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 Frustrations................35
of the main reasons for your conflicts and frustrations. You often create similar conflicts and unfulfillments, while 45 THE CONFLICT BETWEEN CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS DESIRES
and reality, it functions abortively and therefore creates frustrations. Now, why is this desire so often unconscious 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
Before your entire life, with its fulfillments and frustrations, can take on new meaning, you cannot help 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
image comes into existence. The childhood hurts and frustrations, which every child experiences at least to some 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
that you always win, that you never suffer frustrations, unfulfillments, that things always go according to ideal 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF
imperfection. You repress your lack: your unfulfillments, your frustrations. You are not fully aware of them. You 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
eliminated by changing the patterns responsible for such frustrations. Second, when you repress you cannot accept what 97 PERFECTIONISM OBSTRUCTS HAPPINESS -- MANIPULATION OF EMOTIONS
were, what were their own hurts, fears, and frustrations? Understand them as one mature human being tries 99 FALSIFIED IMPRESSIONS OF PARENTS: THEIR CAUSE AND CURE
to your safety, which in reality is null. Frustrations may be undesirable, but not necessarily dangerous. Yet 101 THE DEFENSE
It does not want to deal with obstructions, frustrations, criticism. It will tell you that you wish 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
comprehension of all your outer problems, hurts, unfulfillments, frustrations as a result of your inner misconceptions and 115 PERCEPTION, DETERMINATION, LOVE AS ASPECTS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
come, as you know, from childhood hurts and frustrations -- real or imaginary. When you do not 116 REACHING THE SPIRITUAL CENTER-STRUGGLE BETWEEN LOWER SELF AND SUPERIMPOSED CONSCIENCE
psychic conditions damaging to your self-unfoldment. Hurts and frustrations in childhood have been recognized as the cause 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
conditions in the child's psyche as hurts and frustrations do. If parents are not sufficiently motivated by 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
in childhood, is connected with the hurts and frustrations suffered. In other words, just as the parent 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
insight into yourself to uncover the hurts and frustrations. A child is apt to take for granted 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
more noticeable fashion. Such stirring occurs through the frustrations and difficulties life brings. It also occurs through 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS
according to your potential. All other pains and frustrations derive from the pain of not giving out 136 THE ILLUSORY FEAR OF THE SELF
acknowledgement. The full intensity of partly-repressed longings and frustrations must be aired out. The third awareness, in 139 DEADENING OF THE LIVE CENTER THROUGH MISINTERPRETATION OF REALITY
feel guilty about the latter. Both create intense frustrations and anxiety; both yield no salvation whatever. Notice 143 UNITY AND DUALITY
longing mean in these terms? What do your frustrations mean? Needless to say, all of these can 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
more arduous. The more unconscious your pains and frustrations are, the more you will strain and grasp 163 MIND ACTIVITY AND MIND RECEPTIVITY
and want to maintain. If you ascribe your frustrations, your unfulfillment, or your pains to society you 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
self-dislike, your insecurities, your discontent with life, your frustrations, your sense of wasting yourself and life, your 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY
within yourself? How can you cope with the frustrations that come your way? In the last analysis 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
your way? In the last analysis, of course, frustrations come your way due to your inner limitations 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
stand on your own feet, to accept necessary frustrations. The equation of the acceptance of full autonomy 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
comes into your soul. Slowly but surely life's frustrations begin to disappear and rich fulfillment begins to 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE
the misery you experience, the dissatisfactions and the frustrations you experience, the feeling that life goes by 209 THE ROSCOE LECTURE: INSPIRATION FOR THE PATHWORK CENTER
worse the frustration will appear, the more the frustrations will grow in intensity and significance until they 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
They are the creators of your unfulfillment and frustrations. With your unwillingness to expose yourself to the 237 LEADERSHIP -- THE ART OF TRANSCENDING FRUSTRATION
way, you believe that if there were no frustrations, you would truly be free. Thus you are 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
believe is done to you by authority, by frustrations. Now I would like to shed light on 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
lack of freedom; your life is full of frustrations, many of them in your inner condition, some 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
are an inappropriate reaction, they also increase your frustrations and restrictions. So you need to develop a 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM
 
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own sake, everybody can and should start to fulfill their part. For all have their tasks within 1 THE SEA OF LIFE
And thus you can pass the tests and fulfill the conditions necessary to enter a higher state 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
to reincarnate many, many times to overcome or fulfill one thing, experiencing it again and again. Others 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
beings. If such a powerful henchman fails to fulfill a task that has been assigned to him 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
more than they can, or could, bear and fulfill if only they are willing. You human beings 2 DECISIONS AND TESTS
brings to it the tasks it has to fulfill; the plan is outlined. And in many cases 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
with the individual tasks that one has to fulfill. However, those who constantly allow themselves to be 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
not remain unaware of something that you should fulfill. Contemplate from this viewpoint what you should still 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
certain reason. Maybe I lack the willpower to fulfill the purpose of my existence as well as 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
also waiting to assist me in case I fulfill the conditions to receive teachings, to gain insights 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE
strive, in their soul's core, to give, to fulfill and even to sacrifice. Yet where the blind 4 WORLD WEARINESS
you. This part of the soul wants to fulfill itself, wants to surrender the ego, to sacrifice 4 WORLD WEARINESS
in this life on earth. For those who fulfill completely, to the best of their capacities, in 4 WORLD WEARINESS
so that no energy will be left to fulfill life as best as possible in other areas 4 WORLD WEARINESS
And so the spiritual law can begin to fulfill itself in you. Let each and every one 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
can experience that. Therefore they who do not fulfill the conditions necessary to experience all that they 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
lives in the true direction. They will completely fulfill their life tasks and enjoy a deep peace 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES
agree with those of the spiritual laws, you fulfill your life and you are in harmony and 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
waver in their loneliness, because they do not fulfill the lawful conditions whereby they could put themselves 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS
before it can be undertaken you need to fulfill some other conditions. I want to add that 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
a free and unconstrained soul. Many good people fulfill the first requirement and have the wish and 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
That can be given to you when you fulfill the conditions. Study the words and you will 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
soul-prayer, or meditation. Today I would like to fulfill the promise I have given some time ago 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
Father by trying to fathom His laws and fulfill them. Because for every modality of life there 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
out what God's will is, and then to fulfill it unconditionally, even while you are still doubtful 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
trying to rack your brains about how to fulfill God's will when you feel unsure, turn to 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
that you have in some way failed to fulfill God's will. For one person, feelings of disharmony 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
you pray for the answer in order to fulfill God's will, it must come. Do not be 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
way, she might not have enough time to fulfill her task which is often a very important 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
discontentment with the self. QUESTION: How can one fulfill one's task to develop one's proper masculinity or 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES
not fulfilled your potential. For those who really fulfill themselves, even if the outside result is not 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
that God's spirit world has a task to fulfill and is bound by very definite laws. These 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
person has to wish for God's help and fulfill the necessary requirements first, before this help is 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
For both abide by the spiritual laws and fulfill God's will. If the wish to fulfill God's 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
and fulfill God's will. If the wish to fulfill God's will is more than merely wishful thinking 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
have a task in the spirit world to fulfill, either in connection with their talent, or they 11 SELF-KNOWLEDGE -- THE GREAT PLAN -- THE SPIRIT WORLD
cleanse your emotions and thoughts and so best fulfill your destiny wherever you are placed, can you 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
your happiness, you gain knowledge and wisdom, you fulfill your life and so contribute to the cause 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
now, my dear friends, I would like to fulfill a wish of some of my friends and 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
highest spheres. The beings living there have to fulfill their tasks in the Great Plan, until all 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
task of the guardian spirit. The mission spirits fulfill the task of receiving the beings who come 12 THE ORDER AND DIVERSITY OF THE SPIRITUAL WORLDS-THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION
at peace inwardly, needs, in order to truly fulfill this present life and be in harmony with 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
other words, if we have a task to fulfill with human beings, we need the knowledge of 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
is recognized here that a human being can fulfill a task as a medium, it will first 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK
bothered or influenced by spirits who do not fulfill the will of God in all respects. There 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
is in accordance with your destiny, and you fulfill the maximum you are able to according to 15 INFLUENCE BETWEEN THE SPIRITUAL WORLD AND THE MATERIAL WORLD
his destiny; in this way he can best fulfill the tasks he is supposed to fulfill in 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
best fulfill the tasks he is supposed to fulfill in this life. Another person, by becoming a 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
neglect the task he has really come to fulfill. You cannot say to become a writer is 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
because you can only be happy if you fulfill the task you have taken on in this 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
you have first found yourself. Before you can fulfill a task with other people, you have to 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
a task with other people, you have to fulfill it within yourself first. That means you have 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
will; whether you have decided that you will fulfill His will, even against your apparent interest, in 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
interest, in this little moment now! If you fulfill the conditions, you must receive the answer. Again 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
lower self, you desire above all else to fulfill the will of God and live in accordance 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
spirits of darkness it goes like this: they fulfill a task in their world of darkness when 16 SPIRITUAL NOURISHMENT -- WILLPOWER
solely on people, on whether or not they fulfill the necessary requirements. I have occasionally mentioned what 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
dissatisfaction with the present life, even when you fulfill all your earthly duties to the best of 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
expect you to be a martyr or to fulfill tremendous tasks; though He may expect the latter 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
expect it from most of you. You can fulfill His will between your four walls and no 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
you are truly on the right path and fulfill God's will for you, no matter what your 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
Usually, yes. Those people have a task to fulfill. They bring something that helps mankind to wake 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW
premise that you will wish above all to fulfill the will of God. I have already discussed 18 FREE WILL
sick, or ignorant current and who does not fulfill the destiny which is the reason for his 18 FREE WILL
order of divine forces has a task to fulfill in connection with a people or a country 18 FREE WILL
accompaniments to the main purpose he had to fulfill. At a future date I will describe in 19 JESUS CHRIST
had failed, another spirit would have tried to fulfill the task; for it was not certain beforehand 19 JESUS CHRIST
it was not certain beforehand that Jesus would fulfill it, even though he was the natural and 19 JESUS CHRIST
which such reunion entails lies a duty to fulfill something. Certain other incarnations have to be gone 20 GOD: THE CREATION
another partner with whom you have something to fulfill, do not think that your counterpart in the 20 GOD: THE CREATION
to them, and a small, small part will fulfill the purpose of that guidance. The great majority 21 THE FALL
many evil desires and too much blindness to fulfill the necessary conditions. That is why God has 22 SALVATION
think of seemed indeed an impossible task to fulfill. No human being had ever had to go 22 SALVATION
idea -- of the task He was to fulfill. What may come of it, how it will 22 SALVATION
previous lives, then I have the duty to fulfill even more in my own development and in 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
highly developed now and have great tasks to fulfill on this earth. I explicitly beg you, my 24 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
life may be at times, only those who fulfill this purpose can find peace in their souls 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
your path, and therefore the still existing imperfections fulfill a definite purpose. This does not mean that 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
you will have the time, not only to fulfill your duties as you have done before, but 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
duties as you have done before, but to fulfill them infinitely better. And you will have time 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
own group because they have their tasks to fulfill. If spirits of the highest spheres did not 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
you believe in, but whether or not you fulfill the best that can be expected of you 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS
Many of my friends here seriously desire to fulfill a task in God's vineyard. But have you 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
merely wants ego gratification. This part wants to fulfill a task mainly to receive recognition and appreciation 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
very small ways before you are worthy to fulfill such tasks. You must not expect that God's 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
here the responsibility is too great. If you fulfill a task, you must realize that it no 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
particular resentment or resistance to a person. To fulfill a task demands a great severity with the 27 ESCAPE POSSIBLE ALSO ON THE PATH
you can be passive when you want to fulfill God's will. In order to truly fulfill the 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
to fulfill God's will. In order to truly fulfill the will of God you need a great 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
to understand that passivity is not necessary to fulfill the will of God. You should at all 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
must be put in use in order to fulfill them. But there are also negative desires. Whenever 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
is available for each one of you to fulfill your life as well as possible. It is 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
you have to be passive in order to fulfill God's will, but it is impossible to be 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
and without a will to do that. To fulfill the will of God means overcoming your inner 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
is necessary, though certainly not in order to fulfill God's will. First of all, you confuse God's 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
are not unfree creatures if you decide to fulfill the will of God -- quite the contrary 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
if people desire to do their best, to fulfill their tasks as well as they are able 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
to violate a human law in order to fulfill a law of God. But these instances are 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
were so easily accessible, you could not possibly fulfill your life. It would be too easy. The 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
the hours of sleep he or she may fulfill tasks with other spirits, who are out of 30 SELF-WILL, PRIDE AND FEAR
with each individual, for not everyone has to fulfill an incarnation in the same way. The same 31 SHAME
self-respect you can never truly possess unless you fulfill the basic spiritual laws within your own soul 31 SHAME
motives, currents, and emotions without that. If you fulfill the necessary requirements, help will be given to 31 SHAME
is a real bond or a task to fulfill. I just mean to give up the desire 32 DECISION-MAKING
truth. How much of the plan you now fulfill determines what opportunities will be afforded you, in 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
may be more suitable, and the parents also fulfill the best conditions for a premature birth. In 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
rear a child who has greater tasks to fulfill. Such worthiness is often determined by the spiritualized 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
a thing may either happen because the parents fulfill less or because they fulfill more than originally 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
because the parents fulfill less or because they fulfill more than originally planned. In either case, later 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
for partial fulfillments, or if he does not fulfill anything. Perhaps a person will straighten out a 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
human side, if the human attitude does not fulfill the basic requirements, the Spirit World cannot do 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
who contribute not only through the tasks you fulfill for this group, but also through every effort 35 TURNING TO GOD
the very wish you consciously express but cannot fulfill. The price for your unconscious pseudo-protection is the 38 IMAGES
accurate idea of what you have yet to fulfill and what your next life may be. Consider 38 IMAGES
require to resolve your conflicts in order to fulfill your life task. Of course, the actual next 38 IMAGES
who come to this earth in order to fulfill a mission. In the two previous lectures I 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
concentrate mainly on their spiritual development and they fulfill their task by doing so. There can be 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
real personality. These outer layers are necessary to fulfill your work on this earth plane, therefore they 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY
ten, fifteen, twenty years, and while you help fulfill the fate of some parents who have to 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO

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