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| not create with one act but is continuously affecting everything, and that simply rests in its being | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| is a basic condition. The personal or mass-images affecting the individual are always determined by the particular | 58 THE DESIRE FOR HAPPINESS AND THE DESIRE FOR UNHAPPINESS |
| and masks, and thus you are capable of affecting the innermost self of other people. You penetrate | 61 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| the inner will from unfolding, from floating, from affecting the cosmic forces. As I already stated, your | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| of these mass misconceptions, a very widespread one, affecting practically everybody to some degree. It is also | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| As I have said, the hostility cannot help affecting the other, even if you are both aware | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| merely to your destructive emotions and thoughts negatively affecting -- killing -- others, but also to your | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| motives induce you to act them out, adversely affecting your surroundings. The guilt then may make you | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| results in extreme disturbance for the self, indirectly affecting others, with no hope of change as long | 134 THE CONCEPT OF EVIL |
| arises. When this misunderstanding has proceeded far enough, affecting more and more aspects of the entity, the | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| the best faculties of others from reaching and affecting you. While you exercise such control, the best | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| The isolated ego-existence is also a general state affecting all people, but how the ego blocks the | 145 RESPONDING TO THE CALL OF LIFE |
| when the unconscious interaction of one's inner problem affecting the other person's inner problem is seen as | 148 POSITIVITY AND NEGATIVITY: ONE ENERGY CURRENT |
| be accomplished only little by little, influencing and affecting the stagnant, entrapped energy/consciousness/substance, which is what is | 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL |
| not recorded because the tape ran out. 188. AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED Greetings and blessings for all | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| courage, faith, proof and conviction are vital components, affecting those who witness what is happening to you | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| entering into the experience of oneness, and thus affecting, directly and indirectly, zillions of other entities. Just | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| and vital living force in the universal scheme, affecting endlessly what is. I once gave this analogy | 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS |
| Affection...................69 | |
| you will have an empty life, lacking love, affection, respect, and that deepest fulfillment that can come | 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD |
| do not think constantly, If I show my affection or my true feelings, what will people think | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| suffering, and cold. You think that all the affection given to you is destined for the person | 31 SHAME |
| spot as you are in now: craving for affection, respect, and love to assuage their own lack | 31 SHAME |
| would not have otherwise: impulses of unselfishness and affection he or she might have been incapable of | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| blend together, there is a certain amount of affection, companionship, fondness, mutual respect, and a sex-relationship that | 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX |
| hostile. No matter how much love, warmth and affection a child is given, no matter how necessary | 47 THE WALL WITHIN |
| receive a reward, whether in the form of affection, love, approval, or to obligate others, or because | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| to a lesser extent. Love, unselfishness, emotion, sympathy, affection and so on are valid qualities that you | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| to reject it. When this exclusive tenderness and affection is not forthcoming, the child feels it as | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| deeply humiliated when it yearns for love and affection but is rejected instead. In its unconscious mind | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| is ready to offer you genuine love and affection or friendship or help in some way, and | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| wrong conclusion: Love is weakness; withholding love and affection is strength. Since you do not wish to | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| fear that love is humiliating; that humility, generosity, affection, and a demonstration of your true self are | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| form. In some cases it will simply be affection shown despite the fact that your will was | 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES |
| be more appropriate to give simple respect and affection. By giving up a little of what you | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| up your will gracefully. Thus you learn human affection and respect for the person who thwarts your | 72 THE FEAR OF LOVING |
| you had a parent who smothered you with affection or pseudo-affection, yet lacked in genuine warmth, or | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| draw the subtle, fine borderline distinction between real affection and pseudo-affection with your child's intellect? The fact | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| the parent who has particularly fallen short in affection and love that is real and genuine. But | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| hostility, your withdrawal from giving out love and affection, all these trends of the child in you | 73 COMPULSION TO RECREATE AND OVERCOME CHILDHOOD HURTS |
| this partner has a great capacity for giving affection outwardly, the inhibition manifests so subtly that you | 74 CONFUSIONS AND HAZY MOTIVATIONS |
| be happy. Their way is to reject emotions, affection, and what they may consider softness. To them | 77 SELF-CONFIDENCE: ITS TRUE ORIGIN AND WHAT PROHIBITS IT |
| your unconscious you believe you must have love, affection, and attention. It is not a question of | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| self -- will cause you to direct your affection and love toward the person able to respond | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| worst punishment was that your parents withdrew their affection from you; they were angry, and you had | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| also in their real and healthy form. Warmth, affection, communication, unselfishness: all that is despicable, and whenever | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| such a person, too, needs human warmth and affection, and without these suffers from isolation. In not | 84 LOVE, POWER, SERENITY AS DIVINE ATTRIBUTES AND AS DISTORTIONS |
| You lost something you wanted, such as the affection of certain people, or a desired object which | 89 EMOTIONAL GROWTH AND ITS FUNCTION |
| you are incapable of giving mature love and affection, you will have a compulsive need to receive | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| have a compulsive need to receive love and affection. Or if your need for approval is inordinately | 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS |
| case, the child experienced an acute lack of affection, warmth, and understanding and was therefore frustrated. In | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| the opposite sex, and for warmth, love, and affection cannot really be torn out, he will seek | 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES |
| someone for whom you feel no bond of affection than with someone with whom you feel close | 96 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS; COMMENTS ON LAZINESS AS SYMPTOM OF SELF-ALIENATION |
| suffers from imperfections in the parents' love and affection. It also suffers from not being fully accepted | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| as the child needs to receive love and affection. However, it cannot be said that the need | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| arrogant, denying your own need to find love, affection, communication, you reject the other person outright. In | 100 MEETING THE PAIN OF DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS |
| not leave room for feelings of love, warmth, affection, understanding, and compassion. Therefore in moments of danger | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| reasonably. You do not feel feelings of warmth, affection, and understanding. Therefore, you are not in reality | 101 THE DEFENSE |
| the motivation is sincere and if feelings of affection, respect, liking for the other human being are | 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS |
| find themselves hindered because the object of their affection is unwilling to receive the powerful, demanding force | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| bereavement, no matter how genuine your love and affection is for the departed. This pain will not | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| to an unhealthy submissiveness, to the craving for affection, or to any other one-sided neurotic bondage. Before | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| rebel. Then it will be out of wanting affection without being a slave, yet the person does | 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP |
| of wise guidance warm feelings of love and affection and understanding, without your own urgent needs blurring | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| understand them sufficiently, the warm, natural feelings of affection are bound to come out eventually. For these | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| a reason for prohibiting their real feelings for affection and loving. This may be so hidden that | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| loved which they confuse with genuine feelings of affection for others. The latter are much less urgent | 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING |
| or not seeing, reality. Warm, outgoing feelings of affection, concern, understanding are an outcome of the true | 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| feel empty and hungry -- maybe hungry for affection and understanding -- and the less you are | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| When you do not feel secure in the affection of and acceptance by one or both of | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| so desperately tries to win his or her affection. Not only social rules are incorporated in one's | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| the two. Simultaneously, he represses his need for affection and love, for he believes them to be | 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE |
| stems from humanity's strong separation of general human affection from the erotic sexual flow. In reality they | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| the need to give and receive love and affection. Consequently, the need for sex is denied and | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| than the need to give and receive love, affection, pleasure, such an imbalance has to be recognized | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| it splits the great cosmic force within, separating affection from the procreative urge. When human beings experience | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| in himself. The winner fears impulses of genuine affection as much as fearing weakness and desire for | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| least, you do it to succeed in gaining affection, love, approval, respect, and acceptance, without which it | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| but only in connection with the object of affection. Never do they justify the denial of the | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| of sustenance on which it thrives -- love, affection, warmth, acceptance of its own individuality. Both soul | 155 FEAR OF SELF -- GIVING AND RECEIVING |
| for all the basics of life: shelter, food, affection, protection, and, last but not least, for the | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| own efforts and resources your own shelter, food, affection, and safety, so you are also able to | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| the legitimate adult need for human warmth and affection. In this confusion you may reject yourself for | 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE |
| sell out his integrity to obtain approval and affection from others. He thus makes them responsible for | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| and crying, but we helped each other with affection and love in a deep and genuine way | 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY |
| child takes in, receives, soaks up nourishment and affection as a merely receptive organism, thus illustrating the | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| no means always positive unions of love and affection, attraction and respect. The negative mutuality between many | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| the wholeness of love, eros, and sex; of affection and respect; of tenderness and passion; of trust | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |