| Guilt-free..................3 | |
| games. This real self- assertion stems from the guilt-free state that follows the truly giving attitude. If | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| that sweeps your universe. This requires strong and guilt-free souls who act for real, not for false | 223 THE ERA OF THE NEW AGE AND NEW CONSCIOUSNESS |
| way to attain self-love and self-esteem. The true, guilt-free awareness of other people's wrongdoing, clearly seen as | 240 ASPECTS OF THE ANATOMY OF LOVE: SELF-LOVE, STRUCTURE, FREEDOM |
| Guiltier....................7 | |
| guilt feeling, the stronger one desires happiness, the guiltier one feels. Many personal as well as mass | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| coming out of your own vicious circle. The guiltier you feel about possible wrongs you may have | 52 THE GOD-IMAGE |
| if you understand the cause of it. The guiltier you feel, the less you dare to look | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| Thus the following vicious circle is created: the guiltier you feel, the more you need approval in | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| the more you clamor for such approval, the guiltier you feel. This conflict arises out of two | 57 THE MASS IMAGE OF SELF-IMPORTANCE |
| The more such outer proof you received, the guiltier you would feel about the continuance of your | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| circle by itself that maintains the destructiveness. The guiltier you feel, the more you hide what makes | 188 AFFECTING AND BEING AFFECTED |
| Guiltlessly.................5 | |
| patterns you could not see, once you can guiltlessly acknowledge this need. It is of utmost importance | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| positive creation, where you can expand joyfully and guiltlessly without paying the heavy price you now pay | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| not speak of clear-cut anger that expresses itself guiltlessly and does not leave a trace of inner | 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP |
| no longer in a position where they can guiltlessly express their destructive impulses for an overtly destructive | 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE |
| well earned, honestly deserved, and can thus be guiltlessly enjoyed. The abundance will benefit many and, among | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| Guilt-producing.............5 | |
| approach your inner findings in a spirit of guilt-producing moralizing before you have reached a sufficiently deep | 75 THE GREAT TRANSITION IN HUMAN DEVELOPMENT FROM ISOLATION TO UNION |
| self-punishment is a substitute for giving up the guilt-producing attitudes. By doing so, you unconsciously believe that | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| ego faculties will help you to shed the guilt-producing patterns. Even if something in you doubts, you | 132 THE FUNCTION OF THE EGO IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE REAL SELF |
| Many of you have verified that hidden, feared, guilt-producing and denied thoughts and feelings are more powerful | 208 THE INNATE HUMAN CAPACITY TO CREATE |
| shallow, unfulfilling, empty, and it will always be guilt-producing, no matter what the mores of your outer | 239 CHRISTMAS LECTURE 1975 |
| Guilts......................57 | |
| person masks the true faults and invents artificial guilts to divulge? ANSWER: That happens. You see, it | 31 SHAME |
| a wall to hide behind. What are absurd guilts? They are most of all the guilts you | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| absurd guilts? They are most of all the guilts you feel because you are not perfect. It | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| from this viewpoint, you will find where your guilts are unjustified. Another unjustified guilt -- fueled by | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| here we have a few very common unjustified guilts. What, on the other hand, is justified guilt | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| own clarification separate the unjustified from the justified guilts. Find where you might have hurt others by | 49 OBSTACLES ON THE PATH: OLD STUFF, WRONG GUILT, AND WHO, ME? |
| the vicious circle, I told you about your guilts, about your revolt against authority, and about your | 53 SELF-LOVE |
| might discuss a neutral topic, but when personal guilts and inadequacies enter into the picture, which is | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| be ill. Or you punish yourself for various guilts by using sickness as a way out, thinking | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| said before. As I also said, these unjustified guilts are a camouflage for the real reason about | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| you. With that knowledge, all your doubts and guilts must disappear, because you can be at peace | 65 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| with guilt. It is the deepest of your guilts. Only the other day we discussed guilt feelings | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| I spoke about how often people create imaginary guilts, or blame themselves for very unimportant shortcomings in | 66 SHAME OF THE HIGHER SELF |
| discussed. It shows in the anxiety and the guilts when these compulsions are not lived up to | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| of guilt than the more specific, often unjustified guilts that smolder closer to the surface of the | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| surface of the psyche. These little and unjustified guilts substitute for the real guilt of withdrawal, unlovingness | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| unlovingness, and isolation. In other words, these little guilts are supposed to atone for violating the great | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| As you notice your perfectionism and your little guilts, try to find behind all of them another | 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS |
| you to face your lower self, your real guilts, to make restitution for them and to purify | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| Certain people tend to compensate for their real guilts by letting themselves be exploited. It is true | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| is necessary to penetrate through all the false guilts going through the paralysis and the weakness as | 109 SPIRITUAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH THROUGH RESTITUTION FOR REAL GUILT |
| freed yourself from real as well as false guilts. If faith in God hinges on all these | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| feelings. How can we atone for these real guilts? Could you tell us something about the guilt | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| always is a lot of resistance to facing guilts. Whether they be guilts of commission or omission | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| of resistance to facing guilts. Whether they be guilts of commission or omission makes no difference; the | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| hidden opposites. In order to fully understand your guilts, you have to learn to pay attention to | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| blame in others to cover up your own guilts. What one sees in the other may be | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| done before you can eventually come to the guilts themselves. We have discussed before that people often | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| you needed the very attitudes that called the guilts into existence. All this is necessary if you | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| and restitution is change, because repetition of the guilts is then impossible. I do not have to | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| psychological obstructions. Once you have thoroughly understood your guilts because of your inner renewal and change, your | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| step closer to unearthing your present hopelessness, doubts, guilts, confusions, illusions. May you thus free yourself of | 110 HOPE AND FAITH AND OTHER KEY CONCEPTS DISCUSSED IN ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS |
| human being. The infant is not burdened with guilts, shames and misconceptions. Therefore, the instinctual drives manifest | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| one extreme are superimposed rules, taboos, and false guilts, which cause anger and rebellion. Such anger and | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| consequences. The freer you become of blind fears, guilts, and misconceptions, the more you can choose freely | 119 MOVEMENT, CONSCIOUSNESS, EXPERIENCE: PLEASURE, THE ESSENCE OF LIFE |
| this in a different context. Due to false guilts, a person's sexuality may remain selfishly childish and | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| shirking truth. Thus you prevent accumulating avoidable real guilts and putting yourself unnecessarily under the power of | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| your pathwork you have discovered unconscious misconceptions, false guilts, and destructive attitudes that prohibit it. You may | 124 THE LANGUAGE OF THE UNCONSCIOUS |
| summer you helped with some advice concerning her guilts. She has found it to be so, but | 128 LIMITATIONS CREATED THROUGH ILLUSORY ALTERNATIVES |
| kind because of the personality's unresolved problems, insecurity, guilts and doubts, uncertainties and contradictions. The issue itself | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| profound reason for your misconceptions, false fears and guilts, negativity and destructiveness. Deep within, you know that | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| that often manifests on the surface as unjustified guilts you cannot give up. The conflict also manifests | 149 COSMIC PULL TOWARD UNION -- FRUSTRATION |
| recognized and come to terms with, create false guilts and exaggerated standards of perfection. It is therefore | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| -- whether or not it also causes false guilts. This inner mechanism is exact. No self-deception or | 150 SELF-LIKING: THE CONDITION FOR UNIVERSAL STATE OF BLISS |
| outer freedom, you can safely assume that some guilts have not been faced. Childhood Trauma Not Directly | 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS |
| guilt you seek to explain away by false guilts unless you go through these steps. No matter | 176 OVERCOMING NEGATIVITY |
| man with a distorted, debilitating guilt feeling: false guilts, fear of a punishing God, a guilt that | 201 DEMAGNETIZING NEGATIVE FORCE FIELDS -- PAIN OF GUILT |
| by pointing out your real and your false guilts, but who has also confused you by the | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| this painful inner struggle in which the mutual guilts and accusations are all confused. Release and clarification | 202 PSYCHIC INTERACTION OF NEGATIVITY |
| the degree man does not face his fears, guilts, and weaknesses, he will play a power game | 229 WOMAN AND MAN IN THE NEW AGE |
| possible wrong perpetuates the wrong and creates secondary guilts that are much more severe and harder to | 247 THE MASS IMAGES OF JUDAISM AND CHRISTIANITY |
| build on deficit. When your real and false guilts prevent you from turning yourself fully over to | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| your helpers and peers and bring all your guilts, all your lower-self machinations to the fore, you | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| great as ever. These repressions and denials, these guilts and false shames are not merely a result | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| share. The denial of the fear caused secondary guilts. Some of these secondary guilts gave energy to | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| fear caused secondary guilts. Some of these secondary guilts gave energy to lower- self energy. Material greed | 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE |
| -- it is extremely difficult to accept your guilts and to find your real value. So what | 258 PERSONAL CONTACT WITH JESUS CHRIST-POSITIVE AGGRESSION-REAL MEANING OF SALVATION |