue and | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| think, and feel in a way that is damaging to life, to others, and therefore inevitably to | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| concept of life, and therefore must be a damaging and limiting control. It puts shackles on your | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| others see and admire it or not. False, damaging, tortured moralizing and self-accusation always hides a deep | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| past danger of closing the door through your damaging moralizing. Your freedom in this respect will set | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| wishes take in an immature being may be damaging and unrealizable, their essence always remains intact and | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| of positive and negative feelings are both equally damaging, but each breeds different manifestations on the practical | 147 THE NATURE OF LIFE AND HUMAN NATURE |
| at a disadvantage; you will be driven into damaging behavior patterns. On the sexual level, such an | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| vigilance, using your ego-faculties. Furthermore, you ignore how damaging this solution is. In fact, the average person | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| psyche. It does not mean that you invite damaging, destructive actions from others or yourself. To the | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| a human being's unfulfilled needs to receive create damaging conditions in the psyche. Much emphasis has been | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| extreme, and both extremes are always equally wrong, damaging, and dangerous. People who have throughout a lifetime | 158 THE EGO'S COOPERATION WITH OR OBSTRUCTION OF THE REAL SELF |
| up above others, but it is even more damaging to overestimate your own intellect and thus miss | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| negative and destructive, its self-perpetuating nature creates highly damaging impulses and compulsions. This is why it is | 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL |
| and honesty to fully see and accept these damaging emotions and desires, only when you totally comprehend | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| directly recognized. Such ignorance is all the more damaging, for you are then less capable of tackling | 174 SELF-ESTEEM |
| These coverups are actually infinitely more insidious and damaging than the actual destructiveness itself. For once you | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| it. Such pessimism makes you fluctuate between two damaging extremes: either resignation or compulsive, blind, and consequently | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| against these negative experiences. You all know how damaging the defenses are, how they indeed destroy the | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| However, you must also dispense with the equally damaging tendency to prove your independence by blind and | 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE |
| glimpses that the taking of drugs have revealed. Damaging as it may be for many individuals to | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| surface of life. And, in spite of individual damaging effects, on the whole, a new influx has | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| act out the destructiveness indirectly -- with very damaging results. Thus your guilt compounds because the evil | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| For the evil itself is not half as damaging as your attitude to it. We shall come | 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| negativity, and yet seeing its destructiveness and its damaging effects for what they are. You confuse self-acceptance | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| that you truly have outgrown. That is very damaging. When you have not outgrown a childish, negative | 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION |
| seen as the final ideal, it becomes as damaging as the suppressed and dependent child-woman you no | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| every cherished attitude, action, or goal that proves damaging and contrary to divine law; to use those | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| that perhaps what you hide is really something damaging to yourself and/or others. It should be revealed | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| untrue thoughts about your fellow human beings are damaging to yourself as well as others. Such thoughts | 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY |
| and they can therefore exist underground causes the damaging effect. Therefore you need to make these reactions | 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE |