| Healthful...................5 | |
| turn harmful. Only assimilated, step-by-step growth is organic, healthful and constructive. If the outgoing person does not | 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES |
| your ego so as to nurture and cultivate healthful habits regarding food, sleep, exercise, in order to | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| role to play. Its task is to choose healthful habits regarding the activity of the mind, so | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| the self one tries to enforce. These are healthful habits, necessary for the involuntary processes to be | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| be reestablished in the personality. The cultivation of healthful mental habits chosen by the ego can be | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| Healthier...................30 | |
| for you than the other, it is infinitely healthier for your soul, strange as this may appear | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| choice, for even making a negative choice is healthier than not seeing the issues clearly, hoping to | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| who cannot do the latter, it is infinitely healthier to think of other people by helping them | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| are ready to do it. It is certainly healthier for the soul not to revolt against God | 38 IMAGES |
| a human being is -- it is certainly healthier to see this clearly instead of forcing it | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| they believe they save themselves from bondage. The healthier you are emotionally, the less of a show | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| completely different. No, my friends, it is much healthier if you say, Even if occasionally my decisions | 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| mean that these trends do not exist. The healthier a soul is, and the less influenced by | 62 MAN AND WOMAN |
| soul. I merely wish to state that the healthier a soul is, the more a hidden creativity | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| bearing on the particular wish. In short, the healthier your psyche, the better your inner will can | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| the former, these fears are very real. The healthier and sounder a person is, spiritually and emotionally | 67 QUESTION AND ANSWERS |
| human being rarely is -- it is certainly healthier to see this clearly instead of pushing and | 76 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS (Compiled from Private Sessions and Earlier Lectures) |
| your ability to live and experience pleasure. The healthier your attitude toward death, the more the life | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| cope with the unnecessary duality in a much healthier way. Simultaneously you also help to change the | 81 CONFLICTS IN THE WORLD OF DUALITY |
| a strong mask personality? ANSWER: Of course, the healthier a human being is, the weaker the idealized | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| may speak of primary and secondary reactions. The healthier a psyche is, the more free it is | 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS |
| into will, even if imperfect and immature, is healthier than a mature and healthy will that is | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| into action -- it will be so much healthier than willing something that is not you. If | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| those areas of your life where you are healthier and fulfilled because you are in reality. Coming | 129 WINNER VERSUS LOSER: INTERPLAY BETWEEN THE SELF AND CREATIVE FORCES |
| occurrence, whether by counterattack or by flight. The healthier the whole personality, the more certainly does this | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| among human beings: some function in a much healthier way than others, and their pleasure principle responds | 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS |
| lead to more control in a better, fuller, healthier sense. With a completely constructive psyche, the personality | 138 THE HUMAN PREDICAMENT OF DESIRE FOR, AND FEAR OF, CLOSENESS |
| semi-consciously, not ever completely unconsciously -- that the healthier they are to be, the more control they | 153 THE SELF-REGULATING NATURE OF INVOLUNTARY PROCESSES |
| grows, life itself expands. As a person becomes healthier and more whole, not only does the duration | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| growing experience. It is easily observable that the healthier a human being is, the less he or | 154 PULSATION OF CONSCIOUSNESS |
| place, your conscious ego-personality itself becomes stronger and healthier. It will be stronger in a good, relaxed | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| -- you may feel temporarily anxious. But the healthier you are, the more you trust, the more | 241 DYNAMICS OF MOVEMENT AND RESISTANCE TO ITS NATURE |
| then the self will grow even stronger and healthier through the very act of giving itself away | 254 SURRENDER |
| weakens the personality. It makes the positive ego healthier and stronger. It enables you to be more | 254 SURRENDER |
| is a cell of the Earth-plane entity. The healthier each cell becomes, the better can the total | 255 THE BIRTHING PROCESS -- COSMIC PULSE |
| Healthiest..................5 | |
| a completely different way. I would say the healthiest approach is to find an emotion in you | 63 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| -- creates an unhealthy climate that makes the healthiest emotional need into something bad. This fact requires | 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION |
| trouble spots without guilt or anger, is the healthiest way conceivable of practicing discipline and self-responsibility. In | 122 SELF-FULFILLMENT THROUGH SELF-REALIZATION AS MAN OR WOMAN |
| in life, as well as self-love in the healthiest sense, will fill you more and more, based | 182 PROCESS OF MEDITATION (MEDITATION FOR THREE VOICES: EGO, LOWER SELF, HIGHER SELF) |
| be in a state of self-love in the healthiest, most divine way, without a trace of self-indulgence | 226 APPROACH TO SELF -- SELF-FORGIVENESS WITHOUT CONDONING THE LOWER SELF |
| Healthily...................22 | |
| the price everyone must pay to live life healthily! What happens when you cannot attain these goals | 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE |
| destructive if not allowed to function openly and healthily. By the same token, Adam was as much | 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| interest. Or, to put it differently, unselfishness is healthily selfish. I said before that performing an unselfish | 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS |
| to this success, one may react differently and healthily in some areas of one's life, while a | 79 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS |
| that you consciously believe you are genuinely and healthily detached, but your exaggerated need merely festers underground | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| seemed contradictory in your belief that you are healthily interdependent with others. This healthy interdependence, however, can | 80 COOPERATION, COMMUNICATION, UNION |
| if your personality were whole and integrated, functioning healthily on all levels. It would manifest in a | 82 THE CONQUEST OF DUALITY SYMBOLIZED IN THE LIFE AND DEATH OF JESUS |
| life, not in an unhealthy, unreasonable way, but healthily as nature squanders herself. Then, and then only | 83 THE IDEALIZED SELF-IMAGE |
| be acted upon. Injustices or provocations will be healthily declared once the personality reaches inner health in | 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT |
| because a part of you grows organically and healthily according to the laws of nature, while another | 95 SELF-ALIENATION AND THE WAY BACK TO THE REAL SELF |
| other two are bound to function just as healthily, almost in an automatic fashion. Yet, at times | 103 HARM OF TOO MUCH LOVE GIVING -- CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE WILL FORCES |
| of the too-malleable soul-stuff that did not grow healthily into resilient elasticity. Over-tender soul-stuff causes both conscious | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| is elastic -- a mixture of resilient and healthily resistant softness. This combination produces the ideal conditions | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| others' demands on you -- when you cannot healthily assimilate, evaluate, and come to terms with the | 111 SOUL-SUBSTANCE -- COPING WITH DEMANDS |
| troubled area is. There are people who function healthily, happily, and constructively in many aspects of life | 133 LOVE: NOT A COMMANDMENT, BUT SPONTANEOUS SOUL MOVEMENT OF THE INNER SELF |
| that matters: self-realization. Then love between individuals happens healthily and naturally, in the best possible way. Contact | 146 POSITIVE CONCEPT OF LIFE-FEARLESSNESS TO LOVE-BALANCE BETWEEN ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY |
| totally lack self-assertion. Your inability or difficulty to healthily assert yourself is a direct result of having | 157 INFINITE POSSIBILITIES OF EXPERIENCE HINDERED BY EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY |
| be a perpetual turnover of energy in a healthily functioning person. This cannot take place when the | 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION |
| as a part of creation, difficulty in being healthily aggressive. Such an individual feels compelled to always | 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS |
| and if you are not sufficiently outgoing and healthily aggressive, or if you do not activate your | 169 THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE PRINCIPLES IN THE CREATIVE PROCESS |
| more profound level. This can only be done healthily without guilt when you have dealt with and | 207 THE SPIRITUAL SYMBOLISM AND SIGNIFICANCE OF SEXUALITY |
| run on assets. Only then can they function healthily with a constant balanced flow of giving and | 250 INNER AWARENESS OF GRACE -- EXPOSING THE DEFICIT |
| Healthy.....................802 | |
| buried, then you will benefit from using simple, healthy logic, which will tell you that nothing can | 3 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINY -- THE WILL TO CHANGE |
| another as love is being shared. Yet genuine, healthy love is indivisible; it never diminishes. The more | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| always loves more, never less. How can genuine, healthy love be attained? Not by trying to force | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| the wrong way because their soul is not healthy in this area, then the love for this | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| too strong feelings. When you love in a healthy and genuine way, you never compromise your dignity | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| always be able to stand up for yourself. Healthy dignity will bring you respect and not humiliation | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| bring you respect and not humiliation or exploitation. Healthy love will open your eyes instead of making | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| fulfillment of your own wishes. Genuine love is healthy, and as such free from masochistic or sadistic | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| of letting yourself flow and surrender in a healthy way. Those who make themselves too important must | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| strength which would otherwise work productively in a healthy channel and thus renew itself all the time | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| the unhealthy feelings cannot adapt themselves to the healthy, conscious thinking while they are hidden in the | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| which all humans who wish to live a healthy and harmonious life are subject, any reasonable human | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| or her unconscious emotional currents are not completely healthy and free. You should attribute enough importance to | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| feeling can in one case be right and healthy and in another case be sick. Perhaps you | 4 WORLD WEARINESS |
| heal themselves so that as free and emotionally healthy people they may be able to really give | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| only help others truly when you become so healthy that your inner harmony will affect people positively | 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE |
| God's love for you is a clean, strong, healthy love, and therefore a more farsighted and benevolent | 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES |
| overemphasized, and the result is disharmony; then the healthy instincts wither away. This is very much the | 6 THE HUMAN ROLE IN THE SPIRITUAL AND MATERIAL UNIVERSES |
| You will then, in your meditations, build good, healthy spiritual forms -- for instance by visualizing yourself | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| this. To want the overall goal with a healthy will is very important, but to exercise a | 7 ASKING FOR HELP AND HELPING OTHERS |
| is still present. It is an error in healthy, logical thinking. A revision of thinking is necessary | 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD |
| is justified and where you could feel a healthy, constructive repentance which would never drag you down | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| When you ask God for forgiveness with this healthy repentance and really want to change, you will | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| from one spot to another; if you have healthy limbs you can do it at will. But | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| But the question is, what kind of grief? Healthy sorrow does not feel like a heavy burden | 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER |
| being. It would not make sense for the healthy and harmonious feminine to change over to the | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| a feminine sign and yet be an entirely healthy man; the same holds for the woman who | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| a masculine sign. If a man is completely healthy and integrated -- which means he is fulfilling | 10 MALE AND FEMALE INCARNATIONS: THEIR RHYTHMS AND CAUSES |
| to be able to accept pain in a healthy way, as I have explained before. If you | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| want to see. This whole process is extremely healthy and it will give you infinitely more strength | 13 POSITIVE THINKING: THE RIGHT AND THE WRONG KIND |
| not. The person who wants to become happy, healthy, and at peace inwardly, needs, in order to | 14 THE HIGHER SELF, THE LOWER SELF, AND THE MASK |
| also a little humiliation, which is good and healthy for you, particularly in the connection I have | 17 THE CALL -- DAILY REVIEW |
| fellow-creatures is the goal. And only a very healthy, very integrated, and very harmonious person, a very | 18 FREE WILL |
| your personality and for the sake of a healthy and harmonious soul to separate these motives and | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| will be different. Whenever the soul is not healthy and mature, certain occasions will bring this out | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| outlined here. If you were entirely purified and healthy, you would not be sensitive to weather or | 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS |
| happiness, joy, pleasure -- if your soul becomes healthy again, if your inner reactions can conform to | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| receive criticism. The latter, of course, is equally healthy for the soul. Each one of you who | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| masks and defenses possible, you imbibe a very healthy medicine for yourself. At the same time you | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| be like this is to have a very healthy soul, because this means having strength, power, and | 26 FINDING ONE'S FAULTS |
| you meet them with open eyes and a healthy attitude and learn even while you are still | 31 SHAME |
| you are laying the foundation to a very healthy and normal inner attitude. Think and meditate about | 31 SHAME |
| know that this is not a good and healthy love, neither beneficial to you nor to the | 32 DECISION-MAKING |
| treated by yourself. But if you have no healthy self-respect and do not love your greater being | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| as you are. Thus you will have a healthy basis in your soul no matter how many | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| implies having no illusions about yourself; attaining a healthy attitude toward your shortcomings, and learning to live | 33 OCCUPATION WITH SELF -- RIGHT AND WRONG FAITH |
| of brotherhood will be furthered. It is so healthy for your soul to open itself to your | 35 TURNING TO GOD |
| hardship can exist is a distortion of a healthy and positive attitude. To find the right way | 37 ACCEPTANCE, RIGHT AND WRONG WAY -- DIGNITY IN HUMILITY |
| might contend that people can also have positive, healthy images engraved on their soul. That is seldom | 38 IMAGES |
| itself. To make the distorted emotions whole and healthy, one has to work on one's findings in | 39 IMAGE-FINDING |
| repentance. This knowledge of what to expect, this healthy attitude, this analysis of your feelings will lead | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| accepting pain -- and this is the only healthy way, avoiding both masochism and cringing revolt -- | 40 MORE ON IMAGE-FINDING: A SUMMARY |
| appears to us like a hardened form. The healthy soul where there is no image shows itself | 41 IMAGES: THE DAMAGE THEY DO |