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actions to God's laws. They will not be led to such a path as this. It is 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
you will be ready to be inspired and led even in the smallest things. Sometimes your answer 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
be shown to you and you will be led to certain tasks. For instance, one person may 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
incorporates oneself into one's proper place, and is led into harmony with the spiritual laws. Even before 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
cannot ever be taken away. Let yourself be led by God entirely; open yourself to His will 5 HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF OR HAPPINESS AS A LINK IN THE CHAIN OF LIFE
and more people with mediumistic talents will be led to you. You will be able to help 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
think that way. The same spite that originally led to the Fall is still present. It is 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
that is so, he or she will be led to it in meditation. But more often than 8 MEDIUMSHIP -- HOW TO CONTACT GOD'S SPIRIT WORLD
lies the germ through which you can be led into temptation. The dark forces serve as instruments 9 PRAYER AND MEDITATION -- THE LORD'S PRAYER
from the past. The past action that has led him into the present state is hidden from 18 FREE WILL
break the limitations. QUESTION: But not everyone is led to this path. There are millions of people 21 THE FALL
slightest possibility to take the path will be led somehow, somewhere to the right place, either to 21 THE FALL
who could take this path and who are led to where they could do it, finally do 21 THE FALL
free will of the individuals involved will have led up to the fulfillment of this plan, the 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
of harm is being done when people are led to understand that by following certain rules of 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
aspect. The wrong use of the power ultimately led to evil through a slow process, even if 25 THE PATH: INITIAL STEPS, PREPARATION, AND DECISIONS
you that. Examine the various chain reactions that led you to the present state, consider the repercussions 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
and preparations on earth checked, the entity is led into a different sphere. It is a great 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
cannot experience and relive the original feelings that led you to form the attitude in the first 39 IMAGE-FINDING
found their way here tonight. They have been led here. They listen and see. You too can 42 CHRISTMAS BLESSINGS -- OBJECTIVITY AND SUBJECTIVITY
extreme. They thus act from a wrong conclusion. Led by the wrong conclusion, they feel or unconsciously 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
impure spirit. And the purity of this spirit led to the misunderstanding of the meaning of the 43 THREE BASIC PERSONALITY TYPES: REASON, WILL, EMOTION
and separate from love. And this, in turn, led humanity to believe more and more that sex 44 THE FORCES OF LOVE, EROS, AND SEX
you have to live through the emotions that led you to create it. Only then will you 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
your life; you will come to understand what led you to believe -- perhaps unconsciously, but all 52 THE GOD-IMAGE
why? What brought this misconception into existence, what led to it? That will show where the obstruction 55 THREE COSMIC PRINCIPLES: THE EXPANDING, THE RESTRICTING, AND THE STATIC PRINCIPLES
isolated happening, separated from other events that have led up to it by reaction and counterreaction, through 59 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
to occur soon. The knowledge in your psyche led you to be on such a path at 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
turned out to be so tragically damaging. This led to the anthropomorphic concept of God who is 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
solutions are adopted, this instinct can also be led into a wrong channel, thereby generating poison. In 85 DISTORTIONS OF THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION
alone may be misleading because you ignore what led to this insult. Only the knowledge of all 87 THE NEXT PHASE ON THE PATH; QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
A combination of mixed inner trends may have led to this mixture. If the genuine element is 91 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
do not sacrifice. Hence you will not be led into the dangerous illusion of relinquishing something that 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
for the same motive. Yet, their backgrounds that led to these feelings, that led to this action 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING
their backgrounds that led to these feelings, that led to this action, as well as their overall 107 THREE ASPECTS THAT PREVENT LOVING
for the sake of loving. You will be led by concern for others and for what is 108 FUNDAMENTAL GUILT FOR NOT LOVING -- OBLIGATIONS
to be helped in understanding the aspects that led to this state, without frantically pushing against it 126 CONTACT WITH THE LIFE FORCE
such cases the pleasure principle has already been led into the negative channel and can be rechanneled 135 MOBILITY IN RELAXATION-SUFFERING THROUGH ATTACHMENT OF LIFE FORCE TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS
integrates with a part of yourself that has led you into blind alleys. But now the wiser 137 BALANCE OF INNER AND OUTER CONTROL
who wants to live it successfully, must be led according to these premises. You must find the 141 RETURN TO THE ORIGINAL LEVEL OF PERFECTION
came into existence in the first place, what led to it, what its history was long before 143 UNITY AND DUALITY
seemed insurmountable. Your personal strength and goodwill have led you to this growth, which must be experienced 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
easier to question and challenge the premises that led to the distortions in the first place. The 164 FURTHER ASPECTS OF POLARITY -- SELFISHNESS
humanity's striving away from the innermost kernel has led to erroneous ideas, destructive reactions and feelings; spiritual 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
suffering made them too blind because their blindness led them into suffering. Thus, they indulged their destructive 165 EVOLUTIONARY PHASES IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN REALMS OF FEELINGS, REASON, AND WILL
unconscious misconception. The misconception that sex is dirty led to the above-mentioned conflict, which led to the 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
is dirty led to the above-mentioned conflict, which led to the following vicious circle: the more he 171 SPIRITUAL LAWS
to his irrational thoughts, feelings, and wishes. This led to the awareness that he deliberately chooses his 179 CHAIN REACTIONS IN THE DYNAMICS OF CREATIVE LIFE SUBSTANCE
that comes from avoidance of relating has even led to concepts that spiritual growth is being furthered 180 THE SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP
than that of a helpless victim who is led to slaughter. Your fear, my friends, to go 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
having shed the body, some people who have led a difficult and apparently unspiritual life have done 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
process of evolution than some others who have led an extremely spiritual life and who may even 193 RÉSUMÉ OF THE BASIC PRINCIPLES OF THE PATHWORK: ITS AIM AND PROCESS
of our friends to take this step. This led to deep feelings and crying, but we helped 195 IDENTIFICATION WITH THE SPIRITUAL SELF TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE INTENTIONALITY
inability to assume responsibility for the self then led to the creation of an outer devil who 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
into a benign circle, almost inadvertently you are led naturally to an attitude of selfless giving. It 212 CLAIMING THE TOTAL CAPACITY FOR GREATNESS
some degree. Through psychology, a person could be led to accept his or her limitation, imperfection and 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
active evil? Active evil alone could never have led to the crucifixion of Jesus. It required the 244 BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD -- THE EVIL OF INERTIA
mistake. You may see the inner current that led you to the act, you may use the 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
self-will is not fulfilled, then you will be led to believe that you must either become the 245 CAUSE AND EFFECT ON VARIOUS LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS
prey to evil influences. Lack of self-knowledge inevitably led to lack of self-responsibility. Thus humanity felt victimized 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
victimized by evil spirits. Fear of them often led to submission to them -- and this happened 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
back to taking responsibility for themselves, and therefore led them to search within themselves, to an ever 248 THREE PRINCIPLES OF THE FORCES OF EVIL -- PERSONIFICATION OF EVIL
partners freely, motivated generally by love. This often led to errors, however. Too often individuals who were 251 THE EVOLUTION AND SPIRITUAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE -- NEW AGE MARRIAGE
Another kind of contradiction also exists that has led to many confusions in the human mind, particularly 253 CONTINUE YOUR STRUGGLE AND CEASE ALL STRUGGLE
 
 Ledger......................3
planned carefully and meticulously according to this general ledger. Before each incarnation, while planning it, the whole 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
Before each incarnation, while planning it, the whole ledger is shown to the entity. Whether or not 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
after the last one. Now its particular personal ledger is again examined along with the temporary plans 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
 
 Leeway......................9
a role in it; there is always enough leeway left for that, in both directions. Nevertheless, up 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
certain number of possibilities are open. We give leeway for all these possibilities when the time comes 23 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
The outer will must be serene and give leeway for life's hindrances and imperfections that make it 29 THE FORCES OF ACTIVITY AND PASSIVITY -- FINDING GOD'S WILL
stage of development. There must always be some leeway to see what humanity does with such findings 34 PREPARATION FOR REINCARNATION
you understand their lack of reason. Giving them leeway, and realizing that they are habit-bound will do 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
their previous actions and reactions. There is some leeway to that, but it is limited. A spirit 54 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
or bad, moralizing occurs. There is so much leeway, so much else that has nothing to do 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
where the parents gave the child too much leeway, continuously admiring it. This was probably due to 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
circuit. Inside that circuit there is a certain leeway for ideas, opinions, and possibilities you have made 224 CREATIVE EMPTINESS
 
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to do your best. This is certainly a legitimate wish. To be without desire in this respect 18 FREE WILL
your unconscious pseudo-protection is the frustration of the legitimate desire. This is very important to understand, my 38 IMAGES
you do not succeed in a conscious and legitimate desire, and looking at your life you find 50 THE VICIOUS CIRCLE
subtle and unobtrusive. You may have a perfectly legitimate desire, yet it may be unhealthy. Unhealthy and 56 CAPACITY TO WISH -- HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY MOTIVES IN DESIRE
and wish-fulfillments. Even if the desires are quite legitimate and healthy, you are still uncertain about them 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
dealt with in awareness. As a consequence, your legitimate and healthy desires and impulses, which are not 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
most childish and selfish impulses rather than your legitimate and healthy ones. This must offend others and 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
a certain stage. They find out that their legitimate desires and impulses were suppressed, but this discovery 64 OUTER WILL AND INNER WILL -- MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SELFISHNESS
discuss tonight is connected with the creative and legitimate desires that are often suppressed and the problems 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
soul. This desire in itself is not only legitimate and healthy, but it is also in its 69 THE FOLLY OF WATCHING FOR RESULTS WHILE ON THE PATH; THE VALID DESIRE TO BE LOVED
in detail. In previous talks, we discussed the legitimate desire to be loved. We also discussed how 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
to give. Your desire to be loved is legitimate only if you are prepared to give as 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
you must give up your personal integrity, your legitimate needs, your dignity. At another time we shall 71 REALITY AND ILLUSION CONCENTRATION EXERCISES
For instance, the desire for love is quite legitimate. But if this desire is used in your 78 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
geared toward obtaining safety, so it undermines another legitimate need. The soul rebels against this. It continues 86 THE INSTINCTS OF SELF-PRESERVATION AND PROCREATION IN CONFLICT
have shortchanged themselves of the satisfaction of a legitimate need. The first step, as always, must be 90 MORALIZING -- DISPROPORTIONATE REACTIONS -- NEEDS
paradox -- of what is a healthy and legitimate need and what is not. They intertwine and 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
but just as often the healthy, normal, and legitimate needs of every healthy human being cause equally 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
force to still the hunger is misdirected. Real, legitimate needs can be satisfied only with full awareness 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
of harmony you forfeit your equally healthy and legitimate need for self-assertion, independence, success, happiness, fulfillment -- 92 REPRESSED NEEDS - RELINQUISHING BLIND NEEDS - PRIMARY AND SECONDARY REACTIONS
for love is, in itself, a healthy and legitimate need. But the need for approval, at the 93 THE LINK BETWEEN THE MAIN IMAGE, REPRESSED NEEDS, AND DEFENSES
substitute need is pursued lustfully. No matter how legitimate, constructive, or rational it may be in itself 102 THE SEVEN CARDINAL SINS
disturb you and you attribute that to the legitimate pain of loss. Thus you have shifted your 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
unhappiness. You use a false reason you call legitimate to justify running away from yourself and to 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
not know why. One may try to find legitimate excuses and reasons, but in one's heart of 106 SADNESS VERSUS DEPRESSION -- RELATIONSHIP
miss them. You will learn to take seemingly legitimate excuses with a grain of salt. Resistance exists 114 STRUGGLE: HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY
necessarily. You may be as ashamed of very legitimate needs as you are of faults, or of 117 SHAME: A LEGACY OF CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES, EVEN FAVORABLE ONES
of giving and receiving, or any other natural, legitimate need and self-expression, hidden one-sidedness often creates overt 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
forces you to abandon a different, but equally legitimate need. You may still lack the necessary information 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
the need for ego- gratification. All these are legitimate needs, provided they are not overgrown and one 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
the childish greed exists, but also about the legitimate, rightful desire to receive. You feel just as 121 DISPLACEMENT, SUBSTITUTION, SUPERIMPOSITION
you have a desire or aim which is legitimate and realistic, yet remains unfulfilled, what blocks it 131 INTERACTION BETWEEN EXPRESSION AND IMPRESSION
of this duality. Intense physical pleasure is a legitimate need and legitimate longing because it is part 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
Intense physical pleasure is a legitimate need and legitimate longing because it is part of the universal 159 LIFE MANIFESTATION REFLECTS DUALISTIC ILLUSION
you are supposed to want, what is a legitimate need on your part, you get confused between 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE
unreasonable and unrealizable love and attention, and the legitimate adult need for human warmth and affection. In 162 THREE LEVELS OF REALITY FOR INNER GUIDANCE
inner will. Often the desire itself may be legitimate and even healthy, as I implied before. But 168 TWO BASIC WAYS OF LIFE: TOWARD AND AWAY FROM THE CENTER
your own experience. Tonight we shall discuss the legitimate need for pleasure and its purpose for the 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
gratifying ego goals than fulfilling the real and legitimate need of the entity for bathing in the 177 PLEASURE -- THE FULL PULSATION OF LIFE
order to find an outlet for itself, for legitimate hostile feelings and activities. This is why you 181 THE MEANING OF THE HUMAN STRUGGLE
compulsion to overspend and be irresponsible is a legitimate yearning for pleasure, expansion and new experience, this 184 THE MEANING OF EVIL AND ITS TRANSCENDENCE
unaware of a great need, perhaps of a legitimate human fulfillment, that creates on a less conscious 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
a deep longing or need. At times, a legitimate human need may be distorted by a so-called 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
need always harbors the germ of a real, legitimate need. Therefore it must not be totally thrown 186 VENTURE IN MUTUALITY: HEALING FORCE TO CHANGE NEGATIVE INNER WILL
for this higher, more fulfilling state is a legitimate, healthy need. When this need becomes conscious, a 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
most painful element is the unfulfillment of your legitimate needs as a child. As I discussed in 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
need. The more the pain of the unfulfilled legitimate need remains unfelt, or only half experienced, the 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
and your present real need will be fulfilled. Legitimate needs can be fulfilled only to the degree 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
better. You may indeed deceive others about how legitimate your case is. You may even deceive your 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
you find the truth where your non- recognized, legitimate needs as a child created fear and pain 192 REAL AND FALSE NEEDS
enriches you and is a fulfillment of a legitimate need, but it is not the substance of 204 WHAT IS THE PATH?
give up something precious that is, in itself, legitimate and that you should indeed have. Does letting 213 THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PRACTICAL MEANING OF LET GO, LET GOD
higher self for perfection is of course a legitimate movement, for the soul knows that this state 234 PERFECTION, IMMORTALITY, OMNIPOTENCE
Obviously, every one of these longings is most legitimate. Do not infer from my words that they 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING
the contrary is true. These longings are most legitimate. However, there is an enormous difference between seeing 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING
various ways, such as the conscious, subsidiary but legitimate longings I mentioned before, or in displaced longings 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING
into more superficial, even though in themselves quite legitimate fears and longings. Have the courage and commitment 243 THE GREAT EXISTENTIAL FEAR AND LONGING
impossible, and closeness is surely one of your legitimate needs. So is privacy. If privacy and secrecy 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY
for privacy must be shortchanged. Privacy is a legitimate need of the soul. You need to be 252 PRIVACY AND SECRECY

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