| Despised....................11 | |
| that if you were yourself, you would be despised. As I said before, the more you lack | 31 SHAME |
| the other, fearing the stigma of being ostracized, despised, of not belonging. This conflict can only be | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| how much I deserve to be punished and despised. The bargaining you wanted to do did not | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| rejecting parent, and perhaps even a little bit despised, the conflict becomes even stronger in the soul | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| and hurt you, the one more resented or despised and for whom you had little or no | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| you often despise others who, you think, are despised by those whose attention you want so much | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| submissive type may also admire and envy the despised aggression of others, in spite of feeling superior | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| on history and you will see how people despised the sick person as much as the sinner | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| feel your natural feelings, for fear of being despised by the people whose approval you seek. This | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| and behavior patterns similar to those of the despised parent. This often came as a shock. But | 113 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SELF |
| if I am selfish, I will be rejected, despised, not loved, left alone. And that is suffering | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| Destination.................8 | |
| so it alternates until the journey reaches its destination. The destination is the firm land, the world | 1 THE SEA OF LIFE |
| alternates until the journey reaches its destination. The destination is the firm land, the world of spirit | 1 THE SEA OF LIFE |
| the conclusion that this state is the final destination of humanity. However, this is not true. Although | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| strength and, if accepted, if they reach their destination, they can be utilized for further propagation of | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| relinquish everything that bars the way to your destination. This destination is complete fulfillment and pleasure supreme | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| that bars the way to your destination. This destination is complete fulfillment and pleasure supreme. Be blessed | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| is one configuration, one spiral. Arriving at your destination is the explosive, climactic point that brings the | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| an interim period before you arrive at your destination. In this period you are in a sort | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| Destined....................36 | |
| though only temporarily -- as well as the destined events of the future incarnation. All this represents | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| of these mission spirits to protect the people destined not to die. This is always the task | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| infant is carried to the mother it was destined for in the first place. QUESTION: Would that | 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| being is sought with the current that is destined for the love of God, it will always | 28 COMMUNICATION WITH GOD -- DAILY REVIEW |
| the active forces are used in the channels destined for the passive currents, a congestion occurs, and | 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL |
| that all the affection given to you is destined for the person you appear to be and | 31 SHAME |
| It may also be that the being first destined for these parents will not find the necessary | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| that the active current flows through the channel destined for the passive current, and vice versa. It | 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION |
| the outer shell or vehicle of the entity destined to live in that sphere. The pure sex | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| with the qualities of the spirit who is destined to be born with certain parents to find | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| and constructive way for which they originally are destined. Such knowledge can never come to you by | 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| security and experience of life that you are destined for. I promised that this evening would be | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| when not required. Whenever instincts which were originally destined to meet a specific danger are used in | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| them for what, by nature, they were not destined. Humanity now finds itself in the middle stage | 104 INTELLECT AND WILL AS TOOLS OR HINDRANCES OF SELF-REALIZATION |
| and experience it because the senses that are destined for such perceptions are dulled by your fears | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| and self-centered in their immature state, but are destined by nature to become creative and constructive if | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| to enter this path. This lecture is primarily destined to reach inner areas ready to be uncovered | 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES |
| live the full and satisfying life you are destined to live, the easier will it become to | 120 THE INDIVIDUAL AND HUMANITY |
| requires fulfillment in many directions. The entity is destined by nature to attain this manifoldedness. Exclusion of | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| subject in more detail. These lectures are predominantly destined for those of you who follow this path | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| no use of the universal powers within you, destined for your pleasure and expansion, for your growth | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| so deeply entrenched. This lecture, once again, is destined to shake you up, to make you more | 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY |
| submissive, and the withdrawal solutions -- they are destined to triumph over others and establish your freedom | 143 UNITY AND DUALITY |
| different things. The work on this path is destined to help you accomplish the awakening of a | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| see that, but I know that I am destined to die, even if I am able to | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| creation is and which the created entity is destined to experience, if it is not interfered with | 156 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| your body to experience the pleasure it is destined to experience. All these are limitations which you | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| in full harmony, functioning the way life is destined, which is utter bliss and forever greater expansion | 172 THE LIFE ENERGY CENTERS |
| steps I explained in this lecture are all destined to deal with this first phase. The second | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| what it is. There are always handy explanations, destined to get you away from seeing how you | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| I mentioned before: it makes you use subterfuges destined to cover up the unacceptable. Yet these subterfuges | 185 MUTUALITY: A COSMIC PRINCIPLE AND LAW |
| physical healing force given to a passive recipient, destined to remove a physical symptom of an inner | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| in the darkness of the void that is destined to be filled. What is the meaning of | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| divine nature, there lies your task which is destined to reestablish the connection. Ignorance of these principles | 218 THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS |
| constant inner instruction: truth, encouragement, wisdom, guidance, specifically destined to your life right now, wherever you need | 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS |
| have to be distributed over new incarnations, particularly destined for fulfilling these tasks. Also, do not forget | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| Destinies...................3 | |
| all learned that human beings forge their own destinies. That you have to carry such heavy burdens | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| future I will talk more about how the destinies of the entities unfold, how the unfoldment influences | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| forms, which must eventually affect your lives and destinies. Not only conscious thoughts have this effect but | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| Destiny.....................88 | |
| life. Those who are marked especially heavily by destiny are often much more capable of meeting their | 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS |
| their cross willingly instead of quarreling with their destiny. I have to emphasize again and again that | 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS |
| way is this state eternal. 3. CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE Greetings in the | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| capacity to judge -- as to how its destiny will unfold. For in the spirit state the | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| may sometimes even ask for a particularly difficult destiny, knowing clearly in the state of freedom from | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| lawfulness. Whoever understands this, will also understand that destiny and free will are not two mutually exclusive | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| experience must be borne because it is your destiny. Yet in truth this is very often not | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| a rebellion against God, against creation, against her destiny. And this is always a sign that there | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| person who does not follow his or her destiny will always be inwardly unhappy, plagued by problems | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| far she or he has not fulfilled her destiny to its full potential. When problems exist, it | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| integrated -- which means he is fulfilling his destiny by carrying out his own development to its | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| is easier to blame fate, the injustice of destiny and higher powers, or circumstances brought about by | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| does not fit into his or her own destiny. Second, every person, except those very few who | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| emotions and thoughts and so best fulfill your destiny wherever you are placed, can you become also | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| know the entire path of the individual soul's destiny, so that they are capable of ascertaining and | 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION |
| they are inclined to quarrel with God and destiny whenever they encounter difficulties and hardships. You may | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| If your life is in accordance with your destiny, and you fulfill the maximum you are able | 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD |
| person to become a writer may be his destiny; in this way he can best fulfill the | 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER |
| no free will whatsoever: everything is fate or destiny. Another group says, more or less, that there | 18 FREE WILL |
| ignorant current and who does not fulfill the destiny which is the reason for his present incarnation | 18 FREE WILL |
| accomplish, spiritually speaking, the maximum according to your destiny. This path with my instruction and guidance should | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| form of death, are determined by an unchangeable destiny? ANSWER: No, it is not correct. As to | 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION |
| other soul and meet it, you fulfill your destiny. When you find another soul, you also find | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| Personal love and fulfillment is man's and woman's destiny in most cases, for so much can be | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| with it. Only then will you unfold your destiny. There is no human being who does not | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| is integrated and therefore capable of experiencing its destiny -- the utter bliss of the life force | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| harmonious whole, the more you fulfill your spiritual destiny. Beyond the human sphere, this reaching out is | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| further results until the soul ultimately follows its destiny and brings all its faculties into a growing | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| voice that invites it to follow its blissful destiny, and often ascribes it to the devil's temptation | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| the same time isolating herself and forfeiting her destiny. For such is the spiritual law. In a | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| out of fear, pride, and self-will fight her destiny, she must gain the strength and selfhood which | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| truly become men and women, each fulfilling the destiny of your own sex. The factors discussed in | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| one of the most essential steps toward the destiny of all created beings. Only on a path | 127 EVOLUTION'S FOUR STAGES: AUTOMATIC REFLEXES, AWARENESS, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWING |
| waiting for all of you. This is your destiny. Every one of you must, sooner or later | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| -- such as death, or other acts of destiny -- is a gauge of maturity and denotes | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| is unnecessary. It says that there is no destiny other than the one human beings mold for | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| whenever they decide to, can mold a new destiny in which they no longer suffer. It postulates | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| universe, and that he or she alone controls destiny. The human soul strives toward this goal. But | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| greater the loss of the final control over destiny. The tight control one grabs at is a | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| limitations within the self which create an undesirable destiny. Denying these limitations by sheer outer will that | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| evolutionary state, in control of his or her destiny, the ability to give over in trust to | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| these aspects -- eternal life, control over one's destiny, pleasure supreme -- are deeply inborn, instinctive spiritual | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| psyche instinctively knows that these are both its destiny and its origin and therefore it strives to | 130 FINDING TRUE ABUNDANCE BY GOING THROUGH YOUR FEAR |
| perfection that you must ultimately realize is your destiny. But you can comprehend this only after you | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| can realize that absolute pleasure is your ultimate destiny. Accepting less is an acceptance of this earthly | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| human spiritual development. The spirit knows that human destiny is to find the true nature of this | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| is experience. It is condition, circumstances, fate, or destiny, if you will. Whatever you experience and the | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| everything necessary for the fulfillment of one's personal destiny. If this path is seen from this point | 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION |
| is only too understandable, for this is your destiny, your natural state, the direction toward which your | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| When you unwittingly block your way to your destiny because your fears and misconceptions lead to self- | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| a conflict arises in the deep psyche. The destiny of integrating the ego with the deeper self | 142 THE LONGING FOR AND THE FEAR OF HAPPINESS -- THE FEAR OF RELEASING THE LITTLE EGO |
| you will facilitate the unfolding of your natural destiny. Unfortunately, people struggle against their natural destiny, which | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| natural destiny. Unfortunately, people struggle against their natural destiny, which is so good. You put all your | 144 THE PROCESS AND SIGNIFICANCE OF GROWING |
| center, deep within yourself, can you fulfill your destiny, your reason for existing. Whatever else you accomplish | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| to reject whatever may lead you to your destiny and self-fulfillment just because it brings joy, since | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| put up such a struggle against fulfilling its destiny, when such destiny brings nothing but good? Why | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| a struggle against fulfilling its destiny, when such destiny brings nothing but good? Why do you resist | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| is blocked and prohibited from flowing to its destiny; the natural flow is stopped by conditions. These | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| force, which is compatible with you and your destiny. Even though you block and oppose the pull | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| You thus bar yourself from completing your spiritual destiny. You prevent yourself from making peace with your | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| degree you fear the cosmic pull and its destiny, love -- which can grow only in a | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| power within and one's own potentials to create destiny must also be forsaken in this duality. It | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| functioning person. This cannot take place when the destiny of the pleasure current is willfully and artificially | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| happy. Thus happiness and the fulfillment of one's destiny are synonymous. The one is unthinkable without the | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| that is your birthright, that is the ultimate destiny for all of you. Realize the truth that | 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE |
| narrow circumference is an abdication of your universal destiny. It denies pleasure, wasting the most valuable spiritual | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| always creates disunity. It is every single entity's destiny to bridge ignorance by struggling toward these unifications | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| of the universe your own, thereby fulfilling your destiny. You can create spontaneous unification out of disunity | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| are God. It is your birthright and your destiny to fulfill yourself by making more and greater | 178 THE UNIVERSAL PRINCIPLE OF GROWTH DYNAMICS |
| the disconnected, unaware human being to be haphazard destiny. When you start on the road of your | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| unconscious and thus regaining genuine control over your destiny. The stages in-between these two poles -- ascribing | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| and not responsible for one's own experiences and destiny. In fact one is utterly oblivious of the | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| of your faith in humanity and its spiritual destiny. If you then come out with the conviction | 190 IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCING ALL FEELINGS, INCLUDING FEAR - DYNAMIC STATE OF LAZINESS |
| against the soul's natural inclination to follow its destiny. This unconscious effort then manifests as tiredness, exhaustion | 199 THE MEANING OF THE EGO AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE |
| move in the direction of your own inner destiny. To follow this move is the only real | 215 PSYCHIC NUCLEAR POINTS CONTINUED -- PROCESS IN THE NOW |
| filled totally with life: that is the inexorable destiny of evolution. Everything that is alive is animated | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| what you really desire, what may be your destiny, what is your real potentiality, your real fulfillment | 232 BEING VALUES VERSUS APPEARANCE VALUES -- SELF-IDENTIFICATION |
| is only half willing to fulfill its own destiny, the momentary pulse of specific life manifestations will | 238 THE PULSE OF LIFE ON ALL LEVELS OF MANIFESTATION |
| be, it must be, for that is your destiny, that is your true nature. The other is | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| the infinite expansion that is every living being's destiny. When you observe your negative visualization -- it | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| your soul, surrendering to God means fulfilling your destiny. It brings about balance and harmony in your | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| and obstruct your natural soul movement, your innate destiny -- which is surrender to God -- you | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| with greater autonomy than ever. Resistance to your destiny to surrender all of yourself to God and | 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| two parts also. Individuals who follow their true destiny are humanity's higher self. Those who resist it | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| Humanity will begin to grow into its innate destiny. But how is faith to grow? Only when | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| must eventually grow because it is your innate destiny is important. It is the chart without which | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| because this fulfillment is your birthright and your destiny. It can exist only in a partnership such | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| away you may seem to be from the destiny I outline here. You are moving in this | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |